Sweet Serendipity

Don't think, "I want this, so I'll persist until I have it." It's: "I have it. I don't need to do anything but actively assume I have it. I am persisting by just existing. I am persisting by default because it is always so; I assume it is so, so it's so."

Nah, fuck them. You’ve done enough reaching out. Not worth it anymore. Take it from someone who has done that and has gone beyond himself for other people. And when i stopped doing that i never spoke to a lot of people anymore. So don’t go out of your way for people. If you always kept it solid and real there’s no reason to reach out. Let them fucking miss you. And if they don’t even better, let them fucking lose you. Reaching out over and over again will make you feel worse every time and will probably make you look less important and like youre begging. So don’t do it. You gotta be willing to lose people who are willing to lose you. Keep that pride and self respect and move the fuck on. They aint worth it!