Ashley 🏳️‍⚧️

I hate the "early-transition trans women are always wearing amazon basics skirts" stereotype so much lol

-she shops online instead of going to real stores, lol what a neet basement dweller

-she buys from amazon, she both has no sense of personal style and is an unethical consumer giving money to bezos

-she is sticking to basic, stock standard, stereotypical presentation of femininity, lol isn't it funny that she's taking careful baby steps and doesn't feel comfortable branching out?

it's the amazon that really does it in for me. when cis women wear basic clothing it's the "clean girl" aesthetic, when trans women do it it's shallow, consumerist, mass-produced, "basic" in all the wrong ways. "clean girls" don't get made fun of for having walmart-ass wardrobes do they?

a cis woman's choices about her wardrobe are always conscious, intentional, well-considered. a trans woman's are unthinking, dumb, she just grabs the first thing she sees

it's sorta funny (ignoring the horrors) that cis people can't be trusted with a deadname. any time someone tells me theirs I've forgotten it five minutes later, if you had names for your toes that would be far more interesting to me, but cis people get real "if you give a mouse a cookie" about it it

orrangeslices

I'm terrified of people even knowing it, because I know that some people will instantly lock that into their heads as my "real name" and eventually slip and say it instead

Something something that charlottan post about how even if people have only ever known you as the gender you transitioned to, they're still gonna think "oh they're just a boy that I need to remember to call a girl"

Most people won't slip up like that, the average cis person walks on eggshells so they don't accidentally reveal they're just humoring us out of a sense of obligation, they'll think about it and get even more anxious while doing that. This reinforces the wall between them and any insight into the situation.

a wild strawman appears

does someone stand behind these people with a gun forcing them to type this shit where everyone can see it. what in the fuck is even going on

like IMAGINE just admitting this, under no duress

infinite-planes

Yeah a comment like that goes in the tags, which are considered private. Fortunately that’s where it was

I get a notification for every note, including this one. They are very much not considered private, if anything you are sending them directly to me.

private area do not read

"the tags, which are considered private"

phallicide

during my 2,000 years in military service upon the wartorn world of Bantok, we had a member of our unit named Private Tags who was so covered in skin tags you couldnt see his real face. Saying the tag arent private dishonors his memory in incomprhensibly vile ways, youre all going ot mega hell

ah PFC Tags. we miss him every day. war is hell

doyoulovethewayzeylily

great post! funny how all the trans women are deleted

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the tadc finale was made for messy transfems and if you dont like it go fuck off and watch cis people shows

timmies when they realize theyve been empathizing with a problematic tranny this whole time

genuinely? genuinely. genuinely. i am so so so fucking happy that something For Us got this big, its in theaters, it beat fucking star wars. im so glad that after the whole queer cartoon boom of the 2010s we finally got one that doesnt just have a transfeminine character but is ABOUT one. by a trans woman. i just. fuck you cis people. its about us this time. for once.

the tadc finale was made for messy transfems and if you dont like it go fuck off and watch cis people shows

timmies when they realize theyve been empathizing with a problematic tranny this whole time

genuinely? genuinely. genuinely. i am so so so fucking happy that something For Us got this big, its in theaters, it beat fucking star wars. im so glad that after the whole queer cartoon boom of the 2010s we finally got one that doesnt just have a transfeminine character but is ABOUT one. by a trans woman. i just. fuck you cis people. its about us this time. for once.

like we've basically been browbeaten into ignoring the KoG thing but like, CLEARLY terrace had a kneejerk reaction to trans women reacting to her character. and like, to do this on a show being published by a studio that- let's be clear- has its success and reach because of a trans woman's writing, is such a fucking slap in the face. the fact that the scene in question, the one performing the masculization and threatening our Certified Cis Woman is voiced by a transfeminine person? fucking INSANE.

like stop defending a cis woman you've never met and recognize that like, she's not a pot-banging chest-thumping bigot, but plainly there's some subconscious bias that is confused and off-put by the idea of trans women being women with complex relationships to femininity and an inner life, but perfectly fine with trans women being big threatening baddies who impose masculine force upon you.

and ofc people construe this as some character attack on her instead of as one example of the wider way tme people treat and view transfemininity and a chance for other tmes to self-reflect.

of course, that's probably why they're so defensive; they, too, are confused and off-put by the idea that they might have been tricked into perceiving a trans woman as a woman and even, horror of horrors, empathizing with her.