About women & tattoos, written by a woman with tattoos...
I will not provide a gendered analysis of tattoos because they already exist. Instead, I will focus on the art form itself and how it manifests differently in the lives of women who embrace it in society. I am one of these proud women and here is my story, or at least some of it.
The summer after freshman year in college, I got inked for the first time in my life. With my own, hard-earned money, I paid more than $100 to get a tattoo on my upper back. It was impulsive, a decision that many would incorrectly stereotype as being typical of getting a tattoo.
Although I knew exactly why I was getting a quote from my favorite book, my mom quickly disapproved and couldnât believe I was so immature and careless. My father did not object. He accompanied me to the tattoo parlor in Sunset Park, where I grew up as a child, and the process took no longer than twenty minutes.
Nothing, however, would prepare me for the treatment I received about my tattoo from my supervisor, other family members and peers that summer. Comments such as, âWow, those are big letters,â âWhat font is it,â âWhat does it mean,â âDid it hurt,â Why that quote,â I donât get itâ were the usual questions. I grew accustomed to having my body artwork questioned, interrogated and frowned upon.
I even noticed my supervisor change her attitude towards me. She grew weary of my interactions with students, so much so that at the end of the summer, she pulled me aside and told me I was not a good influence on her students. I could not believe it. I did not get a tattoo to challenge her authority or her college program. I wasnât trying to challenge anyone, but express myself as the artist/writer I am. Why was I being received so negatively by the people I thought I could trust and depend on for my own personal and professional growth?
How are young women, regardless of their ethnicity, race, socioeconomic status, religious or political beliefs, consistently ostracized and stereotyped for having tattoos? I believe any woman reading this article can agree with me that it is difficult enough living as a woman in this world. Can you imagine how much more difficult it becomes when you are stereotyped as âpromiscuous, easy, unintelligent, and carelessâ because of your tattoos?
The question on Debate.org is, âAre tattoos negatively stereotyped in the United States?â One comment on the disagree side resonated with me: âBecause anyone who discriminates against someone who has made the personal choice to get a tattoo (as long as it isn't a swastika, etc.) is just as bad as someone discriminating against someone who has made the personal choice to be a Christian, Jew, or Muslim and I believe that is dead wrong.â I couldnât agree more with this comforting sentiment.
But after reviewing some of the comments in response to this contentious topic, I stumbled upon another article written by Medical Dailyâs Lizette Borreli. He complicates the debate even further. According to a University of Texas at San Antonio study, men perceive women with tattoos as more sexually active than those who do not sport them.
However, the author of the study, a psychology student at the university, admits that her results are far from conclusive. She points to the inconsistency among earlier studies about the issue and why it is important for future studies to be mindful of these inconsistences in their gendered analyses of tattoo wearers.
In difference to this study, another article points quite humorously to the meanings behind popular tattoos sported by both men and women in society. Aside from feeling grateful that my tattoo ideas were not on the list, I could not believe the sheer amount of meanings attributed to certain forms of art. For example, one tattoo, the âlive, laugh, loveâ one, dons the following description:
You are the ultimate hunzo of the 2k6 era. You canât go a day without saying âYoloâ or âEverything happens for a reason.â Marilyn Monroe is probably your idol and you believe living, laughing and loving will get you through life. Good luck with that.
Although there is a part of me that agrees with the above sentiment while holding back a laugh or two, I also believe it is incredibly unfair and insensitive to attach such a general description to said tattoo. Regardless of gender or sexual orientation, people make the decision to get inked for a variety of reasons. I find it hard to believe that every person with the same tattoo was motivated by the same reason.
In Bodies of Subversion: A Secret History of Women and Tattoo, Margot Mifflin explores the inextricable relationship between women and tattooing, specifically focusing on the long history of tattooing among women who worked in circuses, art shows, and county fairs. As a legitimate art form, tattooing dates back to the nineteenth-century. To my amazement, photos of young and old women alike donning full-body pieces pervade the first few pages of the book.
Motivated by different reasons, each woman unashamedly showcases her body for the camera, which stands in stark contrast to the pornographic and provocative photoshoots of women common in magazines today. There is something undeniably beautiful and inspiring about the way they carry themselves in these photos, a clear message to society that their bodies are not for sale or digital enhancement. Mifflinâs work gives a clear face to the many women, tattoo shop owners and artists alike, who make honest, professional lives out of the art form.
Furthermore, it successfully debunks the stereotypes attributed to women who are tattooed by tracing the history of tattooing all the way back to the 1800s. I do not have to hide behind my current tattoos and the others I plan on getting in the future because of the countless women who have paved the way for me to be able to fearlessly own my body and every curve in it. Tattoos included!
Bodies are canvasses waiting to be painted, adorned and loved by ink. For many women, tattooing is an empowering act that releases them from their oppressions and past traumas. It is absolutely crucial to educate others around this beautiful art form and why it should not be criminalized or frowned upon. I reclaim my body a little more with every permanent letter or image I etch into my skin and it is because I am worth it. I will not be categorized or discriminated against because of my tattoos, and neither should you.









