as an old aroace Bloodymary shipper, i'm just getting increasingly annoyed by other aroaces who demand that shippers adhere to very specific aroace headcanons.
yes, aroace Grace is a popular headcanon (note: not canon, but headcanon).
no, you should not be shaming people for shipping him in different ways with other characters. literally wtf.
to my fellow aroace peeps: no one is stopping y'all from seeing him as aroace. but you are actively trying to stop others from their own headcanons (most of which include some degree of aroace or platonic relationships anyway)
like, there is so much fandom policing in the PHM fandom i swear
and then people who don't even ship these ships come to the ship tags to complain about us not making him aroace even though a lot of people are but it's just not in the exact way you want, and i'm like can you not??
