Someday my prince will come

Hihi! I'm a true 1w9 <3

How to know if you’re an ENTJ or INTJ when you’re 3w2? I feel like 3w2 enneagram makes me an introverted extrovert or vice versa somehow. I am deadly focused on productivity and have no feelings in my day to day relationships. If I pursue a relationship it’s either I see that person as deserving of me and want to build a future with that person or helps me to achieve something/get somewhere. But at the same time I am extremely admiration addicted. I am abstract and appear often introverted because I don’t people please but at the same time I am pretty sure Te is my primary function. Do you have a general advice for detecting the primary function in 3w2?

While w2 wants others to see them as perfect in every way and will hide anything unpleasant from others and themselves. Also, 2 is super ego so a lot of "should" is involved (doing things you don't want to do but doing it because that's what good person does).

If someone brought up something unpleasant about you (trauma etc.) would you change the subject and focus on how wonderful you are or would you bask in feelings of brokenness?

As an ENTJ 3 you should be no nonsense and work focused most of the time but with 2 who is the most emotional of all types you'll want love from others. And with 4 separation.

How to know if you’re an ENTJ or INTJ when you’re 3w2? I feel like 3w2 enneagram makes me an introverted extrovert or vice versa somehow. I am deadly focused on productivity and have no feelings in my day to day relationships. If I pursue a relationship it’s either I see that person as deserving of me and want to build a future with that person or helps me to achieve something/get somewhere. But at the same time I am extremely admiration addicted. I am abstract and appear often introverted because I don’t people please but at the same time I am pretty sure Te is my primary function. Do you have a general advice for detecting the primary function in 3w2?

+ accommodating love interest dialogue :)) feel free to use <3

“how many times do i have to tell you you can trust me?”

“what can i get you? do you need water? a hug? space?”

“i’m sorry. i just don’t think i’m ready.” “don’t apologize. it’s okay.”

“i think i’m ready.”

“thank you for being patient.” “you never have to thank me for that.”

“are you frustrated with me?” “never.”

“i just don’t want to be hurt again.” “i understand.”

“can you give me a second? i need a moment.”

“don’t apologize.” “sorry.” “name.”

“it’s okay. take your time.”

“if you tell me you want me to leave i’m gone, okay? don’t ever feel like you can’t take a break from me.”

when the love interest first asks them out and they’re like i’m really sorry but no… but the love interest doesn’t mind

“would you like to go on a date?” “i could do a date.”

love can be very much hesitant. not very many people meet someone in their life that they’ll be 100% sure of, romantic or not.

some people have been hurt before, and some people reflect that. they reflect that fear to open up again, that reluctance, just the overall being burned and being afraid to be burned once more.

love is very very much hesitant. even if they haven’t been hurt before no one wants to jump into a relationship headfirst not knowing if the other person even feels the same. EVERYTHING is hesitant. meeting new people is hesitant. moving into new parts of life is hesitant. living is hesitant. we’re human. love is not an exemption.