Destined with You (μ΄ μ°μ λ λΆκ°νλ ₯) - Whump List
Whumpee : Jang Shin Yu played by Rowoon
Synopsis : Lee Hong Jo is the lowest grade civil servant. One day, she happens to become the owner of an old wooden chest and the key to lift a curse from Jang Shin Yu. Jang Shin Yu is a competent lawyer who is smart and good-looking. He is usually in the spotlight wherever he goes, but he suffers from an unexplained disease. His condition gets progressively worse. He is desperate to lift the curse that has run through his family for generations. (MDL)
Genres :Β Comedy,Β Romance,Β Fantasy
Warning! Possible spoilers below!
Ep 1 : Seems to be cursed by some sort of ghost hand, uncomfortable, cursed hand touching his face β Disturbed by the cursed hand once again, stumbling, shaky breathing, struggling to stay up, seems to be in pain β Hand shaking β At the doctor, told he has a vascular problem in his brain, told he might lose sense in his hands and feet
Ep 2 : Hand shaking β Uncomfortable while driving, in pain, shaking, cursed hand comes out, almost crashes the car, small car accident, shaky breathing
Ep 3 : Taking some medication, grabbing his chest β Feeling a bit unwell, heart beating fast β Leaning on his car
Ep 4 : None
Ep 5 : Drunk, nauseousΒ
Ep 6 : Slapped
Ep 7-8 : None
Ep 9 : In a hospital bed, unconscious, concern for him β Has been unconscious for 2 days, concern for him β Wakes up, concern for him
Ep 10 : Cursed hand appears, unwell, flinching
Ep 11 : (Repeat of previous scene) Cursed hand appears, unwell, flinching, concern for him
Ep 12 : Worried for someone β Cursed hand appears, collapses, in pain β Found unconscious, concern for him (Gif Set), brought to the hospital
Ep 13 : Drunk β Found bleeding out on the ground
Ep 14 : Stabbed, knife thrusted deeper, collapses, found in a puddle of his own blood with the knife still in him, concern for him, speaking weakly (Gif Set), brought to the hospital on a stretcher, ambu bag, bleeding out, in cardiac arrest, shocked multiple times β (Past life) Shot with an arrow, falls from his horse, pulls out the arrow, fighting while injured, cut multiple times β (Present) In cardiac arrest, shocked, heart starts beating again, brought to the operation room β Unconscious in a hospital bed, wakes up, weak
Ep 15 : Scar shown
Ep 16 : Worried for someone, crying, sobbing, collapses on his knees
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
β Live Streamingβ Interactive Chatβ Private Showsβ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch β’ No registration required β’ HD streaming
can you PLEASE put your age in your about/sidebar and make sure itβs accessible on mobile. imo if youβre an adult esp 20+ itβs a little weird that you wouldnβt have your age readily available on your blog. if youβre reading this now and you donβt have your age listed, please rectify that. i feel like teenagers get lured into talking to adults in fandom/lgbt spaces that they may not have intentionally sought out because they think theyβre talking to other teenagers, and this can lead to a lot of other β much more insidious βproblems
Can you guys step out of the tumblr βeveryone over 20 is inherently predatory and creepy towards childrenβ bubble for once and consider that encouraging people to give up their personal information for the imagined safety of the community is likeβ¦not safe?
this advice doesnβt even make sense for multiple reasons; if someone is intent on preying upon minors, all they have to do is follow your advice and lie about their age, being over 20 doesnβt mean you canβt be preyed on yourself, you should never be coerced into giving up your privacy on social media (seriously, did a fed write this?), and promoting the idea that turning 20 means your interactions with younger people should be viewed with suspicion is absolutely harmful, like OP do you have any common sense? At all?
βignore your own privacy boundaries and discomfort and if you donβt idk π€sounds a lil sus 2 me, pedophileβ will you guys stop larping as conservative politicians for one second please
think-of-the-children fearmongering is not the same thing as actually protecting minors
Youβre talking about - much more insidious - problems while telling people if you donβt do what I tell you, you might be a threat to the safety of our community, like okay Dubya!
Let me tell you about the insidious things that happened when I was young in fandom spaces and older fans became my friends
1. I was taught real sex ed by a midwife, including a lot of pros and cons of various birth control
2. I learned you can just get anything printed into a book and having it in a physical book donβt legitimize something
3. I learned how to enjoy other cultures without making people from those cultures uncomfortable
4. I realized my guardians, while better than my past guardians, were still abusive and what I was experiencing was not healthy, even if distressingly common
5. I learned generosity without ulterior motives actually did exist
6. I learned I donβt have to abandon the things I enjoy as I get older.
7. I was taught ways to treat people differently in deference to their age while still treating them as peers.
(they treated me as an equal, but I was not included in any sexual discussions, for example)
8. I learned that friendships donβt have to be quid pro quo
All of these things super insidious and destructive to the conservative agenda.
Destroying the links between generations is part of how the powerful keep us from forming communities and bettering our lives. Donβt do the mastersβ work for them.
Back in the day, it was considered taboo to publicly release ANY private information about yourself. Your real name, your age, where you lived, what you looked like, all that shit was reserved for people you spoke to privately. The Internet was a place of personalities and that was it.
Adults interacting with minors is only creepy if the adults in the interaction are creepy. Not every adult on the internet is malicious. On the contrary, a lot of us want to help teach yall how to SPOT AND AVOID malicious adults.
I really, truly, cannot wrap my mind around how it got to the point where kids on social media these days actually believe that everybody is entitled to everybodyβs personal information online.
Iβve been actively using the internet since the early 2000s, and to this day, I donβt put my real name, age, birthday, and exact location on public display.
I donβt owe you my privacy.
Iβm here to chill and ramble in my little corner of the internet and shitpost with my internet friends. I offer a safe space for anyone who wants/needs it. Itβs a you problem if you think weβre all here to be predators based on nothing more than age demographics.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
β Live Streamingβ Interactive Chatβ Private Showsβ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch β’ No registration required β’ HD streaming
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
β Live Streamingβ Interactive Chatβ Private Showsβ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch β’ No registration required β’ HD streaming
A long time ago an anon asked my thoughts about drawing backgrounds, so I finally got around to putting this together. Itβs more prop-centric, but it still represents my philosophy to backgrounds.Β
Iβll try to do something more about drawing actual background spaces in the future! Please let me know what you think, if anything is unclear, or if you have suggestions for other tutorials you might find helpful!
A tutorial on meatspace I made for my patrons last year! Making things exist in the same space believably is a difficult process, but hopefully this will help drawing softbodied subjects interacting together a little easier!
I took a bunch of ND courses last year after getting my ADHD diagnosis. They helped, but it was SO much information. I had a friend help me make a flow chart for it; then I turned it into index cards; then I made them pretty.
Yours will look different--my needs are not your needs, and my art is not your art. But if you find yourself burdened with the knowledge that you HAVE coping skills but you keep forgetting what they are... a pretty little visual guide won't hurt.
Also, my last therapist found it super impressive, and who doesn't like validation from their therapist?
As AI application starts to expand rapidly in it's uses and abilities, there is an understandable amount of scepticism and discussion about how it can negatively impact how our society develops.
On the flipside of this, I'd like to share a couple of AI tools which I've found incredibly useful. As someone with pretty severe executive disfunction, I've always dreamed about being able to have a personal assistant to help me out when I am struggling.
If you haven't already tried it out, take a look at goblin.tools
This AI tool helps me in so many ways. From finding the right words, assembling ingredients into a meal, checking how my tone comes across in a message, to breaking down overwhelming tasks into manageable steps.
I also really like mymind
It's like a pinterest board, bookmark manager and general braindump tool that has helped me organise all the different projects, ideas and general digital hoarding into one place - that I can actually search and find all the relevant things without agonising over file organisation and bookmark labelling.
If you have trouble with keeping a hundred pinned tabs on your browser like I do, this tool can actually really help letting go of the anxiety of losing those things without the fear you will never come back to it again.
As much as I share some of the trepidation about this powerful new tech and we should definitely keep questioning how it is being rolled out into every facet of our lives - it can also be a very real accessibility aid for neurodivergent folks.
No amount of notebooks, lists, alarms and calendar reminders comes close to how these have helped me with ADHD symptoms.
I'd hate for that to be overlooked in all the backlash against AI in general.
I do love the phrase executive dysfunction bc the image it conjures is of a bunch of people wearing business suits around a long oval conference tableΒ arguing with each other to the point where theyβre getting into physical fights, but in the background thereβs just a big empty whiteboard with a To Do list with one item on it and that item is βtake showerβ
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
β Live Streamingβ Interactive Chatβ Private Showsβ HD Quality
Anya is LIVE right now
FREE
Free to watch β’ No registration required β’ HD streaming
Here are all the Whump Lists and Gifs I made. Don't hesitate to recommend me whumpy asian dramas ! I also take requests for lists and gifs (ask or DM).
Hydration tip for people with ADHD (and other neurodivergent/disabled folks)
Always keep a jug of water in your room. Often, I forget to drink water, don't feel thirst, or feel too tired to go downstairs. But if it's always in proximity, it becomes 10x easier to stay hydrated. So, when I'm feeling alright I go downstairs and get a giant ass jug of water, bring it upstairs and keep drinking it until it's empty.
