All the Things

This is perfect! Might pin it! 😂😂

You can base original characters off of them, thats also fine.

You can have thoughts and imagines about them.

But what you can't do is inject yourself into their life and get upset when they dont do what you want. That is Parasocial behavior and its very unhealthy. Celebrities are real people with lives that dont involve random people on the internet. Yes, they can interact and be very gracious to their fans, but at the end of the day, they are like us. They also have emotions and people they love that they need to protect.

Its okay to not vibe with someone, but its not okay to assume that a relationship is PR or toxic based on a few photos and appearances. Thats not your business. I get the entertainment value behind Blind Items, but they are ultimately fanfiction and false accusations that have no basis. To those that believe them, its because you are jealous and thats what it boils down to.

Going back to Sebastian and Annabelle, they do not deserve this hate. You say you're a fan, but let's say they are expecting a child... what does this have to do with you personally? You do not get to have a say in what they can and can't do. They do not have to confirm anything for you. They are not at your disposal. And Ive been seeing people say that if Seb has a kid, he has to cut back or quit acting altogether... are you blind? There are literally DOZENS of actors who have several children who acted and did several projects while raising a family. Ya'll just don't want him to be happy with anyone but you. Which lets face it, none of you would ever hold a candle to who he really loves. Thats his world and you are just a grain of sand in it. They are adults, they can drink and do whatever... get off your high horses and grow up.

So, respect his boundaries and do some searching inside.

How do you not recognize that you’re WAY too caught up if you don’t realize this? I’ve seen a few fans say they’re taking a step back from fandom because they’re too fixated on all of this. That’s wise and mature. Really, more than an eyebrow raise or a nod about some celebrity’s PRIVATE LIFE, is bananas.

I read some fan say this PR thing has gotten out of hand and “how much more do we have to endure?”

Ma’am. Miss. Dear heart.

😅

Another said Annabelle baits fans with some of her posts.

Homie 🫤.

*You* are not enduring anything. It’s nothing to do with you.

How would you know WHAT she posts…UNLESS YOU’RE CHECKING HER POSTS?! WHY are you checking her posts?

Annabelle could post 100 nudes per day or photos of the victims of her serial k*lling spree and I’d be none the wiser 🤷🏾‍♀️. Know why?

I have stepped away from the fandom for the most part because of stuff like this. I mean I still adore him and reblog pretty pictures of him but the rest of it, i stay away from it. His personal life is none of my business. If the baby rumours are true then I’m truly happy for them both. I really am because I am a fully fledged card carrying member of humanity and not a conspiracy theorist because my favourite dared to have a personal life without my express permission (I’m being sarcastic in case you didn’t get it)

Some of the conspiracy theories I’ve had the misfortune to stumble across (because that is what they are) have been WILD. I truly do not understand the reasoning behind any of it, the accusations of baiting for example, which is a theme as old as time with internet boyfriends who dare to get a personal life, their significant others are always without fail, portrayed as demons by frankly unhinged fan people with nothing better to do with their lives. They do not know nor do they care that you exist. Right now they have far better, more productive things to with their lives than annoy fangirls on IG or wherever (You wish)

You can base original characters off of them, thats also fine.

You can have thoughts and imagines about them.

But what you can't do is inject yourself into their life and get upset when they dont do what you want. That is Parasocial behavior and its very unhealthy. Celebrities are real people with lives that dont involve random people on the internet. Yes, they can interact and be very gracious to their fans, but at the end of the day, they are like us. They also have emotions and people they love that they need to protect.

Its okay to not vibe with someone, but its not okay to assume that a relationship is PR or toxic based on a few photos and appearances. Thats not your business. I get the entertainment value behind Blind Items, but they are ultimately fanfiction and false accusations that have no basis. To those that believe them, its because you are jealous and thats what it boils down to.

Going back to Sebastian and Annabelle, they do not deserve this hate. You say you're a fan, but let's say they are expecting a child... what does this have to do with you personally? You do not get to have a say in what they can and can't do. They do not have to confirm anything for you. They are not at your disposal. And Ive been seeing people say that if Seb has a kid, he has to cut back or quit acting altogether... are you blind? There are literally DOZENS of actors who have several children who acted and did several projects while raising a family. Ya'll just don't want him to be happy with anyone but you. Which lets face it, none of you would ever hold a candle to who he really loves. Thats his world and you are just a grain of sand in it. They are adults, they can drink and do whatever... get off your high horses and grow up.

So, respect his boundaries and do some searching inside.

How do you not recognize that you’re WAY too caught up if you don’t realize this? I’ve seen a few fans say they’re taking a step back from fandom because they’re too fixated on all of this. That’s wise and mature. Really, more than an eyebrow raise or a nod about some celebrity’s PRIVATE LIFE, is bananas.

I read some fan say this PR thing has gotten out of hand and “how much more do we have to endure?”

Ma’am. Miss. Dear heart.

😅

Another said Annabelle baits fans with some of her posts.

Homie 🫤.

*You* are not enduring anything. It’s nothing to do with you.

How would you know WHAT she posts…UNLESS YOU’RE CHECKING HER POSTS?! WHY are you checking her posts?

Annabelle could post 100 nudes per day or photos of the victims of her serial k*lling spree and I’d be none the wiser 🤷🏾‍♀️. Know why?

captain america: civil war | 2016