Swords & Pens

Trying to put myself out there a bit more, so I’m planning on going to a couple of queer parties over the next few months. The first is a mixed LGBTQIA+ day party, so I’m planning on wearing these pants (mostly because I like the cute hearts), and maybe just wearing a distressed grey/black top with them. Then there’s a night time event for women only, so I’m trying to aim for that balance of a bit more sophistication without looking too bdsm’y idk.

Colleague: ‘it’s so much harder to make friends as an adult, it’s not like you can just approach some random person and ask them to play with you’

I don’t care if I just took a crappy angle photo while wearing comfy over sexy undies, I’m almost 47 and I can’t be bothered spending 30 minutes fine tuning my body image on a screen.