Sarah talked about consent in hosab interview.
It is so important to me to have that there.
I know she is talking about sexual scenes in that interview but when you look at Elain’s scenes with Azriel... it is Azriel asking and Elain giving “consent” if that make sense.
This scene... Elain was in the HoW the whole time and Azriel carries her down to Town House and she is just agreeing to go to garden with him.
“Azriel arrived first, no shadows to be seen, my sister a pale, golden mass in his arms. He, too, wore his Illyrian armor, Elain’s golden-brown hair snagging in some of the black scales across his chest and shoulders.He set her down gently on the foyer carpet, having carried her in through the front door.Elain peered up at his patient, solemn face. Azriel smiled faintly. “Would you like me to show you the garden?” She seemed so small before him, so fragile compared to the scales of his fighting leathers, the breadth of his shoulders. The wings peeking over them. But Elain did not balk from him, did not shy away as she nodded—just once.” Azriel, graceful as any courtier, offered her an arm. I couldn’t tell if she was looking at his blue Siphon or at his scarred skin beneath as she breathed, “Beautiful.” Color bloomed high on Azriel’s golden-brown cheeks, but he inclined his head in thanks and led my sister toward the back doors into the garden, sunlight bathing them.”
Or this... again with garden. She is going with him.
“I can help her,” said Azriel, stepping to the table as Elain silently rose. No shadows at his ear, no darkness ringing his fingers as he extended a hand. Nesta monitored him like a hawk, but kept silent as Elain took his hand, and out they went.”
I think these are pretty important when you think about Elain’s arc being about choice. She was turned Fae against her will and then she came out of Cauldron and learned that she has a mate... a fae mate who she spend her whole life being afraid of. Also her mother saw Elain “as barely more than a doll to dress up,” It was never about her choice. And we have Rhys saying this in Feysand bonus chapter.
“Maybe she was never given the chance to be that way.” I whipped my head toward him. “ You think I stifle her?” Rhys held up his hands. “Not you alone.” He surveyed the study as he thought. “But I wonder if everyone has spent so long assuming Elain is sweet and innocent that she felt she had to be that way or else she’d disappoint you all.” He sighed toward the ceiling. “With time and safety, perhaps we’ll see a different side of her emerge.”
So Sarah saying consent being important to her and Elain’s arc is being about choice is pretty important.
And when you look at the bonus... it is Elain who initiates the touching and she is the one giving “offer and permission”
“Elain closed the distance, and her breathing quickened as she again paused, now a scant foot away. She extended the wrapped gift, her hand shaking. "Here.”
“Azriel let his shadows whisk away the box as she said softly, "Put it on me?”
“Azriel's fingers lingered at her nape, atop the first knob of her spine. Slowly, Elain pivoted into his touch. Until his palm lay flat against her neck.”
“I should go," Elain said, but made no move to leave.”
“Her arousal drifted up to him, and his eyes nearly rolled back in his head at the sweet scent. He'd beg on his knees for a chance to taste it. But Azriel just stroked her neck again. Elain shuddered, drifting closer.”
“But he could have this. This one moment, and maybe a taste, and that would be it. “Yes" Elain breathed, like she read the decision.”
“Azriel's hand slid up her neck, burying in her thick hair. Tilting her face the way he wanted it. Elain's mouth parted slightly, her eyes scanning his before fluttering shut. Offer and permission.”
So if the bonus was supposed to be “toxic” like the antis said to be I don’t think we would get “offer and permission” or Elain literally initiate every touch. It would be Elain “shrinking away” from Azriel but he is not the male she shrink away from and I’m going to leave it at that. ✨