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Girlfriend, partner, intimate experience? What was it like, how did it end up, or how is it going?

Some replies worth sharing:

Comfortable-Tea-5461: Yes. We got married 🙂over a decade in.

Puzzled-Teach2389: Yep. We got married 🥰

SparkleSelkie: The first time they slept with a woman, yeah

Doesntmatterhadtacos: Yep. I was her first and she married me about it :) 10 years on and going strong! Still her one and only.

Inevitable-Yam-702: Yes, not traumatizing but definitely not good lol

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We updated our list of queer themed Coat of Arms, now including Butch, Demisexual and Agender! Feel free to leave suggestions and ideas for additional designs :D

Hello, everyone.

We now added 3 more designs to our growing lists of queer houses of our Coat of Pride collection. We are happy to add:

-The Kraken of Agender

-The Selkie of Demi

and The Valkyrie of Butch to our existing houses of:

-Hydra of Omni

-Unicorn of Pride

- The Phoenix of Trans

- The Siren of Lesbian

- The Winged Lion of Gay

- The Griffon of Aro

- The Dragon of Ace

- The Harpy of Sapphic

- The Minotaur of Achillean

- The Oroboros of Intersex [really proud of that one]

- The Hippocampus of Genderfluid

- The Sphinx of AroAce

- The Peryton of Non-binary

- The Winged Wolf of Bisexual

- And Pan for...well Pansexual

Please let us know if you come up with other cool ideas for additional identities and what they may entail.

We turning these into PINS, if you are interested, our Kickstarter campaign is LIVE now:

https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/shattersaurus/coat-of-pride

Take care!

Some replies that stood out:

Pale_Kitsune: Oooh, now I want to see a phoenix harpy for trans-sapphic. Lol

Louisa1925: Epic. I love these.

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I (NB20) have been talking to this lady friend (NB20) for a couple of months, but we knew of each other in high school. We kind of talk off and on, life has been very chaotic for the both of us, so we understand that we won’t text a lot or daily, but we have had pretty good chats. We talked sexually off and on, sexting yk? But no images. Recently I got frustrated of her mixed signals and hesitation, I really wanted her, and so I just asked her straight up if she wanted to do something. She said yes, but that she was just nervous, we both talked about it.. Next hangout and most recent one, she came over and we watched a movie, it was a little awkward at first.. but as we laid back on my bed, it just… happened casually. It was very intense and I was in the moment yk? We both enjoyed it a lot, communication throughout, so no lack of consent. But after.. I just felt a sense of intense shame and disgust with myself, like post nut clarity of doom and despair. I just wanted her to leave the room so I could curl up in a ball and just lay in darkness. I have had sex but only with male partners, most were mid, but some of them did make me cum. I’ve had regret after with some of them, but it was because of them being hookups or just.. bad? But I really enjoyed my time with her, but near the end I just got really aware of what I was doing, and I just hated myself for being disgusted with her? Myself? But I felt so bad lying to her, saying I enjoyed it. Because I’m not sure if I really did. Has anyone ever experienced this?

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How do you verify if someone texting you as a lesbian is actually a girl or a catfish?

Highlights from the comments:

Idkythatsmypurse: Some sort of video chat. Make sure they are out and about, something where they aren't just at a desk or in one spot where a filter can work.

Realistic-Art5227: FaceTime then meet in person somewhere public and neutral

Similar-Ad-6862: My wife and I were LDR. We were on opposite sides of the world when we met. We moved off Reddit to video calls VERY quickly so we could see we were as we said. Time passed, we met up then we got engaged, then more time passed and we got married.

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We're queer and we're here 🏳️‍🌈

We must make sure everyone is safe enough to be their true self. Lesbianism is not be gatekept adopted by hate, but to be an identity for those who need it.

(Art by liberaljane)

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Brought some flowers for a date tomorrow

So I’ve been talking to this girl for about 11ish days now, maybe a little bit more. We talk everyday, call, everything, she lives an hour away and we are seeing each other tomorrow. I’m really excited as this will be my first date with a girl! I went out and brought her some flowers today and I ended up buying two for her, i don’t know if that’s too much or not.

Highlights from the comments:

Piernikbezcukru: SOOO CUTE!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!

4quaphor: Ooooooo,GOOD LUCK!!

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The craving I have for this woman is unreal. We have been dating for a year now and istg every single day I want her more. It feels like the love spells from the romantic movies were put on me. My first relationship ever so everything I know about myself in a relationship was bcos of her.

I COULD EAT HER THE WHOLE DAY EVERYDAY. 24/7, EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK AND EVERY WEEK OF THE MONTH AND EVERY MONTH OF THE YEAR.

Holy shit. I’m sorry if I’m coming off a little too obsessive. BUT! Her taste, her sounds, her body language. I just can’t keep myself in check.

This post is about me fully obsessed with my woman. Thank you.

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Have a great Sunday morning 💖

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My dream of sucking big titties finally came true. It was a woman in her early 40s and she was so hot. She let me suck them for 30 minutes while she grabbed and squeezed mine. I loved it so much. She gave me her number too so we can have more fun later. I feel like I’m still dreaming.

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Hi guys this is my first post here! 🖤 I’ve never been intimate with anyone in my life, but that’s changing really soon. I was wondering if you guys had any tips or similar experiences to help with nervousness? I fully trust my partner since she is very experienced, but I’m still a nervous reck!

Here are some replies:

Kitty_whipt: We’ve all been there! It might help to set the mood. Play some slow jams. Dim the lights. Light a candle. Give each other a massage. Take things slow. Just try to relax and go with the flow. I promise it gets easier and more enjoyable as you build more trust and become more familiar with each other.

Maceliem: Don't rush things because you think it's supposed to go a specific way. Take your time, do what feels right to you, and be vocal about any questions, interests and desires. And try to just have fun. It's not a game, you can't win at it, it's just a potentially very fun time. And the awkwardness is a part of it

Live_Squirrel2286: Don’t expect to do everything—or for that matter anything specific—the first time. Just practice trying to stay present with yourself and practice saying no to each other too :)

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Finally more lesbian media🙌

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“Evil” stepmom x her stepdaughter who hates her! Needs tension, good smut but not erotica, + an age gap. Something maybe similar to book!Rhaenyra/Alicent from House of the Dragon

I know this is an absolutely insane request, like please do side eye me. But, I’ve been reading so many good book accurate ASOIAF fanfics about Rhaenyra/Alicent recently that I need to read this in a published book ASAP. If you aren’t familiar with these two, they have a lot of beef and lowkey tension in book!verse. Rhaenyra’s mother dies and her father Viserys, the king, remarried Alicent Hightower. Alicent was ok with Rhaenyra at first, until Viserys names Rhaenyra his heir to the throne. Alicent is pissed because she believed her first son would be heir to the throne (due to him being a male).

So I’m basically looking for an “evil” stepmother x her stepdaughter book. FMC 1 marries the FMC 2’s father. I don’t really care if the marriage is genuine or whatever. FMC 1 doesn’t like her new stepdaughter, or at least is outwardly mean to her. FMC 2 hates her new stepmother and thinks she’s using her father (or something akin to that).

It doesn’t even have to be that exact scenario, and the stepmother FMC doesn’t have to actually be evil. I’m just wanting that tension dynamic of them disliking each other but also being so attracted to each other. Also I need open door spice! I’m NOT looking for erotica books. I do want a plot. Also wanting an age gap if possible.

Some comments that stood out:

Crystal-gem1: Please do recommend some fanfictions you liked of these two thanks

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One of my OCs, Sorina!

She's a 1000 year vampire that very much in love with her human, Naomi. I was going for less of a traditional, European vampire look, something you don't normally see in mainstream media.

Art was commissioned from the4rchanist on VGen. Crazy talented.

Edit: included artist’s name above because it didn’t show up on the slideshow caption thingy because Reddit on mobile is WACK

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Hello !

Je suis à la recherche d'une très bonne romance F/F. Ça peut être un roman publié, une fanfiction, une fiction Wattpad ou sur n'importe quelle autre plateforme, tant que l'histoire est terminée.

Je cherche une histoire avec :

- une vraie tension romantique et sexuelle (pas un slow burn interminable, mais pas non plus tout en 2 chapitres) ;

- beaucoup de scènes spicy qui servent l'histoire ;

- des personnages auxquels on s'attache vraiment ;

- une relation avec de la tension, de l'émotion, un peu de jalousie (si elle est justifiée), mais pas de relation toxique ;

- une happy end.

J'adore les tropes comme :

- enemies to lovers ;

- différence d'âge ;

- prof/élève (entre adultes) ;

- les triangles amoureux ne me dérangent pas s'ils sont bien écrits.

Je préfère le contemporain, mais je suis ouverte à un peu de fantasy tant que l'univers n'est pas trop compliqué.

Mon but, c'est vraiment de tomber amoureuse des personnages, ressentir leur alchimie et être complètement happée par leur histoire.

Si vous avez des pépites à me recommander, je suis preneuse ! 🫶🏻

Merciiii🧚‍♀️✨️

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I'm a trans woman 5 years hrt . I feel so dirty for being attracted to women like I shouldn't. I say I'm straight because I don't want to be seen as a creep. I'm denying myself even the possibility of being attracted to women. I just want to be there friends and not be seen as a threat but sometimes I do catch feelings or they are attractive. I just beat myself up. I'm not even staring but notice boobs and stuff like that, I just look for a moment before feeling so much guilt. I can suppress it but lately it's been hard.

I don't know what's wrong lately but I just feel hot and my mind is feral for women. My lower back hurts. I feel like I'm in a frenzy and I want a woman to slowly kiss my neck. Even their smell is enough to have me distracted and fantasy. So my guilt is flaring up bad but I don't care but I should. I don't want to be a creep. I just feel like it would be easier to be straight

Do some women feel guilty for loving women? And having desires?

Some notable replies:

Traumatized_bean123: This honestly sounds like you have some internalized homophobia. I used to feel guilt when I was younger (I'm 25), but as I learned more about myself I kind of outgrew some of it. Therapy also has helped a ton! I know not everyone has access to therapy though. I'd try to be more gentle with yourself. I know it's hard, but there's nothing wrong with you!!

TeeDub710: Oh, girl. You gotta give yourself some compassion. It's perfectly, absolutely, 100% okay to be attracted to women as a trans woman. It doesn't make you a creep, it doesn't mean something is wrong with you. And frankly, any woman who sees you as a threat because of it isn't worth your time to begin with. If someone's acceptance of you is conditional on you hiding and denying yourself, it's not real acceptance. To put it another way, please try and give yourself the same grace you'd give others. Would you tell another trans woman she's a creep/threat because she's attracted to women? I hope not. The same logic applies to you.

Worried-Ball3902: There's nothing wrong in it 🫦

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Hi you lovely lot xx

Good morning from me! Can i ask does this dress look a bit 'meh'? I'm off to see my dad before I'm off for a few days by the sea x

From the comments:

Previous-Mobile-6899: you look stunning! gorgeous eyes 😍

Meghammatime19: Omg ur so pretty

Babycatpop: This picture feels like a lovely painting☺️

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