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I recently made this skirt from an old bedsheet, does it work with styling like this?

So, these are two high-low handkerchief skirts which i sewed together from different angles and slightly offsett it by 22.5 degrees each. Now I haven't added jewelry or anything yet, if I wear this out I will use a lot of jewelry (mostly gold plated). The corset belt has those weird bumps because I didn't see the elastic properly and it moved, I can fix it but later. Please give me ideas on how to style this! I don't have a lot of pieces, I plan on making a black crop top but I'm not sure when, maybe that could help? And the back is weird because it's layered, I think it looks fine irl. (Also the skirt is my first project lmk how it is 😊)

Some replies that stood out:

Explorer66300: Yes it work out nicely

Bitchy-sprite: I love this outfit! Skirt is super cute

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Latest Round Of Lesbian Tweets

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Eu queria viajar o mundo inteiro, todos os anos eu moraria em um país diferente e teria uma namorada lésbica em cada um deles, para cada país novo eu teria uma namorada

From the comments:

Jenellisa_: First step ; how to get out from my country

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I think i may like the color yellow a bit too much

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Right_Teaching_8193: I don’t meet a ton of yellow lovers I love this

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Second time successfully doing lash clusters!!

I still think they look a lil wonky, but not bad for my second time.

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Now let me start by saying, weaponizing colored hair is wild and I disagree with every person who uses this term as a slur.

AND

I have been experiencing such gatekeeping and infighting and tone policing in the queer community. I've been bullied out of 2 Facebook groups for not being the perfect lesbian and it's very frustrating. People would rather nitpick word choices instead of educating and focusing on community building. Queer culture is literally about being welcoming and inclusion. And so far I have rarely seen it in practice.

I'm a leftist btw. I understand this Democrat/liberal behavior is a general trope not a fact for every self identifying voter. This is why it's so important to me to be welcoming and work together towards the real enemies and not within the group.

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Hey folks! When I identified as bi and not lesbian, I've had a problem where whenever I made new male friends they all fell in love with me even though I told them I wasn't available to date. Nowadays with new friends I'm telling people that I am a LESBIAN and strictly looking for friends. In your experience, does being an "out" lesbian help to deter men from trying to shoot their shot? How do you manage to have male friends while keeping their romantic advances at bay?

Some notable replies:

ElectricSky87: Men will hit on anything, living or dead. Wish I was kidding.

WyldFlowerWyldFire: Not at all. Men still hit on me even though Im masc presenting.

AccomplishedRoom3887: After top surgery, keeping my hair short, being chubby and hairy, and dressing more masc, men do NOT hit on me anymore. Thank god! But I was also bad at noticing men's interest even when I thought I was straight 😂

Auditorysmash: I think women in general, regardless of sexuality, just have to become good with boundaries and rejecting unwanted advances from men because it’s sort of inevitable. Many men will continue to hit on women regardless of sexuality, interest levels, compatibility, availability, etc. The key is remembering it is not your responsibility to manage men’s emotions when you reject their advances; that’s their responsibility, especially when they ignore your boundaries and identity and actively go against what you tell them. All you can do is stay firm and respectful (obviously keeping your safety in mind if you feel it could be at risk in certain cases).

Legal_Lengthiness590: Men hit on my Mrs a lot and I have to tell them to back off though I found it funny when one guy said she’s your wife? I said yeah she is he goes “you lucky b*stard” 🤣🤣

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Odeio me apaixonar apenas por lésbicas dos Estados unidos/Europa, vocês são malvadas 💔

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So last night, I was getting ready to shower. We only have one bathroom, so he was going to the bathroom as I was getting ready. I flipped on the fan habitually, even though it was already on, and we laughed at it. I said, “that’s ADHD for ya.” He stood up and right as I was turning around, he said, “ADHDeez nuts.”

His belt touched my stomach. I hadn’t heard him pull his pants up, and I thought it was his dick. I kid you not, I squealed like a literal pig and flinched away from him in disgust before I could even process what had touched me. Like, nanoseconds between the sensation and the reaction, just pure instinct. I laughed my ass off, and he laughed too, though he seemed a little put off by what had just happened. I have seen him naked countless times and have never reacted this way. I maybe move away from it naturally if we’re showering together, but this was an insane reaction.

I told my best friend and she told me to “take note” of it for therapy lol

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guys i've only gone and bloody done it

found a beautiful girl to be my girlfriend, who will hold my hand and will kiss me in public

i know i'm not the most conventionally attractive person out there but she's not embarassed to be seen with me in public it's like she's proud to be seen with me and she's so caring and understanding of my audhd shenanigans that i can't seem to shift

one thing that stuck with me before from my old relationship was the time i said 'i feel ugly' and she said 'it's fine i don't go for looks' but honestly she's never made me feel anything but beautiful and wanted and HDKSJSKAHSJAH

i'm just so happy and so in love guys i can't even i keep looking at my lockscreen and getting all giggly cause i just i LOVE HER SO MUCH

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My gf lied to me about her past

I just found out that my gf (I’ve been with her for 7 months) lied to me about a big part of her past ..

the other day I was out with some friends and a girl I didn’t know (friend of a friend basically) randomly started talking about someone who sounded awful and traumatized one her friends two years ago.. she described her as toxic, narcissistic, full of herself, known for breaking people’s hearts, etc.. at first I wasn’t really listening, but then she said my girlfriend’s first name.. honestly I thought it was a coincidence.. but the details were a bit specific, so time passed and my friend said her last name and she confirmed it was her (honestly… at that moment I just blacked out)

she also told a bunch of other stuff about her past that I had no idea about... when I got home I told my girlfriend about it (not in an attacking way) just because I wanted to understand. she had told me she’d only had like 4 relationships but apparently that only meant “serious” relationships, and the real number was wayyy higher. there were also stories about open relationships, and just a much wilder lifestyle than what she’d ever let on

what hurts me most is also the fact that she wasn’t honest with me… when I told her that, she basically said that ‘because of my reaction she was right not to tell me’ . now she’s barely talking to me, and I feel completely lost.. I don’t know if I’m being unfair and judging her too much, or if I’m right to feel hurt because of everything

the most confusing part is that the girl I’ve known these past months has been perfect, insanely kind and beautiful and caring, and nothing like the person people were describing.. should I just stop believing others and apologize and move on??

(also… is it normal to feel insecure because of her past?? I’ve always been possessive and weary of the fact that she’s very attractive so that feels like a nightmare to imagine that she could want that lifestyle back… I think I’m just very lost)

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Butterflies are beautiful aren't they?

Notable replies:

HordeOfDucks: gulp

Imaginary-Pop-9889: Yes...yes they are.

Piernikbezcukru: i cant see any butterflies…

Imaginary-Corgi-9475: Damn girl 🤌

Novafay: I love butterflies

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I sometimes feel like since coming out as a lesbian, this identity has been extremely difficult for me. And it's because our world is SO heteronormative, homophobic and patriarchal and sexist. To a woman who loves another woman and who desires another woman requires constant self affirmation, A LOT of unlearning, dealing with consistent dismissal, etc. It is exhausting because it's everywhere. And no one tells you how to value a woman over a man. Men this, men that. Women are practically conditioned to be rabid for the male gaze at the expense of our own sexualities and ourselves(whether that be lesbian, bisexual, queer, hell even when you are straight).

I just wish I could live in a world where I could stop fighting, stop having to explain and justify something that should be so natural. But then it isn't natural because women are primed away from recognizing other women as potential romantic and sexual interest or threat.

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Getting ready to go out! Is it a good choice of outfit?

Some replies that stood out:

Deep_Attention9201: I have nothing appropriate to say... 🤤🤤🤤

Traumatized_bean123: Yes! You look so pretty! 🫶

Natural-Metal-1299: Super cute

Minimum_Occasion_418: if i speak, ill be banned.

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More Lesbians Just Doing Lesbian Things

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Everyone deserves a stress buster in their life.

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Do these look too tight/what would you wear with them?

First off I'm sorry for the shocking quality of the, they're screenshots from a video. I'm used to really baggy clothes but I kept seeing these and thought they looked so flattering and comfy and they really are comfy, I love the feel of the material too. But I'm a bit worried they're kinda too tight? They don't feel like they're too small or anything so idk if I'm just not used to my figure showing a bit 😅 what do you think?

And if you do think they look okay, what are some good ideas for casual things to wear with them? I have a very flat chest so I have been trying to accentuate the curves I do have a bit more lately. Open to any and all suggestions. Thanks ladies 😊

From the comments:

Rashonmyass: They’re cute and look like they fit you perfectly! Whenever I get a new clothing item I like to take a photo of it and search it up in Pinterest to get outfit ideas. lol

Shayshay1117: They look great on you! Me personally, I'd pair them with a crop top. But I also just really love crop tops lol. If you want to go comfy, a band tee would work

Oddfellowfloyd: If those are flared yoga pants… I have two pairs of, “office yoga pants,” & ohmyglob!, they are the most comfortable pants!! They can be snug, but as long as you’re comfortable, that’s all that matters. Yours look snug & comfy, & that’s kinda how they’re supposed to fit! I was also not used to wearing tighter pants, but because they are so comfy, I love them (that, & my platonic nesting partner told me they make my butt look good 😆)! If you want to try a size up, just to compare, go for it, & see how you like them? Then you’ll know! :) They’re amazingly versatile, so blouses, tops, t-shirts—depending on how casual you want to go!—are good to go. I usually wear either tops by Beipei (for work), or t-shirts, or camis (at home) with mine. :)

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