I see a lot of random YouTube Shorts where women will complain about their husband/boyfriend and I have come to a conclusion based on those and someone I know IRL.
Some women will train their man out of making decisions by always denigrating or countermanding their decisions, then complain about how THEY have to make all of the decisions in the household.
This happened with the person I know. His wife always said he never made the correct decision, so he just let her decide since nobody wants to hear constant complaints. Then, after 8-10 years, she was complaining about how she had to decide everything.
I've seen the same thing with other stuff such as with babies.
No matter what he is doing, the guy will always be doing something "wrong", and by wrong it just means "not how she would do it" not "you are about to injure or kill the baby", so the guy stops helping out with the baby since no matter what he does it is wrong anyways and just makes her mad. And then she will complain about how she has to do everything for the baby.
Like, you trained him to always think he is wrong or incorrect, and then you wonder why he stopped doing whatever you kept complaining about? What did you think was going to happen? That he was going to miraculously start thinking and acting exactly as you do?
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