Person who likes chubby people

Yes muscular frames do take a lot of work and dedication to shape them into that exact form someone wants, I definitely respect said effort. But it can't hold a candle to someone who is overweight and the allure they've got.

The roundness of someone's belly and the softness that always gives in with the smallest of touches. How every inch of their body is coated in that same rich softness that makes everything much bigger and appealing, creating hangs, rolls, curves and folds in a unique way.

There’s a sickening amount of fearmongering around fatness, “morbid obesity,” and how it’s inherently unhealthy to exist as fat. So much so that it’s easy to look at your body and think you only have so much time left.

But fat people grow old, too. Fat disabled people grow old, too. Fat intersex people grow old. Fat POC grow old. So why would it be any different for fat trans people?

There’s a future there. I promise you it’s exists. Aging, wrinkles and smile lines. Thriving. Living.

SMILES AT YOU TEE HEE. LMAO (thank youuuu 🫶🏻)

Show your partner how much you like them. Tell them how attractive they are. No matter how casual it is, if it is an afterthought or a habit. Whether you are awkward and barely know them or if you've been together decades. Even if it doesn't seem like the time or the mood is wrong or it seems stupid or it feels unnecessary.

If you've noticed how good the new jacket looks, tell them. If the way they laughed just now made you fond. If you're tired and want a hug from just them, or you just remebered a moment from your last date with a blush.

Even if they don't seem to reciprocate or you feel like you do it more than they do. It isn't a contest and it doesn't need to be fair.

Tell them. Show them. Share it every single time.

It doesn't get old. They don't become used to it, and it never becomes mundane.

Maybe it doesn't always hit like a storm and maybe it IS the wrong time sometimes, but even then, it's mana, it's life, it's oxygen. It's strength they will pull from some other time.

And fat liberation says "It's okay to be fat!" and fat people say "I'm happy being fat and I don't try to become skinny!"

And it scares people that that is an option. It scares people to think that they have sunk so much time, so much effort, so much misery into avoiding being fat. And this person in front of them is just... not even trying. Rejecting the game. Saying You Don't Have To Do That.

If they accept that they didn't have to do that... then they made themselves so unhappy, for so long, for no reason.

They want their effort, their unhappiness, to have been worth it. To have meant something.

“Get whatever you want honey”

“I’m bringing home a little treat”

“If you want something from the grocery store, just write it on a list for me and I’ll bring it home the next day”

“Do you want thirds? No no, don’t get up, I’ll get it for you”