To replicate some bullshit I saw today...
(This post is hyperbolic for the point of satire, but this is still based in real experiences I have had, and numerous things said here are things that HAVE been said to me.)
Pro-Endo: You can be plural without trauma!
(Traumagenic) System: Cool! I'm plural.
Pro-Endo: Welcome to the plural community!!!! Omg we love you what kind of system are you?
System: Oh. Um. I'm not sure yet?
Pro-Endo: Omg here's a link to pluralpedia do you have autism maybe you're autigenic
System: Oh, well, I have autism, but I'm pretty sure that didn't-
Pro-Endo: No it totally did if you have autism then you almost definitely are autigenic because your autism affects your brain people!! Good luck with your introjects you'll have like 5 million of them because of hyperfixations!!!
System: I... don't... think I have any? But. Okay, I guess? I, uh, actually don't really like people based language? Can you call them my alters or parts?
Pro-Endo: ^^;;; Um haha actually that's really pretty ableist!!! Calling them YOUR alters is like saying you're more important than them and using parts language means you're taking away their individuality! But headmates are absolutely amazing right???
System: I... guess. I don't want to be ableist.
Pro-Endo: Then just avoid that filthy dirty fucking ableist bigoted hate group language that those traumatized people over there use /gen /info /nbh
System: I guess I can call them my- wait, our headmates? Right?
Pro-Endo: Yeah!!! Here's a link to our favorite picrews, oh and a link for Akinator lmao!
System: I guess that's normal? Um. I'd really like to discuss some of the problems I'm facing?
Pro-Endo: Oh just use our venting channels! Just make sure you censor any mentions of trauma, trauma responses, arguments, dormancy, fusion, integration, dogs, cats, the :) emoji-
System: Oh, but. I. I need a place to process those things. I think I experienced-
Pro-Endo: But you have to understand, that could be TRIGGERING, and if anyone ever gets triggered, you're clearly an asshole for triggering them, and we don't want to be assholes!!
System: I mean. I guess.
Pro-Endo: Besides, you don't have trauma.
System: I don't know if I do - I don't remember any. But I've researched DID-
Pro-Endo: You probably got fed a lot of anti-endo propaganda. You can be a system without trauma! If you feel plural you are!!!
System: But what if I do have trauma?
Pro-Endo: Well, you've said you're rich, so you don't. You said you didn't remember any, so you probably don't have any to remember! You said you're functional right now, so you definitely don't have DID! You like your system, so you're just an endogenic plural!!!
System: Okay. That's a relief I guess! I guess I'm an endo system. So what about my trauma responses?
Pro-Endo: Sounds like you're just having some in-system drama! Have you tried killing your persecutor about it?
"Look, it's definitely true that all plurality is valid and that Endogenic systems exist. These aren't bad points.
But it's also true that every single pro-endo who spreads the lie that everything anti-endos say is propaganda or lying has the potential to gaslight traumagenic systems to believe they're endogenic."
See how fucked up it is to say that?
So why do you get an out, just because it's about the side you disagree with?