god complex who?

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No one doing this should be allowed to call themselves a feminist.

You'll hear "asexuality is purely about attraction, not action" a lot in defense of how asexuals who have sex are still asexual — and, to be clear, asexuals who have sex are still asexual, resoundingly so, and including them is important, I highlighted them in the original post for a reason — but "attraction only, not action" is not the correct argument to make for their inclusion! The correct argument is "different asexual people will be asexual for different reasons, where some people consider their attraction/lack thereof the most important factor, regardless of whether they have sex, whereas other people consider their aversion to sex the most important factor, regardless of whether they experience sexual attraction — and they are all equally asexual." The point is that we all get to decide for ourselves what the most important factor in defining our sexual orientation is. Attraction for some, actual sexual interest for others, probably a secret third thing for even more people too.

Knock knock who’s there it’s Rocky!

I'm not particularly offended by it, but the lack of knowledge on this really turns me off from tryna talk to y'all. Someone could be really offended by it.

Be mindful! Even if you aren't using it as a slur, that doesn't mean it isn't one.

i cannot speak my dialect around white without havin’ to assimilate unless i want people to mock me or just laugh at everything i say, even if i’m actually mad. other times, i just feel like i come off as rude to white people. in english i see examples of my native dialect be used as a “incorrect examples” of Real English. the reason i write in my dialect is so i don’t lose it bein’ surrounded by so many white people who only tolerate me as long as i throw my culture away. usin’ “is” instead of “are” in African American English (AAE) is the most common feature in the dialect i’d argue it’s part of what make it so distinct, along with the accent as well. i will not be fooled by white people bothered by grammar, cause 99% it’s racism they probably don’t even know of.

[ survey.gendercensus.com ]

The 13th annual international gender census, collecting information about the language we use to refer to ourselves and each other, is now open until 13th August 2026.

It’s short and easy, for most participants it takes 5 minutes or less.

After the survey is closed I’ll process the results and publish a spreadsheet of the data and a report summarising the main findings. Then anyone can use them for academic or business purposes, self-advocacy, tracking the popularity of language over time, and just feeling like we’re part of a huge and diverse community.

If you think you might have friends and followers who’d be interested, please do reblog this blog post, and share the survey URL by email or at AFK social groups or on other social networks. Every share is extremely helpful!

Survey URL: https://survey.gendercensus.com

The survey is open to anyone anywhere who speaks English and feels that the gender binary doesn’t fully describe their experience of themselves and their gender(s) or lack thereof.

Thank you so much!

i dont like that my entire for you feed is filled with transmasc canines. im not one of you (general you) and i feel so alone. i may be a dog/werewolf yeah but im transfem and also a bunny on the side. maybe i need to try to curate more but even when i go looking for other transfem alterhumans i cant really find them. and bunny content feels lacking but maybe im not searching right. it feels lonely here. i feel like i dont fit the mold :(

i am tmasc canine BUT!!!! I AM ALSO A RABBIT!!!!!!!!!! I AM HERE HOP HOP

but i totally feel you. transfems are often overshadowed in anything that isnt their own transness, and not just trans women, cis women and black women as well. ESPECIALLY black trans women! they always get overshadowed in nearly everything, which sucks. sadly, this is kind of a diy situation…make the content you wanna see so other people will make it! and never be ashamed of being transfem you guys are so fuckin cool never die ever