Your Bucky

Hey guys, if any of you are interested in true crime / spooky shit like I am, my sister-in-law and her best friends have a podcast about said spooky shit now!

The podcast is called Weirdos & Wine, which is pretty self explanatory. I love my sister-in-law and her friends, but they’re definitely weird… like me, which is why I fucking love them. On their podcast, they get drunk and talk about true crimes and supernatural things.

Think of it as Buzzfeed Unsolved meets My Favorite Murder. It’s great!

My sister-in-law (Nicole) is really pumped about this and I’m really proud of her and I really encourage any of you who are interested in this kind of stuff to check out Weirdos & Wine!!

Also…….I’m a guest in the next three episodes that will be going up!! The first of which is going up tomorrow (September 3)!

I really can’t recommend the podcast enough (and no, it’s not just because Nicole is family)

Here is a link to there website:

Weirdos & Wine

and here is the link to the podcast on Itunes:

Hey guys, if any of you are interested in true crime / spooky shit like I am, my sister-in-law and her best friends have a podcast about said spooky shit now!

The podcast is called Weirdos & Wine, which is pretty self explanatory. I love my sister-in-law and her friends, but they’re definitely weird… like me, which is why I fucking love them. On their podcast, they get drunk and talk about true crimes and supernatural things.

Think of it as Buzzfeed Unsolved meets My Favorite Murder. It’s great!

My sister-in-law (Nicole) is really pumped about this and I’m really proud of her and I really encourage any of you who are interested in this kind of stuff to check out Weirdos & Wine!!

Also…….I’m a guest in the next three episodes that will be going up!! The first of which is going up tomorrow (September 3)!

I really can’t recommend the podcast enough (and no, it’s not just because Nicole is family)

Here is a link to there website:

Weirdos & Wine

and here is the link to the podcast on Itunes:

I could talk about Ned and Sansa’s relationship for hoursand I have so many headcanons. Their relationship is one of the most lookedover in the whole series, which is odd for me, since the Starks have alwaysbeen close, but many of Sansa’s relationships are brushed off. Many think Nedloved Arya more than Sansa, and that’s so untrue. He loved them both equally,and he loved them both so much, he was just able to understand and connect withArya more, but that doesn’t mean he thinks any less of Sansa. Anyway, here aresome of my Ned and Sansa headcanons:

Sansa was precious to Ned from the moment shewas born. This tiny, beautiful baby who looked like her mother, and he feltlike he was breaking her by just holding her. Sansa was the first baby that Nedsaw that young, he didn’t meet Robb until he was a few months old, and Jon wasn’tjust born when he reached Lyanna (at least he didn’t look it in S6), so Nednever held a baby that small until he first held Sansa and from the moment heheld her, his heart melted. She is his first daughter, the first child whosebirth he was there for (because I also headcanon that Ned was present for allthe Starks born in Winterfell) and she was so perfect.

Because Ned missed so much of Robb’s early life,he stayed with Cat and Sansa everywhere when he didn’t have work to do becausehe didn’t want to miss anything important in her early life like he had herbrother.

Sansa didn’t cry much as a baby, but when shedid, it was in Ned’s arms she settled quickest. She settled quickly for Catelyntoo since she wasn’t a fussy baby, but no arms felt safer than her father’s soshe stopped fussing quickly when he picked her up.

Sansa’s first word was ‘Papa’.  If Ned were a man more prone to outwardemotion, it would make him tear up because he has his doubts as a lord, husbandand a father, but hearing his little girl calling him ‘papa’ for her first wordbegins to get rid of them fears and it’s a moment he thinks of when he turns toget one last look at her before he is beheaded.

When she was young, she was a daddy’s girl. Beforeshe became too interested in being a lady, Sansa would’ve craved Ned’sattention. Asking him to play with her, drawing him things, picking him flowers,asking him to help her build things in the snow while the boys played withsnowballs. But most of all she loved that he would take her to the Godswood. Sansaliked the pretty colours of the weirwood leaves and loved the fact it she wasable to skip along the paths and pick flowers. She loved how quiet it was andshe loved the silent praying as she sat next to Ned. Her visits to the Godswoodwith Ned were among her favourite things as a child.

Ned was Sansa’s first and biggest hero. We knowSansa loved the stories of knights, of Aemon the Dragonknight and others. But noneof them compare to her father. He always has and always will be her number oneprotector and number one hero. Ned doesn’t talk about the rebellions he foughtin, but others would have. And for Sansa, her father fighting valiantly to findhis sister and avenge his father and brother, or fighting to save the mainlandfrom the terrible Iron Born, means that he is a true knight, and a hero.

Because of the point above, many of Sansa’sexpectations come from Ned. Ned isn’t perfect, but he is a very good man. A loving,caring man, almost found nowhere in Westeros. She thinks that all men arenoble, good, loving and strong like her father, and so that’s one of thereasons she believes in the stories of knights. And because she sees her fatherhave such a strong, loving relationship with her mother, she assumes that hermarriage will be like that. That her husband will be like her father.

Because Sansa is so precious to Ned, he wants tokeep her sheltered. Of course, Arya is precious to him too, but Arya is wilder,knows the truth and harshness of the world more. Sansa is into her fairytalesand stories and doesn’t know how bad the world truly is, and I feel that Nedwanted to protect her from the evil in the world, which is why she grows upquite naïve and believes the best in people, as her father does. She sharesmany characteristics with him because he has sheltered her from the real world,and so she grows up with a similar perspective to life as he does. Because Sansabelieves in the stories of knights and honour, and Ned believes in honour.

On the morning of her nameday, Ned would alwaysbe the first person Sansa sees. Every year he would wake her up with a tray oflemon cakes just for her to eat. He’d give her a kiss on the forehead, and thensit with her as she ate the lemon cakes before escorting her to the great hallwhere everything was set up for her special day. And in my head, this happenedevery year.

In the dungeon, after Varys all but threatenedSansa, she was all that was on Ned’s mind for hours. His mind was made up straightaway. Robert was his best friend and he didn’t want to betray him, but Sansawas his baby girl. The first newborn he held. He knew there was only one choice.And when Joffrey calls for his head, he forces himself to get one last look athis baby girl.

Sansa blames herself for Ned’s death. Although shedoesn’t know the whole story, she knows that her father is not and never wouldbe a traitor. As she gets older and smarter, Sansa realises exactly why Nedconfessed to a crime he didn’t commit. She knows that Cersei was controllingher and keeping her close and she manages to realise that the only reason Nedconfessed, and was therefore killed, was because they were threatening her. So sheblames herself for his death.

After Sansa finds the doll Ned gave her duringthe Battle of Blackwater, she always keeps it on her bedside table so she cansee it when she sleeps so it gives her comfort. Ned would always comfort herwhen she had nightmares, so the doll is her comfort when she dreams about hisbeheading, or Joffrey beating her. When Sansa misses her family, or is upsetabout something, she takes the doll from the night stand and sleeps with itcuddled against her chest as extra comfort, because it’s the one thing she hasin King’s Landing that reminds her of home, and it reminds her of the first manshe ever loved.

ships I love + favorite quotes

“Bitch the pot” - Pour the tea (HOW RELEVANT IS THIS!?)

“Bang up the elephant” - Absolutely perfect; super stylish

“Well, that’s shot the bale” - Something that has missed the mark entirely

“Church-bell” - A woman prone to gossip

“Chuckaboo” - A dear friend, a bosom chum

“Beer and skittles” - A great time (see also: Irish Gaelic “craic”)

“Butter on bacon” - Something overdone or too extravagant

“Cupid’s kettle drums” - Breasts, particularly large ones

bilbo “im gonna use this ring of ultimate power to avoid uncomfortable social situations” baggins (insp.)