Hello, I am Abigail. I like writing and have a bit of experience in kinky sexual relations. What do I mean by that? I like writing about people's fetishes, fantasies, and lifestyles, NOT to make fun of or 'out' them but I get a better understanding of the kink. I find it could be education for others also.
I also write reviews on lingerie and sex toys that are gifted to me.
~~
Beyond the kinky side of things, I try and educate people about the healthy part of sex, love, and relationships. Some of the articles I'm working on are about the 5 love languages, nonsexual intimacies, and trying to reconnect after a hardship. These may involve real stories of myself or others.
~~
I am always open to making improvements to my writing, so if I get something wrong or it isn't explained very well, please let me know. I don't want to give misinformation, especially on this topic.
Disclaimer: Like I said above, this is not to 'out' or judge anyone. I do this for personal curiosity and education on the topic. I also keep people anonymous, so I will change names and cover pictures if any are involved.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Occasionally, I get a message on my socials to test out toys on Amazon, and this is one of them.
This Vibrating Wand is definitely an interesting shape. The massage top, which is good for the back or any muscle, is great for external pleasure and teasing. Where, of course, the dildo side has an equal amount of vibration and is used for internal penetration. Both satisfy the maximum pleasure, I would say.
"An average aroused vagina is 8". like penises, vaginas can be bigger or smaller than the average. Unless a vagina is EXTREMELY AROUSED anything bigger then the size will cause pain and discomfort."
So stop thinking everyone can go "all the way down" on that 15"
There are things that I put on Instagram/Facebook (they're connected to I say both) that I didn't put on Twitter. So here's another "social update" post.
2023/02/28 "Not as classy as wine, but just as good on this cloudy night #jackandcoke"
2023/03/01 "Watching "you" on Netflix, and it gets me thinking. I need to expand my book collection"
2023/03/04 'Wise words"
2023/03/05 "Finished writing reviews for the night going to relax with a glass and then sleep. 💻🥱🍷😴 Good Night"
2023/03/07 "I'm told I should never drink alone.. but I always do. 🤷♀️🍷"
2023/03/12 "🤪 #jackandcoke
Getting ready for another toy review, stay tuned."
2023/03/14 "I'm a floor drinker now.. don't question it. 😘🍷"
2023/03/17 "Guess what I'm reading"
2023/03/20 "Some rosé on the porch"
2023/03/27 "Craving a massage 👣"
2023/03/30 "😘 😜"
2023/04/02 "This time with snacks! #jalepenopoppers"
2023/04/16 "Late Night writing 🥱😴"
2023/05/03 "😍♥️🤘"
2024/02/03 "Miss me? 😘 Stuff happens, I deal with it. I won't be 100% but I'm here."
2024/05/17 "Been a while, I know. I'm still figuring things out, but what I do know is this. When someone said, "You're the only one who'll ever get their attention." And it was doing well for 5 years, just know the "spicy attitude" of yours that they love so much will be too much for them, and they'll find other people to "entertain" them. Sadly, I lost one of my long-term paying clients. And even though it saddens me, I realized it might be for the best, given how toxic it was. Oh well.
2024/05/18 "After shower legs 😜😘"
2024/05/24 "Physical labor, shower, now relaxing."
2024/05/27 "3 feet/leg pictures in a row, lucky you 😘"
2024/10/06 "Life has been hectic, and I've been inactive for the most part. I've been in writer's block lately, on top of dealing with day-to-day life. I'll try to post more frequently when I'm able to, just know that I'm still here 💋"
2025/03/29
2025/03/30
2025/07/10 "Passionate sex is great. A passionate marriage filled with passionate sex... So much better"
2026/04/18 "Been a while. 🍷 Here are some updates:
*I moved, boxes and furniture everywhere! 📦🛋🛏
*I'm on a weight loss journey (down 10lbs in 2 weeks!)
*Potentially studying for the ACT. Not huge updates, but still some things in my life."
Instagram was so much easier to deal with than Twitter was. But everything is here, minus a few pictures that were already shown in the Twitter post..
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Since Tumble will be my main social. I'm going to copy and paste all my Twitter posts here, with dates. Here we go:
(🔗 will take you to blog post)
2019/10/03 "I'm new to Twitter, sue me"
2019/10/04 "I have a new post on my secret life.
Check it out 😙🌰🌰👉🍑" 🔗
019/10/21 "Well then, I'm 4 away from being illegal"
2019/02/20 "I write about people's fetishes/fantasies. So be careful when you talk to me 😘"
2020/03/19 "Have a secret, can you keep it?"
2020/04/03 "New post finally up! (Took me so long to get up a new one for some reason. It's Adam&Eve review. Check it out! 😘📣🍆🤯🌋 🔗
2020/04/05 "The difference between cannibalism and a blow job is chewing." "Also, Socks are condoms for your feet"
2024/04/19 "New post up! Ab/dl is a more common lifestyle than you think. Be nice!👶🚼 "
An AB is where an adult loves wearing diapers, dressing, and acting like a baby. I met a guy in h.s who was an ab/dl (adult baby/diap
2020/07/01 "Guess what I'm doing again? 🌥😈"
2020/07/07 "You already know what I'm up to 😈📏🍆🌥
2020/07/15 "Just some fun in the sun"
2020/10/03 "Just some fun in the sun on this beautiful Saturday 🤟💦☀"
2020/10/07 "Just had a very interesting photoshoot with a professional camera and lighting equipment.. 📸👙🛌 💤"
2020/10/19 "Such a beautiful day out, wouldn't you say?🌙🤟🐱💦"
2024/10/26 "When you get this confirmed order email from Adam&Eve, and someone else bought it for you. Guess I'll try butt stuff soon 🤷♀️🍑🍩🍆💦💦
2020/10/27 "Such a cold day outside, perfect to wear knee socks.. and nothing else 😘🧦☁🍆"
2020/12/14 "Another day enjoying the sun with 12" 😘📏💦💦"
2021/01/06 "Just enjoying a glass of Stella Rosa wines Rosé in this nice weather"
2021/05/09 "Got some cash💰 should I put it in the bank or spend? 🤔🤑💸"
2021/07/03 "When a vibrator says waterproof, but after you use it in the tub, it doesn't charge or work properly anymore.. but that's fine since the company I got it from has a great exchange policy."
2022/03/29 With locals, I get cash. 🤪 💸
2022/04/11 "Going to the bank, but first a picture.🤑
2022/04/22 "I do prefer cash over online payments 💸😍"
2022/04/20 "Just published 3 new posts, check them out: Ebay Review
I write about fetishes, fantasies, and lifestyles.
I also review sex toys and lingerie
Enjoy the dive into my secret life.
2022/09/06 "Gonna take a moment from lactation to point out how clean and smooth my feet and legs are. And those toes! 👣 😍"
2022/09/12 "When you have 2 clients in 1 day.
The first one fucks and cums in you. Then the 2nd comes over and eats the 1st cum from inside you. They never met, but both were satisfied.
Got $100 at the end."
2022/09/27 "Went on a 4hr date and didnt want it to end 😘 love my outfit? 🤓"
2023/01/24 "Go ahead, look up my dress 👗 Enjoy my feet/legs too 👣"
2023/01/25 "Tomorrow going to a "business" meeting, only down fall is that it's an hour away..
2023/01/26 "Back from my meeting. Made $200 🤑 But girl got hungry so only have $161 left, lol. 🤷♀️
2023/02/24 "New Post! Pajama (lingerie) review!"
These pajamas are a favorite of mine. I bought them myself from Amazon, I wore them at the beginning of my pregnancy, when I first started
2023/02/26 "New post! Lingerie review"
I got a message on Instagram asking if I wanted free pairs of lingerie from Avidlove on Amazon , I've gotten other lingerie from them and ha
2023/02/27 "New Post! Fetish: all about the feet! 👣" 🔗
2023/02/28 "Corset Review" 🔗
2023/02/28 "Realizing I never posted my 1st anal toy review (made in 2020 I think)" 🔗
2023/03/01 "Review: Lingerie, Avidlove 3" 🔗
2023/03/01 "Either I can't find it or never posted it 🤦♀️ Lingerie Review, Avidlove 1 (made in 2020)." 🔗
2023/03/01 "Wow, I really like posting out of order. A&E review 2" 🔗
2023/03/01 "A&E 4: dark rider (15" dildo)" 🔗
2023/03/02 "A client's story: Pulled Muscle.💆🦵" 🔗
2023/03/02 "I need more sexual fantasies to write about. Any suggestions? 💋"
2023/03/03 "A&E review 5 (vibrator and free gifts)" 🔗
2023/03/04 "Tried to take photos for A&E 6, and over-door sex swings aren't made for heavy-set girls. I need a different sex swing and not "sex sent me to the ER"
2023/03/05 "A&E review 6 (something for him)."
So with all this stuff from Adam and Eve, I realized that I don't have many things for my husband or things that bring him more pleasure So
2023/03/05 "A&E 7 (lube and more)" 🔗
2023/03/05 "A&E 8 (games and more)" 🔗
202303/05 "A&E 9 (anal 2)" 🔗
2023/03/05 "A&E 10 (plug-in massager)" 🔗
2023/03/05 "⚠️ Danger of Adult Toys⚠️"
Toys I kept after all this If you're ever curious, "What do you do with all these toys when you're not using or reviewing them?" I have stor
2023/03/05 "A&E 11 (rabbit vibe)" 🔗
2023/03/06 "I just spammed a lot of blog posts, check them out! Mainly toy reviews. Enjoy :)"
2023/03/09 "Toy Review: A F*ck Machine" 🔗
2023/03/09 "New Post: Fantasy: Up-Skirt👗" 🔗
2023/03/10 "New Post: Fantasy: School Girl" 🤓🏫
Here is a classic, that I get asked all the time. "Naughty school girl" with the plaid skirt and pigtails, white shirt, and black tie. It's
2023/03/11 "Having sex in the back of a van is awkward, even with blankets down"
2023/03/22 Writing a few different post, more for education purposes to open up the mind and emotions.. hopefully they are liked as much as my other ones 🥰
2023/03/23 "Is there any specific topic that you all are wanting me to write about?"
2023/03/31 "Should I change my blog to Tumblr or keep it on Blogspot?"
2023/04/05 "It's always funny when people block me because I say personality is more important than looks and refuse to send them a picture. I'm a woman of mystery, just leave it at that."
2023/04/10 "People are stupid, I swear."
2023/04/11 "Casually walking around Target, then suddenly gets horny. What do I do? Finger bang in a stall. Nothing like a public silence scream to get me off."
2023/04/16 "New Client Story: 📏💇♂️or 🤏🐓" 🔗
2023/06/05 "So, yes, I've been MIA.. life is happening, will probably be MIA again.. BUT I will say, I appreciate the gifts that are sent to me, yummy"
2023/11/29 "Been writing.. so possibly new blog post.. just a heads up for those who care."
2024/01/16 "Drinking some red, red wine.
Makes me feel so so fine.🍷🥴🥵"
2024/01/27 "Like promised, new post! A&E review 12! 🔗
2024/01/20 "Happy Birthday! 😘"
2024/01/24 "I have some fun fiction stories that I've written. Should I post them?"
2024/03/06 "I LOVE when I get spoiled 😋"
2024/03/16 "If anyone wants to get me Stella Rosa Wine on this lovely Saturday night, that would be amazing!"
2024/04/15 "1 case is 16 boxes. Each box had 12 inside. 1 case = 192
I now have 192 Little Debbie oatmeal cream pies hiding in my closet, because I refuse to share my gifts. Thank you so much! 😘
2024/05/16 "Someone wanted to pay for my panties when I was out of the house. Guess I'm going commando now. 😋😘"
2024/05/16 "Waiting in a car. Is it hot out or just me 🥵😝"
2024/05/22 "Best time to do laundry is when you're naked"
2024/05/24 "I write a lot of kinky posts on my blog, but I also write posts about love, sex, and relationships. Because, like physical health, sexual health is as important, and knowing how to love yourself before expecting someone else to love you. And building a good relationship is key. 💜"
2024/06/08 "Best time to make cookies is in lingerie."
2024/12/13 "Sexual health educator 💞 | love and relationship writer 📝 | blogger 💻| giving a voice to the topics we all want to know about but no one is willing to talk about. 🗣"
2025/04/20
2025/05/06 "I got my toes done! Cat eyes and pretty! In other news, I'm planning on doing mobile massages. I have a message table, now I just need to get a post advertising my rates, and I'll be good to go. Only bad thing is if people can't host, but I'll deal with that when it happens 💋"
2026/04/20 "I received an amazing gift, A heated rabbit vibrator🐰, and I absolutely love it! 💜 Most vibrators start slowly. Not this one. It starts at the speed you want it to, with the thrusting head and the flicking tongue. It has a heat function that changes the game to a whole new level. I would recommend this to whoever needs a straight-to-the-point rabbit vibrator.
If you made it this far, yay! I will have another long post with all the payments I got. Yes, I got paid for a lot of things, and I took screenshots of the online ones, but it was too many for this post. See you soon 💋
2020/05/05 "Guess who got paid again! Also, he got me a new toy!! Can you guess what it is? 📏 🤤😍"
2020/05/11 "Another day, another dollar.. or thirty"
2020/05/19 "I love what I do ^^ and when I get paid."
2020/06/01 "Another video, another payday."
2020/06/02 "Anytime is coffee time!"
2020/06/08 "Looks like someone loves my lingerie! 😍"
2020/06/15 "The work I do is tiring, but worth it 🤑"
2020/06/18 "Another day, another 50 dollars! I'm really good at what I do."
2020/06/19 "I feel like I barely do anything anymore.. oh well 🤷♀️💸"
2020/07/06 "Slowly losing track of the days.. But at least today is payday!"
2020/07/14 "Talk about getting me instantly wet and horny😈😘😍 $200!!"
2020/07/15 "It's so fun being me"
2020/08/01 "A little late posting, but oh well 🤷♀️"
2020/10/08 "Just another day in paradise 😘🤟💦💰"
2020/10/15 "Just a tip 😘"
2020/10/27 "Payment from yesterday's fun 😘💸😍"
2020/11/04 "I could play all day, if it means getting paid 😘👆🍑💦"
2020/11/18 "Nothing like getting paid from doing what you love"
2020/11/30 "Just an early holiday treat someone decided to give me. 😘🎄"
2020/12/14 "My videos are really paying off, literally. Hehe 😘💦"
2020/12/26 "3 days late, but life's been busy. 😘🎄💸"
2021/01/19 "Earlier today i got paid! 😘😘💸💸"
2021/01/25 "A down payment for what's to come 😘"
2021/01/25 "Another partial of the down payment, I'm one lucky girl 😘💸"
2021/01/28 "Last part of down payment. Total of $203 😘💸"
2021/03/05 "Just got paid.."
2021/03/22 "Got paid last week! Sorry, it's late.. been busy.."
2021/03/31 "Forgot again, sorry 🤷♀️ Anyways, i got this from 🍆🍑 just saying!"
2021/04/08 "Got paid again for 🍆🍑 what would I not do 😝"
2021/04/15 "Been a while? But got paid so 🤷🏻♀️"
So this is all the times I've been paid online. minus one, because I can only have 30 pictures per post, and this is already a 2nd twitter post. Hope you enjoy this "Social catch-up" type deal
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
Okay so I'm just gonna get right to it, this is a 12" (30.48cm) long dildo, with a 2.25" (5.72 cm) girth. At first, I was worried but once i
Reviewing my first 12-inch
This one was a surprise at the time, I received this one close to the beginning of 2019. I n longer have this specific one, but have indulged in other 12-inch dildos.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
✓ Live Streaming✓ Interactive Chat✓ Private Shows✓ HD Quality✓ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
I received 4 lingerie from Avidlove/Amazon. 3 purple and 1 black What is different with this set is that I actually got to pick them! Most o
4 recent pieces of lingerie. 3 purple and 1 black 💜💜💜🖤
In short, I usually don't get to pick what lingerie I am given, but this time I could choose. Fully satisfied with the results, and love them to the fullest!
Or SLR for short is where I'll educate on the 'taboo' subject.
A lot of people may not have access to the learning materials of coming of age or even understand their own bodies and are not raised in an environment where talking about it is acceptable.
So something I want to start talking about is PROPER EDUCATION. because when the children don't have anyone else to turn to, they will turn to the internet.
The internet (yes, where I am right now) isn't all bad, but it can also provide some bad information if you're not careful.
~
Knowing your anatomy before getting involved with another person is best, not only for physical intercourse but also for medical reasons. knowing what things are and how to describe them if a doctor is needed is best. Only you know your body.
~
Self-love needs to be achieved before adding someone else. Why? If you can't/don't love yourself, how do you expect to love or have someone else love you?
~
These are only some of many examples of why I write what I write. To help and educate others in real situations.
Sex, love, and relationships, or SLR are the education side of my experience. As someone who grew up with even having the basics of health