Anti-Anti-Contact Movement

The Anti-Anti-Contact Movement strives for a united para community without the toxicity and exclusion the anti contacts have brought here.

Founded by @germanicdemon

Flag meaning:

Greenish Cyan: Acceptance and inclusion of individuals who don't want to have contact and aren't toxic towards those who do

Tealish Green: Fighting for paraphile rights and normalization

Black: Pushing the paraphile community towards unity without toxicity and exclusion

Dark Teal: Resistance against Anti Contacts' exclusionary and toxicity towards other contact stances

Symbols:

ΑΑς, 🦏πφ, 💚🩵🦏

Tags:

#ΑΑς , #🦏πφ , #💚🩵🦏 , #Anti-Anti-Contact , #AAC Movement #AAC Questions , #AAC Concerns , #AAC Graphics

Carrd.co:

https://aacmovement.carrd.co/

Original post:

https://archive.ph/MhAMw

Para coinings:

https://archive.ph/PFyfW

https://archive.ph/3A6vd

Haha nice.

Yes it does! It is inclusive of all paraphiles, including anti contacts that are not hateful or seperationist towards other contact stances.

Unity in the paraphile community, less demonization, more anti discrimination laws, equality, more educational resources, and working towards a future where we can be ourselves without worry of being harmed or worse.

How are you going to mitigate the harm pro-contact causes? Do you have a solid understanding of that harm and a clear understanding of preventative measures?

The pro-contact movement owes it to survivors to have defined answers to these questions, and to be willing to engage in dialogue with us - if not, you are in community with abusers. If you are not prepared to have that be fact, you must change it through your actions and the nature or direction of your advocacy.

Sincerely, a survivor with complex PTSD

I am saddened and deeply sorry to hear that has happened to you. Nobody deserves to have that happen to them, and I am glad you feel safe enough to reach out with this.

Not all pro contacts are predators/abusers, and I think it is important to understand the difference. While there is some overlap, a lot of predators do not identify as paraphiles and just seek out victims because they enjoy having easy victims and power. The pro contacts that are not abusers do care about their partner(s) consent and safety.

I believe that for those that are pro contact and do not want to harm their love interests, that there should be easy to access, safe, and verified resources to help them not cause trauma and be abusive; like for example making sure they do not feel scared into or pressured to consent, relationship tips, etc.

Overall I believe that there should be a better distinction between pro contact and predator/abuser. A contact stance or label doesn't determine if you are a good person or not. A personal example for me would be my distress and anger I get when I see people under the anti contact label, because I have horrible memories of them telling me vicious, heinous things, and wanting me to kill myself just because I am not one of them.

My main priorities right now are for paraphiles to have more anti discrimination laws, better education outlets to not only help us, but also to help bigots be more understanding of us, to feel safe to be ourselves without worry of being harmed or worse, less demonization, and more equality.

it feels like you can only be a paraphile on tumblr if you're very loudly anti-contact or else your an evil abuser

anyways I love this account so far, very excited to see more from it!!

This is one of the main issues as to why anti contacts have been detrimental to the community and progress. They act just as vile- if not more than bigots when it comes to other contact stances. They claim to be the real ones pushing for paraphile acceptance, whilst pushing away a majority of their own community and making their own walk on eggshells- else be banished deemed as a predator.

I hope for the best for you, anon. I will keep fighting for change to finally happen in this community so we can finally take real steps towards for acceptance united.

As time goes on we as a community truly need to unify. The more and more antis grow that threaten our safety and lives as paraphiles, being in a divided community will ultimately bring us down. If we divide, exclusive, and being hatred amongst ourselves, it inevitably makes it very easy for antis to harm our efforts for equality.

We need to uplift and stand with each other if we truly want equal rights and better laws for us. Set aside our differences in contact stances and unite for out shared goals. I truly hope this movement can help get that ball rolling for a better future we collectively desire.