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thereās something very beautiful about being able to try again tomorrow
I have been trying tomorrow for the past 3 years
and you still have tomorrow to try again

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hi my lovely,
could you please repost your cousin
signe's list of basic necessities for
succeeding and settling in society?
thank you kindly.
Hi again!
So, if you don't already know, my cousin Sig has a list of products and styles that she's gathered by going around LA to places like the Beverly Hills Country Club, Soho House, the Los Angeles Country Club, the Brentwood Country Club, the Jonathan Club, the Valley Hunt Club, and a variety of other extremely exclusive private social clubs and golf clubs in Los Angeles. She also uses the information and trends she picked up on during her sorority days and she uses those faithfully. She was in the sorority at USC that Elle Woods' sorority, Delta Nu, was based on and she claims that she's gathered a huge amount of info and life experience from doing good as a DG at USC.
Nails!
Sig highly recommends always having mid length acrylic finger nails painted with gel polish in a neutral, pale pink, or soft white colour, whichever suits your skin colour more. She thinks that the higher class the environment you're in is, the more toned back you need to be until you know people and they're happy to say that they know you. She's quick to always recommend tapered square and round acrylic shapes with glossy and plain gel polish. She doesn't believe in having any designs or bright/dark polish until you're settled in and you know what's acceptable and what's not. She's huge a fan of what she called "country club gel nails" and she adds to her list of country club colours by asking the ladies at the clubs she frequents who she knows have married men worth millions. She's got a list of OPI colours that she loves and if women who married men worth $300 million are happy with these colours, you'll be too, Sig claims that the first steps are gentleness and simplicity before you know what you're going out for.
From left to right and all the way down to the bottom:
ā Humidi-Tea ā ā Bubble Bath ā
ā Put it in Neutral ā ā Mimosas for Mr. and Mrs. ā
ā Passion ā ā Stop it, I'm Blushing! ā
ā Be there in a Prosecco ā ā Tiramisu for Two! ā
ā Lisbon wants Moor ā ā Chiffon my Mind ā
ā Funny Bunny ā ā Alpine Snow ā
Hair!
Sig swears up and down that long hair is the way to go and I do agree with her on this point because of my own experiences. You don't really see very many women with short hair but you see a lot of women with long hair, lobs, and shoulder length hair but you don't ever really see many women with short hair or pixie cuts. Sig's theory about this is based on the fact that the more affluent a woman is, the more likely it is that she's from a background with religious ties or she's a WASP, a Valley Girl, a Sorority Girl, or she just prefers the look of long hair. My theory is that people tend to follow trends and if a majority of the women who have status and affluence at clubs, NPC groups, golf clubs, and other exclusive places have long hair, other women will follow their lead and take up the trend. Neither of us have ever seen any natural black hairstyles (I can say that I've NEVER seen it) and I was told by a black woman I met Tuesday night that it's because she doesn't want her hair to be bothered and so she wears protective styles like box braids on the longer side, wigs/weaves, long micro braids, and micro links on relaxed hair. I also saw a few ponytails.
Skin!
I can't say that I've met a woman who hasn't been quick to tell me that her secret to flawless uniform skin is a spray tan. I've been told up and down the coast of California that spray tans are key and I've been bothered by Sig to start spray tanning to make my body more uniform and make me look like I have a glow, orange isn't the answer but a nice bronzed gold colour is. Sig like to tell me that the women in LA don't just glow with health, they glow with the results from their $200 weekly spray tans and their body glow oils. Sig told me years ago and still tells me to this very day that sitting out in the sun and going to sun beds are from the days of old, using self tanning products and body glow oils or going to get spray tans are part of the new wave. Sig prefers a bronzed look because she believes that a nice golden glow flatters everyone and doesn't make your skin look leathery and she thinks that, regardless of race, every woman should spray down for an even colour.
From left to right and all the way down to the bottom:
ā Bondi Sands ā ā Bali Body ā ā St. Tropez ā
ā Jergens ā ā NARS ā ā Bali Bodyā
ā Sol de Janeiro ā ā Sol Body by Colourpop ā
ā Anthelios by La Roche-Posay ā ā Neutrogena ā
ā Kiehl's Super Fluidā ā Shiseido Sun Protector ā
Makeup!
No one wears heavy dark makeup during daylight hours, you don't see it inside clubs or out on the gold green when the sun is up, you don't see it in the dining areas, and you don't see women wearing any sort of dark or smoky or bedroom makeup during the day. Sig never wears her dark smoky eye, I avoid my smoky winged liner during daylight hours, most of the affluent women don't tend to wear anything too dark so Sig recommends sticking to nude shimmery shadows, neutral matte shadows, gentle winged eyeliner, nude lipstick, shimmery lip gloss, long lashes, and staying away from trendy makeup styles. Cut creases and lots of highlighter won't work, you should go for a natural but still beautiful daytime look, bridal makeup is the best bet for what to do when it comes to choosing your look of the day. Darker makeup works at night for dinners but it should still have those bridal vibes, nothing overly heavy or extra should be happening with your look.
Sports!ļæ¼
This is a bit of a tricky one. Sig swears by a more casual look and she fond of wearing capris (!!!), plain white tops, and sneakers and she's never had any trouble. The West Coast is completely different than the Midwest, the East Coast, and the South. One thing always remains the same: what you wear whilst you're golfing and playing tennis and what you wear whilst you're in the club or in the clubhouse will always be drastically different. You never ever ever mix up your outfits, you avoid wearing or being seen in your activity clothing unless you're doing activities. If you're not already established, no one needs to see you make a style faux pas, you don't wear any sort of clothing that's specifically meant for exercise to get drinks or to sit to eat. Sig and I both agree with the fact that you MUST change, freshen up, and look your best before you transition from green to gimlet. Sig pulls most of her sporting styles from Maria Sharapova and Caroline Wozniacki and she uses her own closet when it comes to casual daytime styles.
Style!
You should either wear more casual but still classy outfits or you should go fully casual. There's a soft in between but you don't want to be overdressed. Sig believes in wearing neutrals in the daylight hours and she endlessly talks about a blogger who she follows for inspiration when she needs it and who I used photos from as the basis for the style board I've attached. You always want to look laid back but still slightly formal during sailing hours, if you're using the club to study or to have lunch, if you're meeting up with friends, or if you're just sitting around to have a nice day, you want to look nice. You don't want to wear anything too dressy but you also don't want to look bad, wearing casual pants with nice tops, nice skirts and blouses, nice dresses, and sprinkling in a few nice accessories is the way to go for a club look.
āthe Inspo is from Fashion Blogger, Steffy's Styleāļæ¼
Swim!
Sig was extremely quick to say that she doesn't know who needs to be told this but if you're living on the West Coast then you need to know how to swim. It's not an option, most clubs and places where affluent people are have an element of water and you cannot depend on a life vest and the shallow end, you need to know how to swim. If you're going to a beach club or you're invited to a pool party, you cannot safely be around people who are drinking and water, if you're unable to swim and you fall into the water, you're in danger. Drowning in real life doesn't happen like like it does in the movies, your body becomes so focused on conserving air that you can't always cry out for help and you don't always thrash around and make noise, sometimes you silently slip under the water. On that note, you DO need a cute swimsuit! You can't be in an environment where you're surrounded by people with wealth and status wearing your seventh grade speedo, you need to have a classy swimsuit! It's silly to go somewhere nice without being ready!
āNet-a-Porter is where Sig buys all her swimsuitsā
Per usual,
It's next to impossible to get Sig to divulge her really important secrets, she likes to keep some things to herself and she likes all of her best tips and tricks to be secret. I will say that her secrets that don't have to do with appearance and blending into a new and very affluent setting have to do with personality and her interests and what she's involved herself in. She's started the circuit and took her notes, she spent a lot of time gathering even more experience, and she did everything she thought she needed to do to get the guarantee that she needed to have for a lifetime of security, stability, health, and plenty of prosperity.
Linsi <3
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they hate me for my slutty waist and my ability to see the good in everything
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Having a healed enough nervous system so that you donāt lose yourself each time someone disregards you, dislikes you, or invalidates you is true peace. Choosing to stand in your authenticity without the urge to prove or change any opinions of you is truly powerful.
This is your sign. It's time to focus on you. REALLY focus on you. Your self-growth is your priority. It means everything. Put your attention on what's good for you. Stop playing around. You know you have what it takes to manifest those things that you can't stop thinking about. It's time to take yourself more serious. You deserve it. Blessings will follow.
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Reflections on building a better me
Exercise is not optional. Mental satisfaction from completing yet another workout cannot be overstated. Physical satisfaction from feeling good and enjoying your body in clothes, the mirror, and photos cannot be overstated. Stop messing around, stop info hoarding, go exercise. And tomorrow. And the next day. And the next day. And the next day.
Looking your best depending on circumstances (ie, casual, dressy, bedtime, etc) is not optional. External confidence from taking care of your appearance top to bottom and loving what you see in the mirror is highly valuable.
You feel better when you eat better. Youāre proud of yourself when you eat better.
Hobbies, hobbies, hobbies. Do you feel embarrassed when someone asks what you do all day and you canāt come up with an honest answer that doesnāt make you sound like a loser with no life? You need hobbies. Some that are outdoors, some that are indoors. Some that are taxing, some that are relaxing. You will enjoy life more, become a more well-rounded individual, and have positive ways to spend your time rather than racking up more hours on your phone. Get some hobbies. Plural.
Procrastination and laziness should disgust you. You shouldnāt be able to relate. You should strive to be above that. You like yourself better when you complete your tasks and get things done in a timely manner. Youāre proud of yourself when youāre on a roll and have a productive streak. Youāre impressed by productive people and no one likes a lazy bum.
Decide what you want from life and pursue it ruthlessly. Donāt take advice from people who donāt have the life you want, unless they were once on your desired path and fell off. Even then, you listen to them when they say what NOT to do (learning from their mistakes) but clearly they donāt know what TO do bc they didnāt make it to the finish line. Take ādo thisā advice from people who crossed the finish line and have what you want. Youāll find that the amount of input that is actually valuable to you has suddenly dwindled. Good. Less chatter in your ears.
Get yourself in order before you go around critiquing everyone else. Get YOUR face in order. Get YOUR body right. Get YOUR money up. Get YOUR style in order. Get YOUR relationship together.
Stop coming to everyone for validation like a toddler. Validate yourself. Do you like it? Okay then. Are you over it? Okay then. Stop being so weak. Stand tall, lead yourself. Stop being such a follower.
Be a good person. Help your family, lend a hand to strangers, give back, say sorry, do things for loved ones just because, show affection, work things out, watch your mouth, speak respectfully, remember that the world owes you nothing. Stop being an insufferable freak.
You canāt change anyone but yourself. Get yourself in order and be a good role model. Thatās all you can do. Give people advice when they want it and then go about your business. Get yourself in order. Get yourself in order.
Outrage content is the lowest form of entertainment. Engage in things that make you happy or educate you. Doom scrolling only leads to doom. Donāt like this person? Donāt click on their articles or videos. Unfollow and block. Donāt like these people? Leave their spaces. You donāt have to be outraged every day.
Always keep your word to yourself. Make a plan, stick to the plan, always deliver. If you canāt be reliable for yourself then who can you be reliable for?
Anytime someone tries to tell me it's pretentious to be so into health and work outs and eating super well and putting so much of my attention and energy into it really just don't know what's it's like to watch a parent die from illness or when you are getting sicker than everyone else before even turning 25 and get a diagnosis where even a specialist tells you all you can do is surgeries or medicines that won't cure you but will destroy your body to keep you functional
Everyone can roll their eyes when I talk about the gym and sobriety but honestly, it saves my life each day and I hope everyone finds it even though most of us who do have out necessity
I shared with this lady today that my fitness is non-negotiable and is a reflection of the strength of my spirit. Iām not on and off with working out nor do I work out to get ready for bikini season. I have worked out pretty much consistently for the last 20 years. That's because exercising my body is akin to breathing. It is one way I clear out the gunk from my mind and emotions and liberating for my mental, emotional and spiritual health. It doesn't matter what happened the day before, I know that exercise, whether gym time, HIIT classes, pole dance, belly dance, aerial dance, pilates, running up hills, long walks in the city, climbing stadium stairs, or hot yoga fuels the life force pulsing and protruding through my body that makes me feel delicious in the best ways possible no matter what challenges I'm facing. Working out for me is not-optional. My ancestral mothers know that I am not meant to walk this earth disconnected from my body and feeling sluggish and incapable. Sculpting a strong back, a strong ass, strong legs, strong arms, strong feet, etc. are some of the most important parts of my spiritual practice. Said differently: Your body is truly the altar. Bless it with some offerings of fitness if movement is accessible for you. Allow these words to be your reminder to get up and get out. -India Ame'ye, Author
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Imagine who you could be if only you had the audacity.
If you didnāt care about looking stupid. If you werenāt afraid of making mistakes. If you didnāt put other peopleās judgements before your own. If you didnāt neglect your responsibilities. If you didnāt procrastinate. If you didnāt let the toxic voice win. If you didnāt overthink everything. If you didnāt fear your own power.
Imagine that you have the audacity.
That you take bold actions. That you take accountability for yourself. That you unapologetically show your creativity to the world. That you ignore the naysayers. That you remain unbothered. That you allow yourself to be seen. That you embrace all that you are. That you speak your truth. That you allow yourself to make mistakes and learn from them, then become a winner. That you speak highly to yourself. That you begin your journey right now.
Donāt block yourself from being your greatest.
H.S.

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