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This is so true for me.

I can work with this.

7 Proven Strategies

Hey Tumblrs,

Here's a quick reference for you on how to do it right – based on personal experience and an exclusive interview with Sailor Mercury.

I know documenting definitely won’t make it stop, but trust me, it can help out big time if you ever need to prove what happened.

1. Start now The sooner you start keeping notes, the more accurate and complete they will be. You don’t have to know yet whether you’ll ever use them. At this point, you're just keeping your options open.

2. Write down what happened, right away Write down the date, time, location, who was present, and what happened. Include all the details you can remember, and note whether you or the harasser told anyone about it afterward. Include direct quotes if you remember any.

3. Save every scrap of supporting evidence  Keep texts, emails, voicemails, photos, and schedules – anything that could help to show what happened. Take screenshots of your call logs if they're relevant.

4. Describe how the harassment affected you personally Write down how the harassment made you feel and what impact it had on your life. Did it affect your sleep, mood, or health? Did it cost you money?

5. Describe how it affected your ability to do your job Write down how the harassment changed things for you at work. Did it make it harder for you to do your job? Did your performance or reputation suffer? Were you punished for complaining?

6. Keep your documentation private and safe Store everything in a secure place that your employer can’t access. Make sure you have access from your personal accounts, not just work accounts. 

7. Keep your records up-to-date Every time something new happens – or you remember something – add it to your notes. Notes you make over time, soon after each event, are generally taken more seriously than something you write all at once later.

Be well, frens.

Many act as if slavery was a uniquely American crime.

“One reason,” says author Wilfred Reilly, “is that a lot of black people survived here.”

He argues that much of what Americans are taught about slavery is just wrong:

7 Proven Strategies

Hey Tumblrs,

Here's a quick reference for you on how to do it right – based on personal experience and an exclusive interview with Sailor Mercury.

I know documenting definitely won’t make it stop, but trust me, it can help out big time if you ever need to prove what happened.

1. Start now The sooner you start keeping notes, the more accurate and complete they will be. You don’t have to know yet whether you’ll ever use them. At this point, you're just keeping your options open.

2. Write down what happened, right away Write down the date, time, location, who was present, and what happened. Include all the details you can remember, and note whether you or the harasser told anyone about it afterward. Include direct quotes if you remember any.

3. Save every scrap of supporting evidence  Keep texts, emails, voicemails, photos, and schedules – anything that could help to show what happened. Take screenshots of your call logs if they're relevant.

4. Describe how the harassment affected you personally Write down how the harassment made you feel and what impact it had on your life. Did it affect your sleep, mood, or health? Did it cost you money?

5. Describe how it affected your ability to do your job Write down how the harassment changed things for you at work. Did it make it harder for you to do your job? Did your performance or reputation suffer? Were you punished for complaining?

6. Keep your documentation private and safe Store everything in a secure place that your employer can’t access. Make sure you have access from your personal accounts, not just work accounts. 

7. Keep your records up-to-date Every time something new happens – or you remember something – add it to your notes. Notes you make over time, soon after each event, are generally taken more seriously than something you write all at once later.

Be well, frens.

* I might use it in a story someday.

Soul connection is everything.