dad’s fav lil girl

The submissive whines at their dom when they see the object in his hand. It’s a dildo, made of ice.

“I think you know what this is for, don’t you baby?” The dom purrs, slowly stepping closer. The submissive nods and squirms. “Words pet, now.”

“It’s for me.” The submissive whispers.

“For you how?”

“I have to warm it.”

“And do you know why?” The Dom asks, slipping two fingers inside the submissives cunt.

“I talked back to you Sir.” The submissive says unsteadily, holding back a moan.

“That’s right. Now up baby.” The submissive gets up on their knees and the dom holds the dildo for them to lower onto. Hissing at the chill, the submissive takes it all.

“Good pet, that’s it. Now you’re going to sit here while I watch you.” The dom sits in the wingback chair in the corner of the room, the submissive on display on the bed. The submissive whine and squirms for half an hour before the dom finally makes a move. He leans back, takes his cock out and slowly strokes it.

“Such a pretty sight, you losing yourself like this. All over a piece of ice.” The submissive whimpers. The dom wraps his hand around his cock and jerks slowly.

“Bounce, bounce on what’s left. Ride the ice like you would my cock.” He demands. The submissive nods and begins bouncing. The dom can see the submissive’s thighs are covered in liquid.

Vet for high risk play. If you don't have the utmost trust in someone, control what you're putting in your own body and know where it all came from.

Check for interactions. Yes, this means sharing complete information about whatever medications the person getting drugged is on. No, the interactions are not always intuitive. Yes, this includes things like alcohol. Ideally, ask your doctor about interactions with whatever you're about to play with- they're trained in spotting interactions, you're probably not.

ETA- @vekarin-striae mentioned that pharmacists are often cheaper, more specialized, and less invasive to talk to about drug interactions.

If you've checked the interactions yourself, assume you might have missed something. Even if you've gotten your doctor to check, be aware they might have missed something. I once caught a potassium deficiency issue in someone's existing medication that their doctor prescribed them.

ROUND 1- Use it for its own sake before you play with it. Spend the time together and set yourself up for success: easy access to food, water, comfort media, and comfortable places to sit and lie down. Know how long it should last. Get someone who's used it before to tripsit if you can. Don't give yourself any tasks that involve new skills. Be ready to offer yourself or your partner a redirect from negative or anxious trains of thought.

Know what a good time on your drug physically looks and feels like. This is crucial, because things might go sideways in a way you're not expecting. Don't just be watching for specific signs of an overdose (though those are worth keeping in mind too)- if something seems wrong, get help. Seconds matter and you're probably not a professional.

Similarly: if the drug is at all sedative, or a downer, or long-lasting, and they're unconscious before it's out of their system, check for breathing and check for pulse. Also, your risk profile is your own, but I don't fuck around with hard sedatives- there's too fine a line between which body systems they shut down.

Start with a low-to-standard dose, and adjust doses for any relevant interactions (e.g. estradiol approximately halves liver tolerance [alcohol, weed, diphenhydramine], SSRIs approximately double psychedelic tolerance).

In order to avoid dependence issues, I wait a default of two weeks between recreational uses of any drug. (I only count caffeine here if I'm having more than two cups of tea in a day.)

ROUND 2- Play with it scripted and above board before you play with it in an explicitly cnc way. Your communication and mental state will have shifted, and you'll need to learn to accommodate that; make sure you try things out without added communication barriers first. Also, make sure to talk about how everything went afterwards when you're both sober!

If you're going to adjust doses, do it slowly and carefully. Most easily accessible recreational drugs can be incremented by half the standard dose. Some drugs are incredibly sensitive to fine adjustments; this is why Fentanyl, for example, is so dangerous and not recommended to use.

ROUND 3- Don't get comfortable. Try to have as peaceful and relaxed an experience as you want, and keep an eye on things as you play with different emotional states- but DEFINITELY continue to keep an eye on safety. It doesn't stop being a concern because you've done it once and everything went fine.