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We always talk about “signs of a terrible Dom” so let’s talk about some signs of an actually good Dom

They ask you about your day: They show compassion and actually want to listen about how your day went

They ALWAYS want to keep fields of communication open: Whether you’re in the middle of a kinky-as-fuck scene or you two are in a heated argument, the means of communication is ALWAYS open. Once you give your safe word, IT IS DONE

Aftercare is a top priority. No matter what this is for you in particular, they put a lot of emphasis on aftercare (cuddling, movie watching, bath time, etc.)

They aren’t afraid to scold you when you actually mess up. Sometimes we fuck up, both with our dynamics or we screwed up something at work or school. Doms will scold you, put also help cheer you up and might even offer ways to make it positive

Sex might be apart of the dynamic, but it’s not the focus. I get the fact some people get involved with other BDSM partners for the sole reason of sex, but outside of those VERY SPECIFIC DYNAMICS, sex is NOT the sole focus. It might be a fun “add on”, but it’s NOT the primary objective (penetrative sex or other forms of sex acts).

They are concerned for your safety, but don’t overdo it. They want you safe, but don’t take it to the paranoid level where they need to track every little thing you do.

They respect your privacy. EVERYONE has secrets (”skeletons in your closest”), even among romantic partners who have been partners for a long time, people have stuff they just don’t feel comfortable confessing every little thing in their life. A respectful Dom understands this and doesn’t need to go spying on you or attempt to invade your privacy (track internet history, track phone usage, track where you’ve been, etc.)

They trust you. A Dom who doesn’t trust you will purposely try to fuck up the relationship/dynamic, they will show severe jealousy, and other negative aspects. A Dom that trusts you will respect YOU as a person as well as you to keep your word on different things.

When disagreements happen, they use constructive language. There is not a healthy relationship on this earth that is 100% argument/disagreement free. However, whenever these do happen, it is NOT a “me against you” style argument (”I WON THE ARGUMENT”, none of that). It is done in a way with minimal accusatory/hurtful statements

Remember when you said you loved the idea of being objectified? Just like a piece of furniture? Welcome to the long, slow, immobilized, helpless boredom of being just that- another decorative possession to be moved around on a whim by the men who control you now.

This is call out to start a list of the Tumblr blogs that are into 24/7 objects and vice versa so that we can find each other easier and start a community.

Objectification is comparatively new term in the bdsm world. objects are lower than slaves because they are devoid of humanity. 24/7 objects are usually for heavy abuse and torture. Because there are fewer real objects and how to use them out there, I felt that we should start a list of those tumblrs that are devoted to objectification so that we can find one another,

Re-blog this if you want to be added to that list. Periodically, I’ll go through and combine the re-blogs into a specific list that can out.

I’ll start the list off…

TortureSadist  // torturesadist.tumblr.com  //  Future object owner.

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Thank You to all who all have re-blogged and liked this post. As of 22 Aug, we’ve had 225 notes. It will take a little bit of time but I will attempt to keep up adding to this list. If you only liked this post, it is being noted that you are only interested in objectification and not specifically seeking owning/ownership or training. If any object wants to be listed as being owned, please update.

Masters/Owners;

TortureSadist  // torturesadist.tumblr.com  //  Future object owner.

The Bondage Boss // thebondageboss.tumblr.com // object owner and trainer

Leatherman370 // Leatherman370.tumblr.com //

Buzzcutdad // Buzzcutdad.tumblr.com //

Nice Sadist // nicesadist.tumblr.com // Owner and Sadist

TheDenverDom // TheDenverDom.tumblr.com

cigarpervdad // cigarpervdad.tumblr.com

aknatureboy // aknatureboy.tumblr.com // Owner seeking object

hailjonathan // hailjonathan.tumblr.com //

masterfetishbear // masterfetishbear.tumblr.com //

Objects:

ObjectD // objectd.tumblr.com // Object

subhumannyc // subhumannyc.tumblr.com/ object

slaveboy23 // slaveboy23.tumblr.com

rubber247 // rubber247.tumblr.com // future object

captivetortureobject // caprtivetortureobject.tumblr.com/ object seeking owner

confessions of a hooded bottom // confessionsofahoodedbottom.tumblr.com //

object439 // object439.tumblr.com //

snuff•øbject // snuffobject.tumblr.com // object searching for Owner

pasadenabondagesub // pasadenabondagesub.tumblr.com

cum slave // a-cum-slave.tumblr.com // Future object

marksblock // marksblock.tumblr.com // future object

subboyuk // subboyuk.tumblr.com // object

sfgimp // sfgimp.tumblr.com //

tiedntamed // tiedntamed.tumblr.com // Leather object

sfcuir // sfcuir.tumblr.com //

property of my alpha ezra // property-of-my-alpha-ezra.tumblr.com //

subboyuk // subboyuk.tumblr.com // object

slavedix // slavedix.tumblr.com //

gummigimp // gummigimp.tumblr.com // gimp looking to be turned object

rbbrbrbkn // rbbrbrbkn.tumblr.com // possible object

dirtypigsdog // dirtypigsdog.tumblr.com //

rubberbondage70 // rubberbondage70.tumblr.com //

leathersub01 // leathersub01.tumblr.com // slave object - Recon -

controlling atlas // controllingatlas.tumblr.com // bondage focused object

prisoner4u // prisoner4u.tumblr.com // future object and complete prisoner

rovlin509 // rovlin509.tumblr.com //

gaybuddyblog // gaybuddyblog.tumblr.com //

herpatgay // herpatgay.tumblr.com //

gaybdsmsex // gaybdsmsex.tumblr.com //

hotguysandsuch // hotguysandsuch.tumblr.com //

bootslaveboyusa // bootslaveboyusa.tumblr.com // total object

thomasslavebr // thomasslavebr.tumblr.com //

unmitfun // unmitfun.tumblr.com

spacekitty666 // spacekitty666.tumblr.com // future object

pikemanj // pikemanj.tumblr.com //

franksm3 // franksm3.tumblr.com //

4everchaste // 4everchaste.tumblr.com

kinkystgo // kinkystgo.tumblr.com //

mansmanthing // mansmanthing.tumblr.com //

rubberpigboys // rubberpigboys.tumblr.com //

maxfy // maxfy.tumblr.com //

alfabin96 // alfabin96.tumblr.com //

14polish88 // 14polish88.tumblr.com //

d-7326 // d-7326.tumblr.com //

painpigdallas // painpigdallas.tumblr.com //

rubberdsm // rubberdsm.tumblr.com //

tie-me-93 // tie-me-93.tumblr.com //

ma1bloke // ma1bloke.tumblr.com //

slaveproperty101 // slaveproperty101.tumblr.com //

abjectneck // abjectneck.tumblr.com //

corsetslut // corsetslut.tumblr.com //

iampupscout // iampupscout.tumblr.com //

qa2be // qa2be.tumblr.com //

wilhelm23 // wilhelm23.tumblr.com //

rubberbondage // rubberbondage.tumblr.com //

fagslave102 // fagslave102.tumblr.com //

subperv1985 // subperv1985.tumblr.com //

londonguyzone1 // londonguyzone1.tumblr.com //

tobbound // tobbound.tumblr.com //

I’ve been in chastity for a looooong time. The very first thing i did when i turned 18 is take a buss to a crowded city, and bought a chastity cage CB-6000 in there. I remember that, i got so nervous.  If you are looking for the perfect chastity cage for you, feel free to folow my advise, it will save you allot of cash. 1) Don’t buy a device that can pinch your skin.

2) Don’t buy cheap plastic devices or flexible materials! The only plastic device i know won’t break are the expensive CB-series and Holytrainers.

3) Don’t buy a transparant device. You dont want to see your penis, after 2-3 weeks you will forget how your penis looks like exactly, and forget about it more and more. 

4) Dont buy a chastity cage with a lockpad. You can grab the lockpad and move your cage untill you orgasm, lets be honest sissies.

5) Dont buy a cage that shows too much skin. With erections, your skin will just get swollen and hurt.

6) The perfect cage examples and places where you can buy them :

I dont get anything out of this post or something like that, this is just to help you! Dutch people can buy from https://www.kuisheidskooi.nl/huismerk/Kuisheidskooi-Metaal Extremly cheap, i bought mine there… For the others you can buy one at for example :  https://steelworxx.de/ But those are expensive, you can probably find one like this online cheap, but be carefull. I know you are wondering… ‘’Sissyjoyce, on your picture you are wearing a holytrainer S" I know… its a good chastity cage, but these are better. Right now i got the right one from the lowest picture i showed. xxx

This is call out to start a list of the Tumblr blogs that are into 24/7 objects and vice versa so that we can find each other easier and start a community.

Objectification is comparatively new term in the bdsm world. objects are lower than slaves because they are devoid of humanity. 24/7 objects are usually for heavy abuse and torture. Because there are fewer real objects and how to use them out there, I felt that we should start a list of those tumblrs that are devoted to objectification so that we can find one another,

Re-blog this if you want to be added to that list. Periodically, I’ll go through and combine the re-blogs into a specific list that can out.

I’ll start the list off…

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