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“You have to learn to love yourself before you can allow someone else to do it as well. There’s nothing wrong with being single. There’s nothing wrong with being alone. There’s nothing wrong with taking time for yourself to work out who you are before you go out there into the dating world, because how can you offer who you are if you don’t know who you are.”

Usually, when people ask how I’m doing, the real answer is I’m doing shitty, but I can’t say I’m doing shitty because I don’t have a good reason to be doing shitty. So if I say, “I’m doing shitty,” then they say, “why? What’s wrong?” and I have to be like “I don’t know, all of it?” So instead when people ask how I’m doing, I usually say, “I am doing so great.”