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also ,,, YAYYA !! kyu can call 日没 " 甘い－さん" if kyu wan !! :3 どうもありがとう for da cute nickname !!

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i had 2 anons ask this , so i'll use this one to answer ^-^ : transjapanese tips from a cis/natijapanese beast !!

— first , culture can vary depending on WHERE you live in japan and whether or not you moved there from somewhere else , are mixed (culturally or racially) , etc. so research different prefectures and customs among demographics in japan!!

— you can do little things when typing , like adding kaomojis ∩^ω^∩ or using japanese texting slang like "wwwwww" for laughing ! the more "w"s , the harder ur laughing !!

— learn the language !! you definitely dont have to be fluent , but the language is VERY important to understanding the culture and vice versa. at the very least , learn the common sounds in the language and how to pronounce / read basic hiragana & katakana !

— its by no means NECESSARY , but you can definitely find some japanese fashion subcultures to dress in ! make sure to also learn the history and culture around it as well!

— okay this one is very much based on personal experience , but it seems like any westerner will assume ur asian if u bow regularly . i do it just out of habit , but giving a small bow when thanking someone , when moving in front of someone , a deeper bow for apologizing , etc. i really cant even think of every situation i bow in , i dont think abt it when i do it wwwww

wow can a single tumblr user be normal abt black folks . particularly black women . like i just saw a post talking abt how queenie from tadc is voiced by a black woman and intended to be a black woman like canonically and why are 75% of the reblogs some variation of "omg yes kinger likes chocolate dipping in the chocolate mm chocolate so yummy" like SHUT UP ??? oh my god ??? thats a real black woman ur talking abt btw . like in this context the focus is on Cassie Ewulu , not queenie . and the comments are STILL just talking abt her like a sex object . not that itd be any better if it is / was about queenie . but seriously ?

"chocolate" or any similar comparison to food is not the compliment you think it is ! she is not a "chocolate queen" , shes a black woman. say black . shes black . im black . black people exist . youre allowed to say black. if youre calling people of ANY color "chocolate" or "coffee" or any of these weird fucking food terms , maybe just step back and ask urself why . why are we food to you ? whats wrong with being black ? why can i be "chocolate" but not black

ASK GAME !! . . . except its questions i'd REALLY LOVE to answer personally and i havent seen them on any other ask games so .. :3 pls ask !!

🌈 — WHAT IDs DO YOU FEEL MOST ATTACHED TO ?

🐠 — WHAT IDs ARE YOU TRANSITIONING TO / PLAN TO TRANSITION TO ?

🏖️ — WHICH PARAPHILIA IS YOUR STRONGEST ATTRACTION ?

🏄‍♂️ — WHAT DOES YOUR TRANSITION LOOK LIKE FOR AN IDENTITY OF YOUR CHOICE (or the asker can choose!) ?

🐬 — FREE SPACE !! ASKER'S CHOICE !! ASK YOUR OWN QUESTION !!

🌺 — CHOOSE A FEW CHARACTERS TO REPRESENT YOUR TRANSITION GOALS & EXPLAIN THEM !

☀️ — WHAT IDENTITIES DO YOU WISH PEOPLE WOULD TREAT YOU AS THE MOST ?

🥥 — ANY OTHER RADQ HEADMATES ? IF SO , WHO (and optionally , what are their IDs) ?

🍉 — CHOOSE A PARA OF YOURS , WHAT'S YOUR "TYPE" (what are you specifically attracted to / ideal partner / etc.) ?

🍬 — DO YOU THINK THE FUTURE IS RADQ ? WHY OR WHY NOT ?

hi radq community some of u are genuinely so ableist actually . like im being serious rn . and idk how some of u dont see it . is it just magically not bigotry when its directed at antis?

calling people "delusional" for being antis is ableist. delusions dont inherently make someone hateful , "delusional" is not an insult it is a state of being. "but i dont mean it like that!!!" then dont say it that way. words mean things. "but im delusional too and-" well i dont actually care! you can be disabled and neurodivergent and still be ableist , even to people with the same conditions as you. this does include calling someone "deluded". you have no right to say when someone is or is not experiencing a delusion. anti or not.

calling antis "retarded" is also ableist! "but i can reclaim it!!" thats not how reclamation works. reclaiming a word is not just using it to be mean to a different group of people. reclaiming a word is taking it and using it for YOURSELF or your COMMUNITY (with consent) in a positive way. like calling YOURSELF a retard is reclaiming , calling someone that in a hurtful way without consent is NOT reclaiming it. its just using a slur the way slurs are used.

and for the record , it is still ableism / saneism / bigotry when it is directed at antis. antis are also people . antis can be disabled , and neurodivergent , and poc , and otherkin , and everything else that we radqueers are. they may even be radq themselves and not know it. perpetuating their OWN hatred against them does nothing but bring down the community and justify (to them) the way they treat us . im not asking you to treat every anti with kindness , especially if theyre not being kind themselves , but you CANNOT excuse bigotry with "well theyre an anti" or "they did it to me first".

Nobody chooses the horrible dysphoria that comes with being transid

the radqueer community is

such a unique place where

our blogs with like 10-500+

followers will get completely

nuked off the website for no

reason and instead of giving

up we just . . . come back

i have mutuals who have had

almost six rounds of blogs and

they still come back because

their identity DESERVES to be

seen and heard . i think that ' s

a beautiful and passionate thing .

so many people would have given

up by now but not this community .

im drunk af and i need more rq mutuals , reblog this if you're a radqueer who wants to make new mutuals and be more active in the community with new friiiiiends ok thxxx ....

for those who are trying to be an identity.

retryid𓈒⠀╱⠀retry-𓈒　

for those who are re-trying to be an identity, whatever that means to the user.

prumid𓈒⠀╱⠀prum-𓈒　

for those who identify as perma-, null-, and tris- for an identity (ex; a being who identifies as prumNPD would be permaNPD, nullNPD, and trisNPD)

offlid𓈒⠀╱⠀offl-𓈒　

for those who identify as a certain identity only offline. kind of like the opposite of cyberid i guess?

actid𓈒⠀╱⠀act-𓈒　

for those who identify as acting as a certain identity. (ex; a being who identifies as actWhite would see their white identity as an act)

chuid𓈒⠀╱⠀chu-𓈒　

for those who identify as a certain identity for attention.

kinkid𓈒⠀╱⠀kink-𓈒　

for those who identify with a certain label for kink reasons.