26 Black people were killed by cops last month. Say ALL of their names.
95 Black people have been killed by North American cops in the past six months. In other words, almost 16 Black lives are taken every single month. Over the span of Mayâs thirty-one days, an unarmed Black woman was murdered by Toronto cops and 25 Black people were murdered by U.S. cops. But when mass media only extends its scope to one of these injustices, dozens of families are made to feel as if their suffering isnât important enough.
While George Floydâs death at the hands of historically-racist Minneapolis police officers has captivated almost every news headline for the past two weeks, a number of the equivalently controversial police shootings which claimed Black lives that same month went under the radar. If we as a society do not put the same energy into every case, we will do a disservice to the many Black families whose pleas would not end up on the news without it. And, do we really want to be a part of a society that only seeks justice for those who make it to the big screen (and, thus, cannot be ignored)? If you donât, click here to find out more about each of the Black lives that were taken by cops across the continent last month.Â
Statistics show that African Americans are underrepresented as victims, receiving less than ten percent of media coverage offered to missing persons of other races. Prior to high-profile cases like that of Michael Brown and Trayvon Martin, hundreds of thousands of Black lives taken by police officers around the world went undocumented as often as they went unacknowledged. Even today, a vast majority of Black deaths do not receive any media coverage. To wake up everyday in a world where the seizure and onslaught of your people goes without acknowledgement or concern from the masses, is to wake up feeling like your life isnât important. This is the first installment to an ongoing series meant to remind Black people all over the world that they are important, that their lives matter, and that someone cares. Most of all, this series will serve as a reminder to never forget; because to forget where you come from, is to be blind to where you are going.
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A simple breakdown of what it means, and why we mean it.
jus¡ticeÂ
/ËjÉstÉs/
noun
1. just behavior or treatment.
a. the quality of being fair and reasonable.
b. the administration of the law or authority in maintaining this.
âThere really can be no peace without justice. There can be no justice without truth. And there can be no truth, unless someone rises up to tell you the truth.â
 - Louis Farrakhan
Black people around the world have had to beg for civility since the early 1500s; and, for the most part, our pleas go in vain. As our awareness increases and Black people take more action against the injustice that has consumed our realities, things only seem to get worse. In more ways than a few, todayâs America is grossly similar to the one leaders like Medgar Evers and Lamar Smith died trying to change. And that brings us to the point: one cannot expect peace in an environment where justice does not exist.
May 6, 2020: BLM protesters in Brunswick, Ga. peacefully protesting in response to Ahmaud Arberyâs murder. (Photo by Facing South, North Carolina)
Sit-ins. Marches. The Montgomery bus boycott. The BLM movement. Botham Jeanâs graceful family. From the early â50s to as recently as a few weeks ago, there are a number of examples that depict just how peaceful Black Americans have been in their fight for justice. The problem does not lie in the Black communityâs inability to remain peaceful. Rather, it lies within the fact that no act of kindness, no exhibition of forgiveness, and no representation of assimilation has proven enough to protect Black people from fear, guilt, or hatred. The Black community has already employed every gentle approach possible in its fight for civil rights⌠Nothing has worked.
So why are some of you so surprised now that (some) Black people are hanging up their Nice Guy hats?
Just behavior can only be the norm in an environment where justice is maintained. If the very people who are trained and paid to enforce such justice in this country arenât actually obligated to do so, then please spare Black people of your high expectations. The idea that Black people should display unwavering resilience in the face of those we have never received it from, is rooted in privilege. Period.
From Africa to America, docility and peaceful protesting have led to the onslaught of our leaders, the explosions of our cities and churches, and the slow-but-steady dilution of Black unity on both national and global scales. Nobody needs to tell Black Americans that they arenât accomplishing anything or working to disprove stereotypes by lashing out. At this point, Black people already know that even our best efforts have little to no results; our cries fall on deaf ears; and our deaths take place before desensitized and unbothered eyes. These are truths that we have no choice but to accept in todayâs society. These are painful truths that cut deep, and Black people are more than wounded; we are angry and overwhelmed and many of us feel helpless. In a country where our representation and our realities are controlled by external parties, Black people are made to feel powerless. And that is what this revolt is about.
Itâs about doing whatever we can, however we can, to feel like we are doing something to make a difference. Itâs about trying to take ownership of the power within us â the power that the entire world aims to squander. Itâs about trying to heal the wounds that have consumed our hearts and minds, as individuals and as a community. To the privileged, itâs unlawful and senseless. For many Black Americans, this is therapy.
Spoiler alert: When a population has endured more than four centuries of mental and physical abuse, the things its people may find therapeutic or necessary may not make sense to others. Violence in sought of justice might not seem necessary to people who donât have to fight for their rights. Shocker.
Stop telling Black people how to feel. Stop telling Black people how to respond to anti-Black crimes. Stop telling Black people how to handle Black culture. Stop telling Black people how to resolve exclusively Black issues, period. And, finally: donât expect peace from those to which you will not give it. (Or, at the very least, donât feign surprise when the Black community refuses to submit to your privilege-based hypocrisy.)
As of May 25th, 2020, Black people have run out of cheeks to turn. We are putting out feet on necks, and we will not let up until we ALL are able to breathe comfortably.
Itâs only March, and weâve already had to shake our heads at Snoop Dogg, Roddy Ricch, Tory Lanez, 50 Cent, and so many more Black âmenâ in the industry. But today, weâre talking about Da Baby.
Let me start off by saying that Da Baby is an undeniably crusty ass excuse of a man. The fact that he had to parade around in a diaper to get the attention he manages today, should say enough about how little character he has. Still, Da Baby rapped his big headed way into the hearts of thousands last year; so much so that his mostly-women fans paid no mind once heâd gotten comfortable enough to showcase his truly toxic nature. Before I could even decide whether the man was ugly or cute, I was hearing about Da Baby shooting people (which was fair, in this case), slapping and punching fans, and more.
Like many Black women whoâve been desensitized to overly aggressive men, I wasnât even bothered by this behavior at first. I found myself making excuses for Da Baby, or simply not saying anything when I couldnât defend his actions. I donât like people too close to me either, Iâd say whenever my mom would tell me about his latest violent act in awe. At one point, she forbade me from listening to his music altogether because he was so violent--- and I was like, youâre doing too much. See, Iâm the kind of âfanâ that doesnât care too much what artists do outside of their art. I generally donât care about who celebrities are as people or what they do in their lives, as long as it doesnât negatively impact whatever creativity they offer the world. So, I didnât care if Da Baby had a bad attitude or if he was a grown ass man fighting like a teenager or whatever else people were saying about him. All I cared about was whether the songs had some bop in âem, and if Stunna was getting a verse. But there comes a time when oneâs personal life starts to bleed into their artistry, and that time for Da Baby came this morning.
I donât tune into gossip pages, so I only heard about Da Babyâs newest travesty through my mother. She couldnât wait to show me the now-viral video of him that was posted on The Shade Room, showing the rapper straight up punching a woman at a concert. A little background: anyone with eyes can see that the shuffling of the eager crowd resulted in someone pushing said woman. The force of the push caused her to bump into Da Baby, making her already-raised cell phone brush against his face. Instead of just pushing the woman away or moving her hand out of the way like a normal person would, my mans proceeded to hit this woman like somebody off of the street. And this wasnât just any woman, yâall, or I probably wouldnât be writing this.
It was a Black woman.
And did I mention that he drew back and punched this woman with every bit of his strength?
Like⌠what?
Now, for many, this wasnât really a surprise. Da Baby literally goes around acting like a child and punching whomever he pleases, so whatâs the big deal? Ainât nobody surprised, and this is confirmed by the thousands of comments underneath the video, full of laughing emojis and jokes about how he âknocked her head all the way back.â It was this reaction, guys, that pissed me clean off. Not only is Da Baby far too comfortable disrespecting Black women (I mean, look at how he has his baby mama out hereâŚ), but he is normalizing this degrading behavior in front of thousands of young, impressionable Black men. Despite the fact that most of his comments on social media and support as a whole comes from Black women who find him attractive, Da Baby showed zero compassion or respect for Black women when he punched that woman like she had no air of femininity in her entire body. Had his victim been a racially ambiguous woman, Da Baby would already be cancelled. But because the video clearly showcases his victim as a Black woman, itâs just supposed to be funny. Everybodyâs just supposed to laugh and move on; weâre all expected to accept his pathetic Instagram apology and give him a clean slate. It is this obvious sense of entitlement that brings me to my point: Black women, take your damn money back.Â
Stop supporting âartistsâ who grow big-headed because of your support and your money, only to disrespect you in their songs and punch you in the face when you get too close to them. If Beyonce isnât out here punching fans who get too close to her, and Kanye Westâs bipolar disorder doesnât have him jaw-checking aggressive fans, then why the hell should Da Babyâs guitar-pick head ass get a pass?
The answer is, he shouldnât.Â
None of these embarrassing, self-hating ass Black men should. There should be no demand and no platform for artists like Future and Kodak Black who do nothing but pollute the industry with their ghetto ass, anti-Black women shenanigans. There should be no Black women dropping heart eyes in their comments, or adding their songs to their playlists, period. Because if it werenât for the Black womanâs undying support, none of these glorified losers would be where they are today; and that applies to Black men in every realm of entertainment.Â
So when Bop comes on in the club, try not to get lost in the beat. Try to remember how quick Da Baby was to punch a woman who looks like you, and who loved his music like you, and start booing. And the next time you wanna enjoy some Gin and Juice, remind yourself of how happy Snoop Dogg was to degrade two Black women for the whole world to see, simply because they were doing their jobs. I could go on and on with examples, but the message remains the same: stop supporting people who do not support or respect you. If you know your worth, then act like it, and stop praising men who use you and throw you to the wolves. And, if you donât want to, then thatâs on you. But please, donât come crying to the Black community to commit a mass cancellation the next time your favorite artist takes your money and slaps you in the face with it.Â