can we just like… treat everyone the same… unless they are terrible to you. that’s the exception. and they are not terrible to you just for being one thing. it’s if you call them out for doing something and they just say nothing about it. if they don’t say they can’t control it, or they don’t explain it in a way that makes sense, and makes it ok to do. that’s when you can treat them different. you can treat them different if they ask you to for a good reason, and if they are a close friend.




















