A.

awwee, if you think this ask is gonna make me "play around some more" with you? you're fucking delusional. maybe the reason i'm, in your words, "settling down" is because i found someone who actually cares about me as a human being and isn't just trying to use me for sexual validation — which i'm assuming is your intention with this ask.

There are human beings here. WE are human beings, not some emotionless Tumblr account. "Us" as in me and, mind you, MY girlfriend, but also like all the other people and couples that are in the same fucking stupid situation.

Just because we have NSFT accounts, it DOES. NOT. MEAN. WE. DO. NOT. HAVE. BOUNDARIES. While the person is in a relationship (acknowledged too, so it's even fucking worse) too?

Some of you still don't really understand the concept of CONSENT and it's fucking concerning.

I do not😰

I do miss when people respected relationships tho

to say that to someone who clearly has a girlfriend, as CLEARLY mentioned in her bio and all over her account, is inexcusable behaviour. by sending in such an ask, you're just disregarding not only our relationship, but the clear boundary that has been set as a result.

anon, i don't know if your tumblr is glitching out or if you have an eye problem, but it clearly says "DON'T flirt with me" right above the inbox button — which means that you knowingly ignored that message just to send in this bullshit. sure, you saying that you "miss sexting my girlfriend" might not be directly considered as flirting, but it sure as fuck is crossing a line.

luckily, you were smart enough to send that ask as an anon, because you must know better than to expose your account. now, idk what you were thinking when you sent that ask, but it sure as fuck wasn't anything remotely sensible considering you were most likely expecting a positive response. i'm not just pissed because i'm her girlfriend, i'm pissed because you crossed the boundary that she set AS A PERSON.

it is blatantly mentioned that she has a girlfriend and the fact that you ignored it shows your true character. you said that you miss sexting her, not that you miss her, which makes it clear that you only care about the sexual validation you got from her, not about her as a person, and that's dehumanising on another fucking level.

regardless of whatever past connection you had with her, it doesn't justify sending shit like that while knowing she's publicly in a relationship. there's a bunch of other people on this app, i'm sure at least one will be happy enough to deal with your lack of common fucking sense.