Sorry If I Seem Uninterested

While I’m currently traveling w my SP I wanted to get this written-

The mind’s tendency towards negativity can be harnessed to manifest!

I first began to consider this after seeing a Reddit post where a couple of people talked about how acknowledging a sort of begrudging “downside” of their manifestation.

In one post, someone who had been unsuccessful with job interviews told themselves “well, I might as well enjoy these last few free days since I’ll be employed soon”. In just three days, they got a job.

Someone else had been looking for an SP for a long time and decided to remind themselves instead to just enjoy being single since they’d be in a relationship soon. A week or so later they met someone and started dating!

This is a great approach especially when the mind feels like “negatives” are more “realistic” but it also involves letting go and gratitude which are profound manifestation tools!

How to use it:

Understand the yin and Yang of life- every upside has a downside too! Find the “downside” of your desired end- take for example Neville’s story about manifesting a boat out of Barbados when no spaces were available; in his visualization he included feeling happy to be on the boat but sad to leave his homeland behind.

If you want a successful thriving business, you may have to accept becoming more popular and busy. You may have less free time or more responsibilities once you are managing a six figure business. While you enjoy the success, you also might miss the ability to laze about and do nothing most of the time, not having to attend to business matters!

If you want to be married, think about how married life has some differences from single life- it’s perfectly normal to miss certain things about a previous state even while aiming for another. So you may tell yourself to enjoy single life since soon you will need to think a little more about how your decisions affect your SP, or deal with the natural challenges of living with someone, or managing conflict in a healthy way.

In this way the parts of your 3D reality that are different from your desired end are really things you can simply focus on enjoying since they won’t be like that soon- you know for a fact your desired end will manifest soon so take advantage of them now!

This is great as a reminder/affirmation technique and I hope it helps being hour manifestations forward!

- and it absolutely messes people up. I know it contributed to HUGE negative effects when I first started my process-

You do not need to work up *emotions* to ‘feel it real’. The feeling of wish fulfilled is NOT an emotion. When you externalize and act out, physically, based on a feeling, that is an emotion. But the ‘feeling of wish fulfilled’ is more of an assumption. It’s like when someone just knows something is going to happen, and after it does they say “I just had a feeling this was going to happen…” It wasn’t an emotion. It was a simple, persistent, internal knowing.

Neville himself said: “When I speak of feeling I do not mean an emotion, but acceptance of the fact that the  desire is fulfilled.”

While we can talk all day about shifting states and raising your vibration, it doesn’t mean you need to push yourself into intense or ecstatic states of joy in order to receive your desire, and in fact, in some cases, doing so or thinking you need to do so can actually delay or alter your manifestation.

This is the main reason why people get stuck on searching for better and better techniques to ‘inspire‘ intense emotion, or think they aren’t ‘doing it right’ bc they don’t feel those emotions.

Feeling is an AWARENESS. It is primary. Emotion comes secondary to it. Emotion is an act played out in the 3D.

And what do we know about the 3D? It doesn’t matter.

Hello everyone, I am back! Life has been chaotic but i’ve been working on a few juicy things to saturate the subconscious with if it helps! In this post I am bringing you my current personal tape for my relationship with my specific person. I decided to send it to one of my friends so I adapted the whole thing to be more universal, but you can definitely change pronouns and some content if you want. I hope you like it and it helps you as much as it does for me!

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(SP) is madly in love with me.He fell in love with me as soon as he first saw me, I am his dream girl. He’s completely magnetized and addicted to me. I am magnetic, irresistible and irreplaceable. And to him specially, I am unforgettable.He’s very in love and healthily obsessed with me, he has me on a pedestal and will gladly do anything for me. He knows I’m perfect for him. (SP) knows I’m the most beautiful girl in the world inside and out and that we are perfect for each other. He loves me for me, he fully loves my mind, body and soul. We are 100% compatible and he loves my intelligence, beauty, way of being and my sense of humor. He’s my number one fan and supporter always. I am his top priority.He quickly and surely asked me to be his girlfriend and wants to be with me forever and that’s exactly what happened.I am everything he’s always been looking for in a partner. He loves me and I am his long term girlfriend. We have a happy, blissful, healthy committed long-term relationship with each other. I am his favorite person and he loves talking to me and being with me everyday. He always wants to do that. He’s always in constant contact with me and he’s always blowing up my phone. He always texts me and calls me. He’s always with me, we love spending time together. He’s super clingy with me and super affectionate.Our bond and relationship is strong, stable and better everyday. It is indestructible.I am the only one (SP) loves, wants, is attracted to and connects with. I am the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up, and the last thing when he goes to sleep.I am the only one that wants and loves (SP) and he only wants and loves me.I am the only one he wants and loves and there is only one of me.(SP) is crazy about me.He is always faithful, loyal and devoted to me only. He always treats me with love and respect, like an absolute goddess. I’m the only girl he even follows on social media and he always compliments me and hypes me up. Even though he’s not much of a fan of social media at all.He is repulsed by anyone that isn’t me.He dreams lovingly of being with me every night.He’s always thinking of me, everything reminds him of me.We both know we are perfect for each other.I am sure (SP) is the right one for me and he is sure I am the right one for him.He is sure he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He’s 100% committed to me.Everything positively brings us closer together.(SP) is healthy, positive, balanced and safe at all times. He has amazing physical, mental and emotional health. He’s successful.We are always safe and our relationship is always safe.He always wants to be with me and around me because I am the only person that feels right for him to have a relationship with.His dick only gets hard for me, I’m the only one he wants to have sex with. I’m the only one he wants to romantically or sexually do anything at all with.(SP)’s romantic feelings and attraction for me are so strong that he cannot hide it.He always expresses his love, affection and desire for me in a consistent, healthy loving way.Me and (SP) are each other’s lovers, soulmates, best friends and life partners. I am his girlfriend, his soulmate, his wife. He is my boyfriend, my soulmate, my husband.We are happily blissfully together forever.The universe fully conspires in favor of our loving union at all times. Everything comes together constantly so we can have the best life and live out our dreams together.We are very in love with each other. He actually really loves me and does anything for me and our relationship.I am (SP)’s top priority. He always gives me tons of love and attention. He is always my ideal version of him. He’s everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner. I am always pleasantly surprised by him and he never lets me down. He’s fearless, brave and proactive and always ready to step up when needed, for us and for me.(SP) is fully conscious of being my soulmate. We love and accept each other fully and we get along perfectly. We are a perfect match. We are always feeling comfortable, confident, loving, loved, safe, secure, happy and whole within ourselves and within our relationship with each other. We fully trust each other and are able to be vulnerable. Our communication and support with each other is always perfect. We have the same values and he wants the same exact things with me that I do with him.(SP) always puts in effort to make our relationship work. He is very romantic towards me, always a gentleman. We are each other’s dream partners. We feel truly seen by each other.We have perfect chemistry with each other in all contexts. Our relationship is loving, fun, amazing and easy. We just get each other and mesh perfectly. I love everything about him and he loves everything about me.(SP) and I live together in a wonderful house here in (INSERT DESIRED LOCATION) and we both work here in jobs we love. We are very rich and we always have and make time for each other. He has a license and a nice car, and he loves to take me on dates and give me flowers. He’s always ready to protect and provide for me if needed, as he makes enough to comfortably support the both of us. We are living our dreams together and basking in the joy of our perfect love for each other. We are a team. He’s always by my side and I am on his.Our families and friends support our relationship and everyone gets along perfectly.(SP) is always loving and honest with me. He always does his best for me and our relationship. It is easy to maintain our relationship and we are always happy to be with each other, we are each other’s natural counterparts. He’s spiritually developed and loves to go on that journey with me. We are very intimate with each other. Our sex life with each other and our compability is amazing in all aspects. He’s always going to gladly be by my side no matter what, he loves me and he’s not going anywhere ever. What is mine cannot be taken away from me. I am thankful for our amazing, perfect, eternal and permanent union. We are love.

USE THIS WEBSITE TO CONVERT TO AUDIO; PICK US ENGLISH FEMALE VOICE LOL.

I was listening to the audiobook of Neville Goddard’s book, Feeling Is the Secret right AND-

He’s RIGHTTTT

Okay I KNEW he was right. But I feel like I didn’t recognize it as a fact in my bones ya know??

I was thinking a bit about the first time I manifested my SP. At school I’d see them around and ofc get all happy just to be able to see them. And when we began talking, I’d get all happy whenever I saw the notification. And when we weren’t talking, I’d STILL be all happy that they had texted me. WHICH led them to text me more.

I had the feeling of already having the interaction, and then would see it in my 3D.

I was happy more times than not. I was happy when I woke up in the morning, and when I went to bed at night. I was happy throughout the day while I said my affirmations. And look what had happened? I got with them! Because I felt happy. My subconscious took that in and brought me what I felt I already had.

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𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍?

Revision is a term we use when we’re rewriting or creating specific past events using manifestion. Revision isn’t only about changing people’s memories. It’s about ACTUALLY changing the past & how everyone views it.

Your past is formed by your assumptions about it. Revision is basically changing your assumptions about your past and hence overwriting it with your desired reality. It will then consequentially impact your future & change it.

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐈𝐒 𝐈𝐓 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐁𝐋𝐄?

When we speak about “past” or “future”, we are only talking about it in relation to the observer. In truth, nothing but the present actually exists as we are only experiencing consciousness for eternity. The past only exists in the form of assumptions in our memory. Whenever we think of the past, we become reaware of what happened and we strengthen our assumptions regarding it. We constantly relive it in our heads so much that we begin to feel it real. By doing this, we re-experience it in our consciousness.

As we know, persisting in any thought or assumption consistently makes it true. That’s why the 3D shows us ‘proof’ or ‘evidence’ of our past since we constantly re-experience it in our consciousness whenever we recall our past experiences. Therefore, if we chose to replace our negative assumptions about the past with those that will benefit us, the 3D will start reflecting the changed past as well.

If time isn’t real, so isn’t memory. Memory is simply imagination. So when we make assumptions off of our memories, we are making assumptions off of something that isn’t even real and can be changed extremely easily. It is important to understand that the past is as undetermined as our future. That’s why, it’s super helpful to always assume favourably for ourselves regardless of what happened and not spiral or lose faith when the 3D shows us the opposite of what we desire.

𝐖𝐇𝐀𝐓 𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐒𝐄?

You can revise any event that has happened in your life. There are absolutely no limitations or logical restrictions. You are the Operant Power. Hence, you’re the one who decides what is possible in your reality. Here are a few examples of what you can revise:

A failed exam or a bad grade.

A loved one’s death.

Your childhood/teenage years.

Your relationship with your entire family or revise that you’ve always had different parents with your desired looks, background, personality, characteristics etc.

Any traumatic event or experience.

Looking like your favourite celebrity.

Your birthday / zodiac sign, birthplace and name.

𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐓𝐎 𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐒𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑 𝐏𝐀𝐒𝐓?

Revision is simply a branch of manifestation. The way you revise an event is the same as what you do to manifest any of your desires.

The law of assumption in the simplest terms states that “your assumptions create your reality”. What you assume to be true is what forms your 3D reality. Now let’s look at the definition of an ‘assumption’: a thing that is accepted as true or as certain to happen, without proof. So how do you change an assumption? By simply accepting your desired reality as a fact regardless of what the 3D shows you. You assume that you already have what you desire and ignore everything that says otherwise. The instant you decide you want something, you have it. It’s undoubtedly yours.

𝐢. — You can start by rewriting the old story into a new, desired one. Let’s take an example:

Old story/assumption: “I failed my exams.”

New story/assumption: “I passed my exams with top grades.”

𝐢𝐢. — Henceforth, whenever you think of your situation, think of your past as if it happened in the way you desired. Disregard the old story and assume the new story is true. If a thought pops up that reminds you of the old story, dismiss it as false and reassure yourself that you already have what you desire. Using the same scenario mentioned above as an example, your new mindset should be something like this:

“Now, whenever I think of my exams, I know I’ve passed it with a perfect score. Despite what the external reality shows me and what people around me tell me, I live in my imagination and accept that fact that creation is finished. I am the version of myself who has always been the top student all my life.”

𝐢𝐢𝐢. — Persist in this new assumption & live in your imagination. Remember, you're not persisting to seek change in the 3D, you are persisting because change has already occurred (it is done) & you’re simply stepping into the mindset of the person who already has what you desire (what I am, I see).

Leave the 3D (your external physical, tangible reality) alone & accept your imagination (your assumptions) as your true reality. Don’t worry about the 3D conforming because it will. The 3D has no choice except to reflect your 4D (your inner imaginative reality). It has to because that’s the LAW and it can never fail. Keep thinking this way and your new assumption will surely harden into fact.

𝐀 𝐅𝐄𝐖 𝐖𝐀𝐘𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐂𝐀𝐍 𝐔𝐒𝐄 𝐑𝐄𝐕𝐈𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍:

You can use revision on the spot whenever the 3D shows you something unwanted. All you have to do is assume and affirm: “that didn't happen.” and persist in this assumption. You can also replay the scene in your head and replace it by visualising a more ideal one. Accept this new story as the truth and move on with your life.

If you spiralled during the day, just assume you didn't and affirm this: “I lived in my imagination the entire day and kept my thoughts in check perfectly.”

If you’re the type to look for evidence in the 3D, then revision can you directly change your physical reality as soon as you notice unpleasant circumstances.

♡︎ When i see something i don’t like i just repeat the new story in my head with confidence because i know it doesn’t mean shit.

♡︎ If i have the urge to check the 3D i stop myself and reassure myself it’s done with my affirmations. Because i do not need the 3D to validate me. It’s dead.

♡︎ If i feel very overwhelmed and i cannot think straight enough to focus on anything, i focus on one affirmation and loop it until i feel calm enough to carry on with my day. This is either ‘Everything in my life is perfect’ or ‘Only good things happen to me’

♡︎ As soon as i hear myself begin to waver, i cut myself off and use all my energy to remind myself i am that bitch that gets everything she wants so that nasty ass thought needs to shut up

♡︎ if I receive a half assed desire I do not just take it. I am god. I affirm with confidence until everyone knows I don’t just get what I want, I get exactly what I want

♡︎ If i catch myself doubting my power or not living in the end i dedicate that day to focusing on my self concept because bitch i’m worth more than what i desire.

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What to take from this:

- Remind yourself of the new story because that’s the only that matters

- Just focus on what you want because that’s exactly how you get what you want

- Why check the 3D when you already know you have it? Trust yourself, bab.

- Have a go to affirmation or visualisation to loop when things get too much

- We don’t have time to waver on the shit we don’t want

- Don’t you dare settle for less than your desires. You are god.

You asked and here it is! Revision is a topic that has been most requested recently, and lately, I have noticed how much my mentees in my dm's could really benefit from it!

I feel like revision is such a powerful tool when it comes to manifesting and it is so overlooked and underused, and it is one of the simplest and most enjoyable things to do!

WHAT IS REVISION?

To put it simply, revision is changing the past! Using revision includes going over an event, circumstance or occurrence in your life, and essentially changing/erasing it, REPLACING it with what you wish had happened instead!

HOW THE HECK IS IT POSSIBLE TO CHANGE THE PAST?

One of the biggest mistakes we make when manifesting is placing so much emphasis on the 3D and our past experiences, reliving them in our heads so much that we start to feel it real and continue to let ourselves believe that this really did happen.

The truth of the matter is that the past literally does not exist unless we let it continue to exist in our consciousness!

When we physically experience something, then obviously things feel much more real and it can easily get stuck in our heads that this thing happened. However, if we can somehow stop ourselves from going over these past events in our heads and reliving them, and instead replace these events with something much more beneficial to us, then these past events can very literally be as if they never happened (because they never did unless we reaffirm that they did), and in doing so, any impacts that this 'event' made will be undone!

WHEN SHOULD WE USE REVISION?

Revision is really helpful and powerful when you want to undo something that happened, or instantly change something that you didn't like. People use revision on the spot in situations where they are talking to someone and they hear something they don't like. They just go into their heads and affirm that the person said X instead, OR they imagine/hear the person saying X. In many many cases like this, revision can manifest in a matter of seconds, minutes or hours, and can show up as the person coming back and saying that they changed their mind or that there was a mistake.

You can use revision for things like breakups, getting fired, getting rejected from a job, for an application, for a house, or by an SP. Literally ANYTHING!

Something super powerful to use revision for is events that trigger our doubts towards our manifestations and impact our self concept. For example, if you are stuck in a cycle of rejection, then you can easily undo this and change it by going back to the source of these events. What is it that triggered you to believe that you were someone people could reject? Was it something your parents said to you? Was it an ex?

These events can, however, sometimes be quite traumatic and revisiting these events can be scary, to say the least. If this applies to you, then I highly suggest EFT TAPPING!

The article 'How To Use EFT Tapping To Manifest Your Dream Reality' (article linked below) states that 'Tapping is a combination of ancient Chinese acupressure and modern psychology. By tapping on certain meridian points on your face and body, it helps restore balance in the body, calms the nervous system, releases negative energy, and rewires your brain to respond differently to certain stimuli.'

If you haven't heard of EFT tapping, I will place a link below to explain what it is (scientifically), as well as a video by Sammy Ingram that explains how to use it for manifesting and revision - particularly with events that are hard for us to revisit. EFT tapping is essentially a scientifically proven method to 'tap in' your new beliefs and affirmations, whilst simultaneously physically reducing anxiety and adverse reactions and resistance to these affirmations.

1. 'How To Use EFT Tapping To Manifest Your Dream Reality' https://www.jessicaestrada.net/blog/eft-tapping-manifest-your-dream-reality

2. 'EFT Tapping'

https://www.healthline.com/health/eft-tapping

3. Sammy Ingram (2 videos)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COBbJTKTiO4&ab_channel=SammyIngramhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COBbJTKTiO4&ab_channel=SammyIngram

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHZhlGGudkU&ab_channel=SammyIngram

A VERY important time (and super beneficial habit to get into is) revising at the end of every day! We can do this right before bed by replaying the day in our minds, but adding things in (and changing whatever is necessary), so that the day happened exactly as it would have if you had your desire! This is super powerful in:

a) Getting you in the state of the wish fulfilled. Especially before sleeping, as this is when your subconscious will be wide open to accept these new thoughts and the revised version of the day.

b) Reducing resistance and focus on the 3D.

c) Assigning meanings and interpretations of the 3D that work for you!

HOW TO REVISE

A great way to revise is to:

1. Imagine your day in your head and add in what you wanted to happen in your imagination.

2. You can script it, or (my personal fave) write diary entries at the end of every day where you write down the key events that happened that day and imagine it as you write it down. Once you're done, read it over and over until you've imagined/pictured it enough times that you feel comfortable you have lived it enough in your imagination to stop.

3. Affirm that something else happened that day. (This can work well, but I personally prefer to imagine and script, as it places better focus on reliving the day, and feeling it real by immersing yourself in the imaginal act).

The biggest thing to take away from revision is that you are the one who gives power and life to memories, the past, and the repercussions of these events, and you can easily undo and change these things by replacing them with something more favourable to you and your ideal reality and self-concept.

Some of the mistakes people don't notice they are making when manifesting include:

1. Checking the 3D without realising. (The 3D doesn't matter at all, why are you checking?)

2. Acknowledging the time it has taken. (Time is just a circumstance and an illusion. Why are you worrying?)

3. Constantly asking different coaches and people why it's not here yet. (By asking this, you're just affirming you don't have it yet!)

4. Letting other people's success make you feel unsuccessful. (If you had your desire, you'd be happy for everyone else for getting theirs too, because you are ONE of the success stories as well.)

5. Constantly researching the law of assumption, overthinking, asking question after question, watching a bunch of videos, and reading everything you can ALL THE TIME! (Sis, you should be using your time actually APPLYING THE WORK and TESTING IT OUT!)

6. Giving external things power over you getting your manifestation. (Don't block yourself. Nothing will stop you or make it harder for you unless you decide it will.)

7. Looking for signs that it's coming. (The only sign that you need is YOU TELLING YOURSELF THAT IT IS HERE, NO MATTER WHAT YOU SEE!)

It's already done.

Simple.

You just have to think like you would if you already had your manifestation - consistently -and it will come.

If you are doing any of the above things, you need to know that I understand why you are doing it, and I get that you're losing patience and you want some reassurance that you are on the right track, BUT AGAIN, the only person who can tell you 100% that you are on the right track is YOU! Why? Because YOU are the God of your reality and what YOU believe is what is true, therefore, if YOU say it's working, then it IS. If you say it isn't here yet, then you're right, it isn't here yet. You don't need anything external from you to confirm that it is coming.

The above list is filled with habits that people get into without realising, and these things unfortunately can actually make your manifestation take LONGER to come. How? When you are 'doing everything right', (affirming/visualising & keeping a mental diet), but THEN you go and check the time and notice it's been X amount of days/weeks/months, or you go and complain to someone and desperately ask 'Why isn't it here yet? What am I doing wrong?' you are CONTRADICTING all the good work you have been doing, and you are essentially reaffirming that it isn't here yet, thus manifesting MORE of not having it yet and WAITING FOR IT TO COME!

You need to be completely living in your imagination! For real, you need to live in your dreamland in your head where you have your desire and perfect life. Do what you need to do in the 3D to get by and live your life, HOWEVER, don't give it ANY power. Your 3D is irrelevant when you are manifesting something new, because it is going to only reflect old thoughts and the old story until you have persisted enough that your old thoughts have run their course in your 3D and your new story completely shows up and manifests.

Additionally, yes, it is important to know what you're doing, and it can be encouraging and motivational to watch videos and read blogs about the law of assumption, HOWEVER, stop using ALL your time doing these things, when you could just use your time to actually DO THE WORK TO GET YOUR MANIFESTATION! Constantly learning about the law isn't going to manifest your desire, THINKING AS IF YOU HAVE YOUR DESIRE DOMINANTLY and VISUALISING and KEEPING A MENTAL DIET is what is going to get you your manifestation.

Once you know how the law works, that's all you need. You know what you need to know, so go DO it!

You don't need signs, you don't need anything in the 3D to show you your progress, you don't need to worry that some circumstance will slow you down or make it harder for you to get your desire, you don't need to worry about time, you don't need to compare yourself to anyone else, you don't need to ask a million coaches. If you are thinking as if and living in the end, and most importantly, PERSISTING, then you ARE doing it right and IT IS COMING, FOR SURE! But if you are constantly checking the 3D and breaking out of your mental diet to complain about the time and that it isn't here yet, you are keeping yourself stuck in 'waiting' for your manifestation and are only manifesting more of being in the state of 'waiting' for it.

Instead, just live in the state of HAVING it!

If you have something, you aren't going to sit around thinking 'why isn't it here yet?'

If you have plans with your friend and they are coming over, once they actually come over to your house and are sitting with you, are you going to think or ask 'why aren't they here yet?' No! Because they ARE already here!

Living in the end and thinking as if is literally just thinking what you would be thinking if the desire was already here! SIMPLE!

No more waiting, we ain't doing that anymore. We don't wait on this blog, we HAVE! We ARE! We ALREADY HAVE OUR SHIT! We are ALL ALREADY SUCCESS STORIES!

Once you decide that you want something, it's automatically yours, you just need to get it out of your head that there could be any possible circumstance that could stand in your way, because CIRCUMSTANCES DON'T MATTER. JUST STEP INTO YOUR POWER! STEP INTO THE VERSION OF YOURSELF WHO ALREADY HAS YOUR DESIRE, AND IT WILL BE YOURS IN THE 3D!

So, you've been doing everything right for the last few weeks, but you still haven't seen results. You're frustrated. You're getting doubtful. You're having some opposing thoughts.

I'm about to tell you why you haven't seen results yet, and no, it's not because you did it wrong.

First, remember that creation is finished and your desire is already done. It already exists. It has already been manifested. All you are doing is bringing it to light by stepping into the version of yourself who has your desire and dream life.

So, If you have been keeping your mental diet, changing your self-concept, and affirming consistently - persisting no matter what, but it's been a few weeks and your desire hasn't conformed yet, there is a very simple reason.

The reason is that, for desires that you have had lots of doubts about in the past, resistance to, focus on, and emotional attachment to, there will likely be a time lag between when you start affirming and persisting, and when it actually comes to fruition in the 3D.

(Now, I don't want to put limiting beliefs on anyone here, because whilst time lags exist, the rate at which your desire manifests ALWAYS ONLY DEPENDS ON YOU! You may be able to very easily let go of resistance and the old story and get your desire overnight. It is definitely possible, and it can definitely happen, so don't be discouraged by this. BUT just keep in mind that time lags are something that do commonly happen when manifesting a seemingly 'big' desire, and I am just explaining it so people don't get discouraged, and start to mentally react and check the 3D.)

Back to the time lag explanation. Why does this happen?

The reason for time lags are that your 3D is a DELAYED REFLECTION of your focuses, dominant thoughts, beliefs, state, etc. The 3D is a reflection of your previous thoughts and beliefs, not your thoughts and beliefs right at this second as you have changed them.

Think about it like this. (Long analogy coming through, but I promise it is worth it!)

You are running a race with your friend. You get a head start and start running, and your friend for some reason starts a few moments later and is running a bit behind you, close, but not caught up with you just yet.

Your aim in this race is to get from point A to point B - the starting line to the finish line. Your friend's aim is to get there too, following you. We all know that in a race, the way to get to the finish line is to push, persist, and keep going, no matter where you are in the race, until you reach the end. You know that in a race, no matter where you currently are, if you keep going, you WILL get to the finish line.

You may start to get tired and face some resistance while you are running and persisting, because you are doing a good job and yes, it can be discouraging to start getting tired, look up and see the finish line, and notice that you are not there yet. BUT, you know that if you keep going, you will get there, even though it 'appears' to be far away right now.

Meanwhile, remember, your friend is still there, following you exactly, but just a bit behind you. If your friend is following your exact direction, then they WILL reach every single point that you have passed, but the only difference is that they will get there a few moments later because they are behind you and just need a few extra moments to catch up to where you once were.

Now, you have endured some resistance and you've gotten tired, but do you give up? No. You keep going, no matter what, and then you finally see that the finish line is only one step away! You're happy and you're feeling good because you have done it! BUT THEN, you look around and you notice that you are the only one there and your friend hasn't made it yet. You turn around and you see that your friend is still running. They are now where you just were a few seconds ago.

Now, this is a race, and you have already made it to the end, you just need to take that final step OVER the finish line to be declared the winner. Your friend is still running to catch up to you and get to the same finish line that you are about to pass. All you have to do is get to the finish line and stay there.

You know that your friend will catch up and get there. The race cannot finish until they get there too, and they will.

But, if you notice they are not there and you decide to stop just before the finish line to wait for your friend to catch up to you, you're friend is going to see you waiting and they too will stop in their tracks. They will be like 'wtf? Why did you stop for me? Don't you have faith that I'll get there too? Go finish the race'. You'll distract your friend, and they will stop their movement too. You will both be stuck in this one spot where neither of you has won the race yet, waiting for the other to keep going, but you are so close.

You realise that stopping and waiting for your friend is just slowing you both down and distracting you both, so you realise that you need to just focus on yourself and where you want to go, pick yourself up, and take those final steps over the finish line in order to get that movement back, and stop distracting your friend from also getting there.

This is the only way you will get there, and you can make all the excuses you want about being distracted by your friend not being there with you yet, but complaining about it is not going to do anything to fix it. You just need to get there yourself and know that they will get there too, it may just be a few seconds later.

You snap out of it and you keep going and you finally take that final step OVER the finish line. You have won the race! You are a sure thing now! However, behind you, the race is still going, because your friend is a bit behind you and are only now taking their final steps. You cannot go back and get them, you have to STAY THERE AT THE FINISH LINE AND KNOW THAT THEY ARE CATCHING UP.

STAY THERE, KNOWING YOU ARE THE WINNER, AND YOUR FRIEND WILL GET THERE TOO!

A few moments later, your friend finally also takes that step over the finish line, and you have both made it. The race is over, you both got from point A to point B. Your friend caught up to you and also got to point B, you just beat them to it and waited for them to catch up by STAYING there at the finish line, not wavering, and knowing they'd get there too.

This is the exact same way your manifestations work.

In this analogy, with every step, YOU are stepping into your new self-concept, new thoughts, and new story, with your desire in mind as the end goal - and your friend who is behind you is the 3D. The starting line is where you used to be, the finish line is where you want to be - where your desire is.

You need to just keep going, focusing on yourself and persisting in the new story and new version of yourself (with your desire also in mind), not letting yourself look around and be phased by where your friend, the 3D, is, because you know that your friend is also running this race just behind you and that they will catch up with every step you take, only a bit delayed, but they will catch up regardless.

You can't stop and wait. You can't stop and look back and complain that they haven't made it yet. You don't need to focus on where THEY are, because you know that if you do, you will just slow yourself down, but if you just keep going and get to the finish line, you know that your friend will catch up to you and get there too.

You need to get to your desired state and thoughts, stay in them no matter what you see and no matter how 'far behind' the 3D seems to be, because your 3D will catch up. It HAS to.

What you need to realise is that, this may seem like a race to you, but the 3D is not your opponent. The 3D has no control over YOU. The 3D is actually just following YOU! The only thing that can stop you is YOURSELF. If you let yourself stop and doubt and wait and worry, you are letting yourself become your own opponent, but if you persist no matter what, you will have no opponent. You need to just persist and get there, and know that your 3D will catch up, because it is not working against you, it is working THROUGH you! The 3D is always going to have no choice but to reflect you with a bit of a delay/time lag.

This is why the 3D doesn't matter and you do not need to worry about it. This is why you should not concern yourself with CHECKING it. If you allow yourself to slip up and check with the 3D's progress, you will just slow yourself down and potentially make yourself doubt where you are going. So, no matter where the 3D is, you need to just acknowledge that it is coming and catching up somehow, and this will only happen if YOU keep going and get to the finish line and STAY THERE!

This is how the time lag works. The 3D is a delayed reflection of you, and if you keep going and reach your desired state, and STAY there, your 3D will catch up and get there too. But, if you do NOT stay there, the 3D will follow you and go back and forth along with you, creating hot and cold results.