painting a gay bar as a safe place for straight girls avoiding straight men is wild to me bc ideally it would be a safe place from the straights for gay ppl but we canβt have anything can we
i think people here are misunderstanding what im trying to say. this isnβt a fuck you to every straight girl whoβs been to a gay bar. i myself wouldnβt blink at the idea of bringing some of my straight friends to a gay bar for a fun night out. what im criticizing is this new wave of articles and think pieces urging straight women to take refuge in places that are ultimately meant to be safe places for gay people from straight people themselves. if you want to write about a need for more womenβs spaces and womenβs bars where women can feel safer, im all for it. but donβt try to rewrite or infringe on what a lgbt space is meant for - a space for lgbt people themselves
