This post isn't about envy. And actually, after I think about it, it really is... The envy some women desire to CREATE in other women; because your hair looks like this. Or your clothes came from this or that place... Your shoes or bag are of this designer. It's said all the time that as women, everything we do to get "people" to look at us is actually for other women. I practice making that desire for envy, a desire for aspiration & inspiration. That's why I'm nice to people, even when their not nice to me. I give of my possessions because I have way more than I could ever need. I pride myself at always being in a state of actively making an effort at being a better person, Realtor, friend, and significant other because I want someone to look at the things I've selflessly done for someone else and say "Wow... I want to be in the position to do the same." What's more, is at the same time I'm looking for myself to be all these things I'm looking at other women to be the same. I'm looking for who I should be looking at and the qualities within them to better myself. It's all about growth. And you don't get that way always being who you've always ever been... #yakitaughtyou #teachme #whenigrowup