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I think one of my kinks is obsession and possessiveness. I tend to overthink things. It calms me down to see that someone wants to absorb me, that they control me, but not because of insecurity, but because every time I give them something they want more and more of me

men love to be of use. they love to be trained, they love punishments and rewards, it’s how their brains work, it’s in their blood. it’s what they’re here for. they’re trainable dogs ready to serve us women.

soft launching my praise kink by asking "did I do well ?"

Please, keep looking. Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself. Keep looking. Explore yourself before you explore another. Know your worth, know yourself. Only then will you know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own.