いかり-くん

girl, it was barely 3 months, calm down. it’s not like you got dumped after 3 years.

girl, time and place.

it’s getting so exhausting. all this swiping and swiping and swiping with nothing coming from it.

and i need to get out of here if i have any hope of meeting somebody the old-fashioned way.

no, those two jock-y guys aren’t gay just because they’re walking close together. people walk close to their group so they don’t get separated. or, for all you know, they could be brothers.

no, that short guy dressed a certain way isn’t trans just because he dresses that way and is short. some cis guys are just short and also like to put effort into their appearance.

no, that tall woman with a flatter chest isn’t trans just because she’s tall and has a flatter chest. there are plenty of cis women who are tall and flat chested.

these people very well could be what you assume them to be, but making those assumptions based on stereotypes makes you no better than those people who think lady gaga has a penis or who think matt damon and ben affleck are secretly in a gay relationship. and that’s not undone by the fact that you’re queer too.

not to mention, pointing out someone you think looks visibly queer in the area we live in could put them in danger if the wrong person hears you. or you could really piss the wrong person off if they hear you call them queer and they’re actually not.

i understand the want for solidarity, but if these people aren’t advertising their sexual or gender identities through whatever means, just mind your own business. it doesn’t help the movement to point these people out, whether they’re actually queer or not.

i’m tired of being the odd one out when everyone is with their partners at the gathering.

i do what i’m supposed to. i put myself out there but nothing substantial has come from it.