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it’s a sensitive topic for me too i’m sorry 🙁 i agree with u on everything really i just wanted to give him a little grace. but me giving him that doesn’t mean i disagree. he does need to stop sharing what he is online and to get help so that he doesn’t make it everyone’s problem. thank u for being kind in ur responses ><
also just remembered ur keeho fic wicked games n need to reread it rn 🐰
LMAO yes that is a good ending to this night have a good read <3
ur right im sorry i wasn’t trying to explain how they work, more so what i think could be happening. i agree that he shouldn’t share it online and that his ed is hypothetical. i really don’t want what i said to be an excuse, just my observation. regardless i would think that if he does have one, assuming for years especially his formative ones, that his distortion would be hard to separate from reality. obviously there’s lots of eating disorders so there’s just a lot of psychology and science i had been learning. i’m not aware of the fatphobic comments he’s made so I’m sorry i passed over that part, he really needs to stop that. i wish u all the best too and seriously do apologize for not explaining myself better 🐰
it's okay you're allowed to have your opinion on this, but it's a rather sensitive topic that i will always stand my ground on
i dont have anyone to tell this to😭 just saw a family having a picnic and they were using the nct lightstick as table lamp😭😭😭 i only looked because i saw the neo green from afar and its a real shock because lightsticks are genuinely so expensive in my country. if that isnt the most nctzen behaviour ever😭
LMAO this is so funny if i had a lightstick i would do that too trust 😭 and the neo bong is the perfect shape for it
i understand, i don’t have fromm or twitter (lmfao) so i haven’t seen anything but him saying those things is upsetting. i think what’s important to remember like someone else said is that he is young and has been working since childhood so his perception of those things on HIMSELF is probably very skewed. i doubt that he would ever say that about someone else or try to encourage that on anyone, but when it involves urself, u honestly don’t see how it would affect others. this is no excuse, it’s just what i’ve been learning since i was just in a program for eating disorders to recover from my own. i am not saying u don’t know any of this at all, what i’m saying is that i’d wish people wouldn’t assume that the other person knows that what they’re doing is wrong or that it’s some sort of moral failure of theirs, it’s just a disorder and he clearly has distorted thoughts especially if people are always complimenting his tiny waist/being thin. yes he is a grown adult and “should” know better considering their audience is young girls/women but i’d probably just ask to give him grace that he might truly not understand why it would be unhelpful to share that because to him, he might be thinking “this has nothing to do with anyone else, just me and i don’t think there’s anything wrong with what i think about myself” i hope this makes sense! i’m just sharing my experience and what i’ve been learning and trying to understand that the thoughts we have are distorted and not as easy to label as wrong when u have lived with it for so long. i hope someone tells him he shouldn’t share it online and that if he does, he should really preface that he is getting help for it and others should too. 🐰
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i'm truly sorry you've been going through this as well and i wish you all the best from the bottom of my heart, but with all respect to your opinion and experience i don't need an explanation on how eds work, as i said in one of the previous asks i've been there and never during those years have i had a single thought to share my weight or meal plan online in the way that he does and i think it is wrong at its core
+ we still need to remember that his 'ed' is hypothetical so assuming he has a distorted view on himself/whatever food related and using it as an excuse might be a stretch
my point is that the moment he goes somewhere to talk about it it stops being his problem and starts being everyone else's, and i'm sure being an idol he's aware that what he posts isn't just going into the void and doesn't concern anyone else, and together with his lowkey fatphobic comments he sprinkles here and there i just really don't think it's okay no matter what and he should know better
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omg thank you for talking about the whole jongseob thing, i made a post here actually trying to spread awareness to p1ece to stop talking about his body but literally took it down. 😭 i still have another one in my drafts too talking about it.
its very concerning and as someone who is trying to recover, very very triggering.
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well i didn't really mean to i just wanted to joke about jongseob being on timeout but ig the cat is out of the bag
i think first and foremost it's important we don't assume anything, i do believe he should be educated not to talk about delicate stuff in this manner, but if he actually has a problem then spreading rumors might only encourage him + i'm sure if that's the situation the members already know about it and are doing their best to help him
but i agree with u that maybe talking about his "little waist" or whatever might not be appropriate when he's showing clear signs that he's hyperfocusing on his weight to some degree
i'm sorry you're going through this, believe me i've been there too and i wouldn't wish that upon anyone </3 pls lmk if i can help in any way or if you want to talk
a lot of p1eces have been saying he has an undercover eating disorder and i lowkey see it ☹️ i don’t think he’s purposely trying to stay rude things cause when someone is struggling, they tend to be brainwashed in a way cause they don’t actually see how bad it is yk? i can’t explain it right but the kpop industry has always been big on weight loss and dieting so it’s no wonder as to why he’s behaving like this, he’s also been in the industry since he was a child which makes this even sadder
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yes i understand what you're saying and if he's actually struggling with an ed i feel extremely sorry for him, but the industry or the korean culture is no excuse to be saying shit like that as a person with a platform of thousands of people (in majority young women mind you) that look up to him in one way or another
like yes idols talk about weight and dieting a lot but he's saying those things mostly unprovoked and with detail that he has no reason to share and it's giving thinspo to me
what is jongseob sending on fromm??? im so behind on news please enlighten usss😭😭😭
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idk if it's news and but he's been talking a whole lot about his weight and calories and skipping meals in a way that really looks like promoting disordered eating + some lowkey fatphobic comments here and there
i don't want to spread rumors or call him names but it's just really not sitting right with me yk
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PART 3 YESSSSS pls. u should go watch the horror haven tiktoks and the making film on youtube and i bet the fan meeting’s content will make us crazyy i’m so excited to see everything
I WILL i promise i'm just still getting used to normal life again after being out of town for so long + jongseob's on a bit of a timeout for me rn BUT I WILL
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