WritingwithLight

I…see no reason to agree with the worldly romantic notion that every person has just one "soul mate" out there waiting for him or her. In fact…the idea [is] anticovenantal, contrary to grace. It forces prospective spouses into a routine of measuring up, of being investigated or even interrogated rather than considered. It turns the search for a godly spouse into an audition to be the one who "completes" you. No spouse can complete you. Don't look for a spouse to do what only Jesus can. Even if it were true that there is one person out there for you, isn't it possible that someone messed up the whole relationship order, like, fifty years ago? …If just one person married the wrong spouse back in the day, do the math--the whole system's broken like a domino effect of incompleteness. So quit look for "the one." You have a better chance of finding an Oompa Loompa riding a unicorn, fighting Bigfoot.