UGH THIS WAS MY LIFE

Don’t ever be in a relationship with someone who is perfectly fine with going hours/days without talking to you.

what? hours? what does this post mean? i think it’s healthy to have time apart and still be able to love each other without constantly having to talk or see eachother. you shouldn’t be that dependent on someone or rely on them to give you a sense of security and comfort whenever you need it because that’s not realistic

Says someone who is probably neurotypical and doesn’t have dependency issues lmao

“Dependency issues” isn’t an excuse to expect someone to talk to you 24/7 100% of the time. You can’t make your mental illnesses someone else’s cage. People need time and distance sometimes. Just cause you’re depressed or have anxiety or any other kind of mental illness that makes you codependent doesn’t mean that your partner has to sacrifice their own happiness and sanity for you. Codependency is toxic. Not being able to let your partner breathe is toxic. Being upset because your boyfriend didn’t reply to you for two hours is not okay. You can’t use your illnesses against other people, it isn’t fair.

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At Epik High’s concert, a fan shouted “iKON! Let’s debut” and Hanbin was a little surprised. His pupils got bigger and he said “Oh!! Thank you!” and bowed. (x)(x)

tao: *knocks door* i came here to say im sorry kris: wait a sec *plays apologize by one republic ft timbaland* tao: ……. :( kris: BITCH U THOUGHT LMAO im kidding bro gotta call luhan we need to catch up