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But what if I wrote about every wretched thing I've experienced? What if I wrote about everything that makes my heart race and my head dizzy? To do that, I'd have to revisit those memories—to choose the right words to encapsulate the torture I've gone through just to get through.

And in doing so, would that still count as healing—if writing about it meant reopening those wounds, poking my finger deep inside, and wiggling it around until blood oozes out?

Writing is good for your mental health. Unfortunately, my hands seem to know nothing of others, only how to write of their own torture. It ain't mine if it doesn't talk about being dragged through hellish circumstances, then smiling and calling it growth.

Why? Why did I come to this point—where I can only produce art through bleeding fingers and thoroughly slit arms?

i don’t come with warnings because i am one.

and by the time you realize that,

you’ve already handed me the matches

and pointed to everything you swore was sacred.

i don’t break things with noise.

i break them with quiet neglect,

with almosts, with “i forgot,”

with a smile that says i know what you need—

and i won’t give it.

i don’t rage.

i rot.

i infect the good parts slowly,

until you forget what soft ever looked like.

you’ll start explaining me to your friends,

defending absences i never apologized for.

you’ll call it patience.

i’ll call it convenience.

i don’t ask you to stay.

i just make it hard to leave.

i will memorize your weak spots

and kiss them like i earned them.

then press down,

just to see if you flinch.

you’ll think love is supposed to hurt a little.

i’ll make sure it does.

because here’s the truth:

i don’t love cleanly.

i love like rust—

quiet, persistent, irreversible.

and even when you finally go,

you’ll find me in the things you can’t enjoy anymore.

songs, shirts, phrases—

i ruin small things on purpose.

that’s how i stay.

not through presence,

They don’t tell you that wisdom has weight.

Not the kind that lifts you into light,

but the kind that settles in your chest

like wet laundry you forgot to hang—

damp, clinging, impossible to shake off.

You learn the signs.

You memorize the exits,

watch for the shift in tone,

the glance that lingers too long,

the silence that says more than words ever could.

You can name every trap by heart.

You saw it coming.

Still, you went in.

Not because you didn’t know better—

but because knowing didn’t make leaving easier.

Because sometimes the mind screams while the hands stay still.

Because sometimes we choose the wound we recognize

over the healing that feels foreign.

And that’s the part that haunts you.

Not the fall itself,

but how quiet it was—

how you stood at the edge for days,

weeks,

maybe longer,

and stepped off anyway,

like it was the most natural thing in the world.

The shame doesn’t shout.

It hums beneath your good intentions.

It lingers in the mirror,

in the face you still have to wash every morning.

“You knew better.”

That’s all it says.

Not cruelly. Not loudly. Just enough.

So you carry it.

Like a coffee cup you never put down,

hands burning but you keep sipping—

out of habit, out of pride, out of fear

that setting it down would mean admitting it hurt.

You keep showing up.

You keep saying the right things.

You laugh on cue,

teach the lesson,

quote the wisdom you couldn’t use for yourself.

And when the lights go out,

and it’s just you,

you feel it—

the slow leak behind your ribs,

the ache that no one checks on

because you wear your competence too well.

And maybe that’s the worst part.

Not that you fell—

but that you knew,

and it didn’t save you.

And now every step forward

feels like walking on legs that remember

what it felt like to fall

Rebecca is not the true villain of the story—Maxim is. He allowed his new wife to crumble under the weight of insecurities, to live in the shadow of a woman he claimed to despise, and yet he never once corrected the myth that surrounded Rebecca. He let the image of her haunt Manderley and its inhabitants, not because he couldn’t stop it, but because it served him. Maxim never truly wanted a wife; he wanted someone pliable—someone who could be molded into whatever best served his ego. That desire for control, cloaked in grief and regret, is far more disturbing than anything Rebecca ever did.

Rebecca, for her part, was not innocent—she was cunning, bold, and unafraid to manipulate. But unlike Maxim, she was transparent in her intentions. She saw his weakness and used it, yes, but there was no coercion, no threats, and no deception beyond what both of them understood. Their marriage was an agreement: he wanted a beautiful, capable wife who could host, charm, and run Manderley with precision, and she did exactly that. Rebecca played the role she was given—and played it so well that it began to threaten Maxim’s sense of importance. When the estate thrived under her name, when guests praised her elegance and influence, Maxim didn’t feel loved; he felt overshadowed. And rather than confront the insecurity within himself, he turned on her.

This dynamic reveals something deeply resonant in our current society. There are men who claim to want a strong, capable partner, yet recoil when that strength eclipses their own. They desire a submissive figure to display, while also expecting her to manage every aspect of their shared life—but then demand the credit for what she has done. That is Maxim de Winter. Rebecca didn’t dismantle his life—she built it up and made it shine. It was only when that shine reflected her more than him that he wanted her gone.