:)former nsft acc

me looking at my own soft and pudgy body:

You might be wondering what I’m insinuating, it’s simple. It’s okay to have a night where you and your couple just strictly do/talk about things to figure out what you don’t and don’t like, or prefer/Dontprefer

You and your partner haven’t done anything In a while, and you feel a little uneasy about diving straight back in? It’s okay to ask them for a night where you can figure things out once the moment comes along. You deserve to feel comfortable, and if that Includes taking a night to reintroduce you into something you haven’t done in a while, that is okay!

Just simply want a night where you could try new things because it’s just been on your mind? Completely valid, ask them! I’m 100% sure anyone who’s truly concerned with how you feel during intimacy will not care to take a night to take things slow, or to figure some things out.

For some people (including me) sex is really nerve wracking, even if you’ve been with someone for a long time, even if it’s with the love of your life. We all have insecurities about how we look, what we’re doing to our partner, if they’re enjoying it etc. and a lot of these thoughts can be eliminated through talking to your partner.

You tend to like things rougher? It’s normal to let your partner know that, if you’re enjoying it more, they definitely will be.

Don’t like people touching up/licking/ anything to your boobies? Understandable (believe me I get it)

Changed your mind about certain boundaries? Where/when you’re comfortable having sex, different positions- where they can touch, tell them, im sure they’ll be open for a discussion!

Want to introduce new things? (We know what these are) you never know if your partner is thinking the same thing, Almost 100% sure they won’t have a problem trying it

I cannot stress this enough, communication in the bed room.

This may be hard for some of you guys who possibly are living at home during college, some of y’all who have room mates, but if you can, do it! Ask them/tellthem

- hey, do you like this?

- do you like it like ____ or _____

- are you okay with this?

Praise them! If you like something they’re doing, a simple few words could make the other person feel a lot more secure, I know that some of you guys are not very vocal, but believe me does it make the other person feel better and like they’re doing something right.

If you like doing something to them, how they look, what they’re doing, how they’re doing it, TELL THEM!! This is a really really good communication and in the end it’ll make your partner feel comfortable.

You might be wondering what I’m insinuating, it’s simple. It’s okay to have a night where you and your couple just strictly do/talk about things to figure out what you don’t and don’t like, or prefer/Dontprefer

You and your partner haven’t done anything In a while, and you feel a little uneasy about diving straight back in? It’s okay to ask them for a night where you can figure things out once the moment comes along. You deserve to feel comfortable, and if that Includes taking a night to reintroduce you into something you haven’t done in a while, that is okay!

Just simply want a night where you could try new things because it’s just been on your mind? Completely valid, ask them! I’m 100% sure anyone who’s truly concerned with how you feel during intimacy will not care to take a night to take things slow, or to figure some things out.

For some people (including me) sex is really nerve wracking, even if you’ve been with someone for a long time, even if it’s with the love of your life. We all have insecurities about how we look, what we’re doing to our partner, if they’re enjoying it etc. and a lot of these thoughts can be eliminated through talking to your partner.

You tend to like things rougher? It’s normal to let your partner know that, if you’re enjoying it more, they definitely will be.

Don’t like people touching up/licking/ anything to your boobies? Understandable (believe me I get it)

Changed your mind about certain boundaries? Where/when you’re comfortable having sex, different positions- where they can touch, tell them, im sure they’ll be open for a discussion!

Want to introduce new things? (We know what these are) you never know if your partner is thinking the same thing, Almost 100% sure they won’t have a problem trying it

I cannot stress this enough, communication in the bed room.

This may be hard for some of you guys who possibly are living at home during college, some of y’all who have room mates, but if you can, do it! Ask them/tellthem

- hey, do you like this?

- do you like it like ____ or _____

- are you okay with this?

Praise them! If you like something they’re doing, a simple few words could make the other person feel a lot more secure, I know that some of you guys are not very vocal, but believe me does it make the other person feel better and like they’re doing something right.

If you like doing something to them, how they look, what they’re doing, how they’re doing it, TELL THEM!! This is a really really good communication and in the end it’ll make your partner feel comfortable.

Look, I know a good number of you are from the US and things aren't amazing there either, but my country is literally on the brink of collapse. So I'd love it if we could talk about that for a minute.

If you can't do anything else, please just read and reblog.

1 USD = 75.22 Indian rupees

1 euro = 90.99 Indian rupees

1 pound = 104.40 Indian rupees

Even a small amount of 5 or 7 or 10 of foreign currency will help a lot. Our government has essentially abandoned us. People have turned to social media for help. WhatsApp groups and DMs on twitter/insta is where we find help. Our helpline is a Google doc. Situation is so dire that hospitals are discharging patients due to lack of oxygen. Every night the same story, oxygen running out in hospitals, citizens running around to somehow arrange for oxygen with minutes to spare. Last night, we had manged to get oxygen to a hospital with 14min to spare.

Some of you in the US have asked what else you can do. I'm not the best person to answer this since I'm not from there, but I do know that Biden is being urged to ship supplies to India. Maybe a more informed person can chime in with how best you can help but calling your representative and registering your concern sounds like a good starting point.

EDIT: Reblogging with some more donation links from @spacegirlstuff Here and Here

Y'all, this is a good time to mention that I am not affiliated with any charity or donation centre, and am not receiving donations on behalf of anyone. This is a list of resources compiled by me and more importantly, other people who have a better grasp on the situation than myself. They are to the best of our knowledge great resources but I still encourage you to do your research and put your money where you believe it will be used best. If you find more ways to help or donate, add them in a reblog - let's get as much information out there as possible. Much love and please stay safe