🤍REPEAT AFTER ME: AFTERCARE IS FOR EVERYONE🤍
Aftercare is for everyone. Legit I’ve seen WAY too many ppl on here neglect the importance of aftercare.
💖There’s a line between abuse and bdsm. This is apart of that fucking line.💖
Making sure everyone’s needs are met and they feel appreciated and special (instead of used and abused), this is apart of human decency, whether it’s a one night stand or a fling or an 8 yr relationship or marriage.
you want someone to trust you enough to submit to you? you want someone to be vulnerable and open with you? Then you need to understand aftercare is important for subs AND doms.
It ensures the emotional, physical, and psychological well-being of all parties involved. What constitutes aftercare might look different for everyone, and everyone’s needs are different. Some dom’s might need to discuss the scene right away, some subs might prefer cuddling or watching a movie, some couples might need water before they say or do anything hahaha. But at the end of the day, THEY ALL DO SOMETHING to make sure one another feels safe and cared for.
There are literally scientific studies down (look at Forbes) that show aftercare improves overall satisfaction, emotional security, and wellbeing.
Assess what you need from your partner, and communicate those needs to one another.
If you need ideas for aftercare:
- what you liked/disliked abt the scene
- go over any questions or concerns
-physical touch, hold hands, lay on top of each other, hug, kiss
-massage/massage oils/special bruising creams/lotions
-“it was so hot when…” “you did so good.”
-do you need some alone time to process??
I don’t care who you are. What you identify as. What you look like. Everyone deserves aftercare. A bratty sub, an obedient sub, a happy sub, a crying sub, a sadistic dom, a soft dom, an angry dom, a happy dom.
Love you all. Just thought I had to share. XOXO💋
(Psa… to the littles, please watch out for ppl who think they own you off the bat, please don’t think you owe someone you just met early, please watch out for the ppl who don’t respect your boundaries, please do not do anything you don’t want to do😘😘)
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