I haven’t been on tumblr in a really long time, and I’m coming back right now because of all of the stuff that’s being put on the ventblog about me at this point in time. I have not been purposely trying to upset or make anyone uncomfortable, and if that’s what I’ve been doing by being me, then I guess I apologize. But there are a couple of things that I want to get straight, and I’ll place them under a read more so this doesn’t clog up your dashboard.
First of all, I would never make anyone cheat. There have been instances where, without knowing that the other party is in a relationship, I have flirted with them. Yes, that is my own fault. But I can guarantee you that as soon as I discover anyone is in a relationship I apologize and back off. I also flirt without meaning any harm; I’m a flirty person. This does not mean that I am out to fuck everyone, nor does it mean that I want to fuck everyone. Flirting is fun and easy to do. I do it without thinking. If anyone is uncomfortable with it, they are free to tell me so and I will stop to the best of my ability.
Second, I do not butt into anyone’s personal life. I do ask people if they’re okay when I notice that they’re sad and upset ooc, yes. I let people know ooc that they are always welcome to come to me if they need to vent or need help, yes. I will never ask questions unless they’re wanted, and if someone doesn’t want to answer any questions that I may have, they are not inclined or expected to answer. My prerogative is to make people feel welcomed and safe, not like I am trying to interrogate them to know more about their lives. If I have ever made you feel this way, I’m sorry.
Third, I could care less what gender you are ooc. If you’re a boy, cool. If you’re a girl, cool. If you’re transgender, cool. It legitimately makes NO difference to me. In fact, those of you saying that I am searching for dick OOC are completely in the wrong, considering I more or less have a girlfriend at this point in time. So no, I do not want to have sex with random men, nor do I want to talk only to males OOC. I have plenty of male friends OOC that can vouch for this fact. Fourth, I don’t know who you are, but I have no idea why you’re mentioning my sex life at all. Wherever you got your information from is completely wrong. I do not talk about my sex life that freely, nor do I sleep around. If I ever told you personally about my sex life, you would know this. So, if I never told you anything personally, please keep that information out of your mouth. You do not know about who I’ve slept with, how many people I’ve slept with, or why I slept with anyone that I did.
Fifth, I haven’t been on tumblr in months. I should be irrelevant by now. No one should care about what I’m doing or why or when. I don’t have time for tumblr and therefore don’t have time for this pointless drama. I don’t know why I keep being brought up after long periods of silence. I don’t know what I’ve done to any of you to warrant this. Yes, both I and my muse have made mistakes in the past, but I also apologize and try to work past those. I would never call someone out OOC for an IC issue, and that should not be happening now. The vent blog has turned into a place for cyber bullying. Where I should be writing a paper for my final, I’m here typing this, because I’m tired of seeing shit written by people that know nothing about me IC or OOC.
Lastly, if you have a problem with me, simply get rid of me. I have said this before and I will say it again. I don’t like knowing I upset people or make them uncomfortable, but I will no longer apologize for who I am. Instead of getting butthurt over something from months ago and putting it on the ventblog for all to see, forget about me and move on with your life. Be an adult.
KRP is a hobby. It is a place for escape. It is not a place for people to spend all of their time and make people get upset OOC. Please, everyone, grow up and have fun with writing. Have fun with KRP like you used to.
