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Now imagine you get a stickman drawn on your back, but the person who draws it tells you it's a tree. What do you do? Will you draw a stickman on the next person's back -- or listen to what you got told by a person you would normally trust? We have done this experiment today, and let me assure you when I tell you the result of each of the five groups was ... a tree.

Sometimes, we don't listen to our own judgement (or don't even make it) but listen to what others say instead. But what the hell has that got to do with KRP?!

Maybe you figured it out, maybe you didn't. But what I'm trying to show you is how easy it is to start rumors -- and to believe them. Thanks to blogs like krpventblog, there is quite a number of people which you probably heard rumors of. I even saw others saying they'd rather stay away from people who get mentioned there. Why is that? Why would you let your own judgement get affected by something others say? The funniest thing is, you don't even know who those anonymous persons are. You probably don't even know and therefore can't trust them. So why do you listen to them? Think about it. It's kinda funny, isn't it?

Now that you heard a lot of people saying that (for example) "hxnryz is so fucking thirsty", you will most probably pay a lot of attention to my threads with females (or whoever) and consider even a smile or compliment as me being thirsty. You would, wouldn't you? Or maybe you wouldn't, which would be great. But you and I know that there are people only paying attention to the negative, ignoring everything else around it.

Here's a nice video. Watch it, then keep reading. (Some might know it already.)

So. Did you notice it, or didn't you? If it's the latter -- why? Simple, because you focused on what mattered. In other words, you focused on what you were told.

You read about hxnryz on krpventblog that he is constantly complaining about losing followers. You go through my blog, see one single post like that, and be like "wow, what a whining little bitch". Not all of you are like that, of course -- but some are. Because you found the proof of what people were saying about me -- or, well, that's what you think. But you ignore the fact that I made only one of those posts in months. You ignore that, other than that, I'm never whining about anything. Yet you decide to agree with those rumors, saying I'm always complaining. (Again, I just took myself as an example.)

That's why I'd like you to try and focus not on the things you hear about a person, but make your own picture, too. Maybe this example wasn't the greatest, but you get what I mean. Again: try and focus on other things, too. Try it now. Here you go.

Do you get what I mean? And to get back to what I said before, each and everyone of us has different experiences and see things differently. Only because you caught someone in a bad moment, it doesn't mean they're a rude bitch.

And with that, I wanna get deeper into this subject and talk to you about mobbing. A lot of the people in KRP have experienced it, whether in the internet or in real life, whether as the victim or bully. I don't think I have to tell you mobbing is wrong, but maybe some of you aren't aware of what mobbing actually does to someone. Especially if they already have to deal with things you don't even know about.

To try and change that, I want you to watch this.

Now, who knows if the person behind the account you're shit talking about is in a position like that boy was? It's been mentioned a lot of times that some people come here to escape their problems from the 'real world'. I do not ask you to befriend everyone, or support and comfort them, or any of that. But next time you're about to call someone an asshole or anything else that could hurt someone's feelings, publicly on a blog like krpventblog, I want you to remember what mobbing does to people.

I know that there are people here who think it's ridiculous to be depressed about something that happens on the internet. Yes. You can have your opinion, I'm not gonna take it from you. But the internet isn't all there is to someone's life. Maybe what happens on here can tell a person that even on the internet, you are worthless. Annoying, hated, unwanted. What if this person gets that feeling at school already? Or in their family? Or even both?! What if they come here, having found a place to be happy at, and then people make them feel this way?

I'm not gonna give any answers to these questions, because I think most of you are able to answer them themselves.

Of course, life isn't gonna be a ride on a unicorn -- life is hard, there will be ups and downs. You will make mistakes. People learn from their mistakes, don't they? But if we don't tell them what they did wrong, they'll never learn. But instead of sending an anonymous messages, saying "ugh hxnryz needs to stop using emojis because it's so fucking annoying", why don't you try something like this: "I wish hxnryz would stop using emojis in his threads, because it's really confusing for me to read." This is just an example. But do you know what would be even better? To not only be negative. Example: "I really like the way hxnryz expresses himself, but I wish he would stop using emojis in his threads." This would make the person you complain about feel a whole lot better. Plus, the chance they are gonna accept your criticism is a whole lot bigger. Trust me.

Of course I know that a lot of you will just tap their forehead at the things I said and suggested, and that this will have no influence or whatsoever to any of you. Though, let me be honest, I wish it will make at least some of you realize the one or other thing, so you can try and change it.

No one is ever gonna get along with everyone -- and wouldn't that be boring, anyway? But if you don't like someone, just avoid them. It can't be too hard. If you are mad at someone, tell them why. Don't make yourself seem bigger than you are by spreading rumors about others. In the end, sooner or later, it will only make you a whole lot smaller.