Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

for all those empty journals you may have and don’t know what to do with.

ᯓ★ˎˊ˗ “BETTER SELF” JOURNAL — a journal dedicated to your journey of self-growth and development. this journal can include a variety of things including goals and aspirations, routines, inspirational quotes, etc. it can also include lists of aids such as wellness youtubers and podcasts, motivating media, workouts or foods you’d like to try, and more. this can help increase motivation and make the process of better living easier and more organized.

ᯓ★ˎˊ˗ SAVED POSTS JOURNAL — this journal is brilliant for those who may save a lot of posts with ideas they want to try on social media. going back through your saved posts and having a journal dedicated to writing down any ideas or lists may increase your chances or putting those ideas into action and even help combat doomscrolling to a degree. (credit to wellwithzelle on tiktok for the idea and special thanks to bluujelly here on tumblr showing it to me!)

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