Driven

this is a soft reminder to tell you that there will be better days ahead. keep pushing forward. no matter what you do, don’t give up just yet. you’re going to succeed. remind yourself that you can and you will. continue to motivate yourself just right before wanting to give up. you’ll get through this!

I used to think it was important to have common interests with the person that you are in a relationship with but now I think it is more important to be similar in other aspects. like how kind you are. how you treat the people you care about, how you treat strangers. how you deal with anger. how you deal with pain. and not necessarily dealing with all these things the same way but being perceptive enough to understand what action each situation calls for. it’s important for both people to be on the same page about what that action should be. it’s important to me to have that kind of synchrony.

i distracted myself and thought i was healing