💫 Your situation now and what's coming for you next 💫
Hi again! Let's take a look at your current situation,what's happening in your life and what's coming for you next. This is a general reading so take only what resonates with you.
Right away, I can see that you have gone through a lot. A LOT. And right now, you feel completely exhausted and drained. It's not even that you want to give up at this point,you just can't go on anymore. You want to lie down and rest, maybe never get up again. Whatever you have been going through is hard, tiring, a nonstop battle that feels hopeless. You don't know what to do, where to go, or who to ask for help.
This situation in your life has been happening maybe for a very long time. Maybe it's something you’ve always had to deal with since you can remember. What I can see and feel is that you can't really see a way out of it, because no matter what you do, things seem to always turn out worse,or improve for a little while and then go back to point zero, like a bad cosmic joke.
Maybe you're mad, maybe you're just numb, maybe you're thinking, "Well, this situation will never end, I have to accept it as it is," or "This person is never going to change."
I see two groups of people in this reading. First let's talk about the ones who will give up,because you'll realize you deserve better. You're not meant to be suffering and carrying whatever you're carrying, be it a problem or a person, for the rest of your life like dead weight. You have to live. You deserve peace, and you deserve freedom.
This group is tied more to relationships,and not only romantic ones. I see that this group has a lot going on in their families, friendship groups, and jobs. Whatever this connection is, you'll see that first, you’re not wrong and you’re not asking too much either. Second, you'll see that in order to have peace,to have your life and mental health improved,you have to give up this person or this group of people. They're not adding anything good to your life. Actually, their presence in your life is what makes it feel miserable for you.
When you realize that, you'll be filled with this amazing sense of peace and freedom. Putting yourself first is not wrong. Setting boundaries is not wrong. Saying no is not wrong. The most important person in your life is always yourself.
Society drilled self-sacrifice into people so they could be abused without revolting or asking why they were treated badly. People feel guilty when they step up for themselves because it feels like they’re being ungrateful, when in reality, they’re right.
To put it simply,in this situation, it’s either you or them. Are you going to sacrifice your peace, freedom, mental, and physical health so you don't look bad? Honestly, I think this is a pretty dumb move. I'm sorry, but it is.
If you're not at peace with yourself, then your whole life derails. If you give up who you really are so you can keep a toxic situation going because you're scared of what people will think,I'm telling you, people will talk either way. And somehow, no matter what you do, it’ll still be your fault.
The other group in this pile will take a break. Really. You'll drop everything all at once and take a break. How long? I don't know. But you can't keep going on like you are right now. You NEED a break. Obviously people will talk, but this is YOUR time.
I feel that this group self-sacrifices a lot and puts everyone first but themselves. So, you'll take a break,be it from homemaking, from your job, from a relationship, from a career, from a project. It'll be like, "That's it, I did what I could to the best of my abilities, and now I'm stepping away."
You may feel guilty at first, but this is the right call. And in doing so, while you're resting, I see a lot of realizations coming to you. You'll re-evaluate your life until now, what you did, what you want for your future. Things will become clearer for you because you took a step out of the picture, and now you can see it clearly, without the confusion or the stress of it all.
And this ties to what’s coming from both groups, if you take this break,if you step away and let go of your situation once and for all. It’s a restart. It can be moving on from the relationships, career, job, or projects you’re involved in. It can be moving out of your home or city — but actually, I see that many of you will be moving out of your country, even to countries on the other side of the world.
This moving out will come through opportunities. Because when you clear your life of everything and everyone that’s blocking you, things will flow naturally for you. Whatever it is, you'll be extremely successful,it'll be like being at the right place at the right time most of the time.You'll notice a lot of coincidences and synchronicities. You won't believe your luck.
And for people who are involved in toxic connections,because you cut out those people, because you set boundaries, because you chose yourself first, the connections you always wanted to experience will come to you naturally too.You'll find your tribe: people who truly love, appreciate, and respect you.
So, let's reiterate,for the people involved in toxic connections, be it romantic, professional, family relations, or friendships: you know this is not good for you, and it's either you or them in this situation. Choose yourself, and your life will flow the way you always wanted.Sometimes we put a person on a pedestal like they're a god. For some reason, we want to make it work — we want them to be something they're unwilling to be, or give us the love and appreciation they don't want to give. Letting those people go will show you that you deserve better.After you're out of it and free, you'll gradually see that you were right all along. You'll keep your peace of mind, knowing you did the right thing in choosing yourself, regardless of third-party opinions.
For the people taking a break: enjoy your me time for as long as you want, however you want it. You deserve it. You'll get a lot of guidance because you're on the right path. Don't worry if you feel guilty or if someone shames you because you're not breaking your back doing everything and picking up after them,you're doing the right thing.
To both groups: take the opportunities that will appear to you and trust that they'll change your life for the better. Don't be afraid of moving away,it'll work out just fine. Actually, it'll feel like all you needed to do was to move out, and then everything starts to fall into place and align with what you always wanted.Sometimes we're not where we should be, and that can block us. By moving away, new energy will flow through your life with ease.
I think that's it. Be free. Prioritize yourself. Protect your peace, and life will stop being a fight and start to feel like heaven for you.
This group has an interesting feel. There's a lot of confusion and the sense that you've lost something in a fight or conflict. This might have legal implications. Maybe you were falsely accused or sued and lost. Maybe someone betrayed you and stole from you. This seems to be mostly money-related.
I can see you were tricked, robbed. Maybe you had gone into business with someone and somehow they tricked you out of it and got away with it. Maybe you were unfairly terminated from your job. Or you had a business and someone accused you of plagiarism.
If this is relationship-related, then a person who was close to you betrayed you somehow. Maybe you found out they talked about you behind your back or tried to frame you in your job. Maybe it’s a family member that overstepped boundaries with your money, and now they’re playing the victim,and maybe you’re the one that looks bad right now.
Either way, I see that this involves money loss, material loss. Maybe you're even filing for bankruptcy. The thing is, whatever happened, it was not your fault! You did your best, and when the fallout came, you fought every and each way you could, but ultimately you lost.
If this is a relationship, you're very confused, because you really thought that person was your friend and that you could trust them,but they have gone behind your back and fucked you over. I see that you were maybe building something for yourself, for the future. Maybe you were saving for a house or a car, or if you have children, for college. Maybe you wanted to stop working for others and have your own business. Maybe you wanted to protect your family’s future, so you set up a trust fund.
Whatever it is, it was a dream, and you were excited for it. And everything was going perfectly fine until this person or group (if this involved legal battles, third parties, business competitors, etc.) came along.
Doesn’t matter if this is a person close to you, family, friend, partner,or someone at your job, another business competing with yours, etc. They’re maybe sociopaths, unable to empathize with anyone. They’ll do whatever it takes to get what they want. You didn't see it coming, maybe because you’ve known them for a long time or because you would never have thought they could be such monsters,but those types of people are such pathological liars that they can fool people through their whole lives, until you are no longer interesting to them. Then they drop you like it’s nothing (for them, it isn’t).
So now you're obviously confused, hurt, maybe calling yourself dumb and berating yourself. I'm gonna repeat it again: it was not your fault.If this situation involved a legal battle, I’ll say that there might have been bribes involved. Maybe they had friends inside who influenced the judge to rule in their favor. If this is job or love-related, they might have lied and manipulated others too.You only saw it when it blew up in your face, but I feel that this was brewing for a long, long time behind your back.
So, what now? Maybe you're thinking, "I've lost everything, I don't even know what to do." First, take a step back to relax and heal. Be gentle with yourself. Clean up,do everything that you can do at the moment.
I feel that help will come to you, maybe from a place you're not expecting, so keep your mind open. And maybe the hardest thing to do now, so really rest and gather yourself up before doing it, is starting again,because despite what happened, what you were doing is meant to be finished, whatever it is. You can’t give up. You'll be majorly successful in whatever your plans and dreams are, but you can’t give up.
The picture I chose for this pile represents you in the future. What happened to you is a distant memory because you made it, and you're on top of your game now. It was just a stepping stone for you.This experience will make you wiser. Maybe you were a little bit too trusting before, or you didn’t know how your line of business really worked, or you trusted people too fast instead of really checking their credentials and background. You’ll not be making the same mistakes ever again.
I said it was not your fault,and it wasn’t. You’re a decent human being, and if those people were decent, they would have helped you instead of taking advantage of a situation that could have been easily solved.
Same thing for close relationships. You loved them and trusted them, and they saw that as a weakness to be exploited. Those people will get what they deserve in due time, so don’t waste your time worrying about them or trying to get some sort of revenge. Either they'll get caught doing it again with another person, or they'll mess with the wrong person.
So,reiterating it: take time to gather yourself up. Do what you can at the moment. Heal. Then start up again. Help is on its way. You're going to make it, and in the end, it'll be better than you ever dreamed,because now you're more careful. Now you know better.
This reading is about emotional betrayal.
I see third parties, lies, gaslighting, abuse… Really, it’s a gnarly situation. What I’m seeing with this pile is that maybe you were in this relationship for a while now, or for a long time. It’s not new. Maybe it’s was on-and-off, but you always went back,until you couldn’t anymore, because you still have a little bit of self-respect.
For some, if this was a third party situation,it was someone you knew,maybe even your friend, someone from your close circle, family, or from work if you had some sort of business with your ex.
I get that this relationship might have started perfectly for some of you; you couldn’t believe your luck because this person seemed perfect. I’m getting that they used to do a thing called love bombing,so when they stopped, you immediately thought something was wrong, but with YOU instead of them. But it’s okay; this is a tactic abusers often use. You’re not dumb for falling for it or for trusting them. You’re a decent, empathetic person.
Ugh, maybe some of you were already married to this person,and maybe for a long time too. Maybe you even have children together. I can see it took a while for some of you to notice strange behaviors, because some of them still acted like they were totally in love with you. Maybe you were warned by friends or people close to you that your ex wasn’t who they said they were.
I see that for some people, this person had more than one relationship going on,maybe even more than one family, one not knowing about the other. I also see that for some of you, your ex already had a relationship when they met you and never ended things with that other person. That means you became the other woman/man without even knowing.
Some of your exes were abusive.I see more psychological and verbal abuse than physical, but it doesn’t matter since it’s all equally harmful. Lots of gaslighting, for example,they would straight up lie to your face to make you think you were crazy.
Anyway, you found out,and now you’re obviously devastated. You absolutely have to take some time for yourself. I also recommend you look for psychological help if you can, because the damage this person did might not seem urgent now, but it will show up later. Take care of yourself in that area.
The truth is, that person and you would never have worked out. They were hindering your life, sucking your energy out like energetic vampires do,that's what they are.Maybe throughout the whole time you were with them, everything seemed to go wrong for you,that’s how energetically heavy and toxic they are.
But now, what’s coming for you: after you heal, I see you focusing on yourself for a while. You won’t be interested in relationships for a long time,which, given what happened, is totally understandable. And you’ll get the most amazing glow-up ever. I mean it,all areas of your life will improve, not just your looks. It’s like dropping that dead weight of a person lifted some sort of curse you didn’t even know you were carrying.You’ll feel it in your bones,your energy, your mood, your thoughts,everything will feel lighter and better. That’s how you’ll also raise your standards, because at some point you’ll be feeling so good and happy with yourself that you won’t accept anything or anyone who doesn’t add to your happiness. No drama. No games. You’ll never date the types you dated before ever again.
Some might say you became picky. Yes you did. And that’s exactly why your life will look and feel so amazing.
I honestly see you not thinking about being in a relationship or with someone at all. Maybe during this phase, you’ll have a few hookups if you’re interested, but that’s about it. And then,you’ll meet THE ONE.I’m not kidding. You’ll meet someone you thought only existed in romance books or K-dramas. They’ll check all your boxes for what you've always wanted in a partner, and you’ll meet them at the right time,when you’re happy, fulfilled, and enjoying your life without worrying about what others think.
And you will marry. Yay!!!In fact, you’ll, have the most dreamy, perfect wedding ever,just like you always imagined. One of the cards I got for you at the end of this reading was The Lovers, which means this won’t be just any love,this is fated, divine love.It’ll be easy, too. You won’t feel like you’re the only one putting in the effort. In fact, there won’t be any effort at all. Whereas with your ex it was always an uphill battle, with this person it’ll feel almost too easy,but that’s because true, healthy love doesn’t make you suffer or fight just to stay together. True love just is. It flows. Things fall into place easily. I see that you two won’t even fight,you’ll talk and solve things calmly instead of getting into screaming matches.
So, to reiterate: now is the time to focus on yourself. To heal. To take care of your mental health. To reinvent yourself and start over like a blank slate. And when you can,have fun, enjoy yourself, and let the relationship you’ve always wanted come to you.