in my control

my actions

the way i respond

my values & goals

my boundaries

my beliefs

my choices

my perspective & mindset

what i take responsibility for

what i focus on

how i spend my time

how i engage

in my influence

my health

my wellness & wellbeing

my connections

relationship dynamics

my reputation

certain aspects of the future

my energy

my environment

my finances

not in my control

the past

my memories

regrets

others feelings

others thoughts

others words

others beliefs

others behaviors & responses

politics

world conflict

aging

illness

loss

the weather

    So when you see them again, you can tell them about everything you got to see and experience. – Guest Submission

pasta with parmesan cheese    – Guest Submission

hi angels! here is a small list of my ins and outs for 2025! ins meaning things i want more of in my life and outs meaning things i want less of. this time of year can be so busy and hectic, normally there’s alot going on academically but also the pressure of new goals and plans for the month can get a bit overwhelming, it’s important to are a moments to rest and focus on the year as a whole.

INS ໒꒱ིྀ༝⁺

digital camera pics

pilates

painted nails

journalling

writing

listening to records

esotericism

pink!!

dinner parties

bigger words

being an academic weapon

driving

making memories

sewing more

loving my alone time

iced matchas

finding everyday joy

sylvia plath

long form content

thrifting

walks

writing letters

respecting myself

OUTS ໒꒱ིྀ༝⁺

too much screen time

procrastination

self doubt

envy

overthinking

being dragged down

microtrends

skipping my skincare

short form content

lack of self identity

anxiety

creative indecision (just write!)

comfort zones

negative body image

others opinions affecting me

doomscrolling…

thank you angels, just a short post today! tell me what your ins and outs for the year are - i love hearing all of your goals!