Just watched Obsession in the cinema and these are my raw thoughts
This film highlighted the emotional, psychological side of abuse in a relationship that I don't think I ever saw. I understand physical abuse, but the mental side of abuse in a relationship I never really explored. Of course, Nikki wasn't herself but Wishnikki definitely made me think twice.
The first time I was scared of Wishnikki was the night after she stayed at Bear's house and they went to work the next day. When he was talking to Ian, Wishnikki just kept staring at them (?!) Like huh...
The second time I was scared is after the relationship montage when they're at the restaurant and Bear confronts Wishnikki about her dad. That face switch and emotion adjustment was WIIIIIIIIILD.
Every single time Nikki managed to gain control of her body, I jumped! Especially the first night they kiss and at the games night before she hurts her face.
I understand this is in indie-movie, but after he made the wish, everything escalated so quickly. Normally in movies, when someone does something/something random happens that alters reality, everything changes the next day. I'm thinking of Shaun of the Dead, Aladdin, Wanted etc. etc. This was fairly instant.
I feel so bad for Sarah who Wishnikki ended. Like she got into the school she wanted to and will never attend. Also, the fact that Bear just went along with Wishnikki and disposed of Sarah's remains is CRAAAZY. Jail time. Immediately.
I'm confused by the phone conversation he had when he called the number on the back of the package. Who was he speaking to in the end? And also, a small part of me wanted him to suffer because you were asked if you wanted to cancel your wish and you're out here bargaining?!! GIRL IF YOU DON'T CANCEL YOUR WISH!!
When Wishnikki was digging up the carpet, I initially thought she was breaking out and had coldsores/acne all over her. When the camera panned down I was OMG. This girl is on one.
DON'T EVEN GET ME STARTED ABOUT THE WAY NIKKI'S BODY WAS MOVING! The first time she did it when watching him sleep I was sooooooo terrified. I was hoping he would get up and switch the lights on. Then the second times at the end of the film, I was like no WAY. Do you remember how her body moved after Bear told Wishnikki he loved her?
Ian is a tramp for sleeping with Nikki and making Bear believe he actually had a chance with her.
Do you remember when she taped up the door and he had to leave?
Also, I genuinely think Bear is trash. He was scared of her and couldn't handle how on-edge Wishnikki made him feel. Why he didn't break up with her or just try to leave is BEYOND ME. Abuser FUHREAL.
When he first told Wishnikki that he was going to the boys-only game night and she switched off the shower (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?)
When she weed on the carpet like an animal marking her territory (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?)
When she kept smiling in that uncomfortable position like she was cast in the smile movie (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!)
When she broke the car door to get to Sarah (?!?!?!?!?!?)
When she kept Sarah in the house after doing what she did to her in the car (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!??!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?!?!?)
When she was threatening her own survival in front of Bear just before Ian walked in the house (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?)
When Bear walked in the house and she was in the corner yet again (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!!?)
When she was banging on the door because Bear locked himself in the bathroom (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?)
When she commemorated the cat the morning after (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?)
Every time she'd read a poem or say something to Bear when he expressed interest in either of them taking a break from each other (?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!)
I don't think this film is as deep as Get Out or Us, for example, but it was a cool watch. Definitely the first film that made me jump in a long time. Even after some recommended I watch it and told me there were jumpy bits, part of my body was prepared for it. Even welcomed it. But boy, there were at least two times I screamed in the cinema today.