We The Blizzard

Here’s a short list of things only you can decide: 

- Which pronouns are the right ones for you 

- Which name is the right one for you 

- If you want to have romantic relationships 

- If you want to have sex 

- Which kinds of sexual activity, if any, you enjoy or want to try 

- If you want to take hormones or get surgery 

- How you label yourself 

- How specific you want your labels to be 

- Who you want to come out to 

- Which questions you are comfortable with 

- How much information about your identity you want to share online 

- If you want to present feminine, masculine, gender-neutral or any mix of those 

- How exactly you want your relationships to be like 

- If you want to marry and have kids

Your parents can’t decide that.  Your friends can’t decide that. People on Tumblr can’t decide that. “Lgbt+ allies” can’t decide that. Your church can’t decide that. I can’t decide that. 

Nobody but you can decide that for you. 

With all my love,