wefflesthings

They are my everything

love and beauty in the tags of this post. we are all humans and loving is all we can hope to do on this earth

This looks so cool

I feel like parallel timelines are also established as canon in Downpour because of the Echo near LttM, she says your perceptions will soon part but you will meet again. When you go back to her, it seems that she does not remember ever meeting you before.

Being like. Post-suicidal is so strange. Like hiiiii everybody im new I spent a good chunk of my life languishing and have like 3 or 4 lived experiences. But now I'm ready to fuck and party or whatever. Can we be friends. Im so happy to be here. Can we be friends

This is literally what I'm going through right now and it's the worst. What do you mean I spent about a decade feeling like a dead corpse and now I have to catch up with years of experience that everyone else my age has.

I wish depression were an emergency. I wish someone could take one look at how sick I am and go “oh my god, we need to get you to a hospital!” and then when we get there I get rushed into surgery and the surgeons say “it’s a good thing you brought her here when you did, this is a seriously advanced case” and then they put me under and spend the next ten hours pulling metres of long, sticky black strands of gunk out of my body, throwing it immediately into an incinerator so that it can’t infect anyone else. And then they could stitch me back up and I could rest a few days, and when I leave the hospital everyone can see how much better I am and they congratulate me saying “well done, you’ve been so brave, I’m so glad you’re ok. I love you.”

it really pisses me off when adults sit there and drill it into kids’ heads that their youth is fleeting and tell them things like “enjoy your childhood while it lasts because this is the best it’s gonna get”. why are you telling children that adulthood is the worst thing they can experience? seriously what the fuck is wrong with you, why are you trying to make them feel like growing up is a fate worse than death? trying to convince them their life is over before it even begins? i’m tired of that shit. because tell my why my 12 year old cousin told me when she turns 30 she’ll be so depressed she’s just gonna cry all the time. what the fuck. kids don’t need to hear that their already stressful and overwhelming lives are never going to get better, that the abuse and lack of autonomy they face is apparently the highlight of their lives. they need to hear about adults who are happy to be alive and happy to have made it to their age. they need to know that growing up rules, it’s a gift and life does not have to suck for them, that they have a future that’s worth sticking around for. this rhetoric is so damaging mentally and i’m about to start hitting the adults who parrot it. i’m sorry you hate your life but you don’t get to dump your issues on these kids. don’t piss me off and leave these babies alone!

also telling kids that their childhood is pointless if they didn't work hard and slave and be mentally exhausted from studying all the time because "if you don't get this degree/job that I expected you to even though you are quite literally dying and suicidal and need professional help" is so fucking damaging cause its like wow you are automatically not their child and congrats your existence was a mistake and you should stop wasting oxygen ig 🙂 sitting your kids down so you can talk to them should not make them scared for their fucking life they shouldn't be shaking getting a panic attack bawling their eyes out because the thought of being around you scares them 🙂 telling your kids that they will achieve nothing in life and not a single aspect of them is useful and they are not gonna have a future because everyone else is gonna be rich and successful is also not helping their crippling anxiety and depression and a fuck ton of other mental health issues they're having to deal with 🙂🙂

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the oldest reblogs for this post that i can find are from january 2nd of 2013. this can has been getting kicked around tumblr for almost 13½ years now