because

Bad credit? No credit? First time buyer? First time baby? No legs? 8 legs? You a spider? Are you a Spider trying to buy a house?

Men fall back on “you deserve more/ you’re better than me” when they’re confronted by transformation and by a dynamic person who is prompting them to confronting their humanity but are too cowardly to traverse that And it’s acceptable to say something as empty as that because 1. It enforces the role of Woman as Divine - stripping us of our humanity by elevating our status to Unattainable by virtue 2. It removes any accountability frm the man’s part, it effectively shifts the “blame” onto the woman, that the enigmatic deficiency is in the woman’s possession alone 3. Reinforces masculine deficiency. They can continue navigating relationships and friendships and interactions shallowly and incidentally. The entire life cycle of patriarchal masculine identity is engineered to keep men spiritually and emotionally paralyzed and mutilated, but it is packaged as strength or liberation. The irony is there is such a deep fear of castration and that manifests as panic and fleeing when they encounter dynamism and transformation and love etc - but the real castration lies in these deeply lacking and static relationships and bonds that are formed instead . That’s funny to me

Water tastes wild good sometimes. Like usually it’s whatever but sometimes you get a sip and it’s like god damn.

This puppy has such big dreams, I just know it.

straight men repress their feelings so severely with their friends and family, and then they come across a girl (whos been socialized to be Empathetic and Nurturing) and they find that they can tell this girl about their Feelings ! everythings great she’s The One ! in reality they just have a normal human bond but actually connecting with anyone is so foreign to men and their emotionally barren male relationships that it seems like something great and wonderful. so now girl is put on a pedestal that she’ll eventually fall from bc she’s human and not just a Male Feelings Receptacle and everyone loses all bc fathers refuse to cry in front of their sons