I understand their relationship is complicated, but does Wanda love Magneto?
Two things: 1. If you haven’t, you need to read this post first. 2. I wrote this in a hurry and I’m sure it’s missing some stuff, but I have to go.
This is a complicated question because superheroes. comics are complicated and vast and self-contradictory. Characters shift over time, and part of the reason for the shift in Wanda and Magneto’s relationship is the shift he has made as a character and how perceptions of him have shifted.
For some writers (Nicieza, Stern), the answer to this question was undeniably no. It was a loud, screaming, “Django Maximoff is my real father” no, but in recent years, that’s gotten more complicated.
If I were to track the development (starting with the reveal of him as her father), it would go like this:
Mantlo (in the first volume of Vision and the Scarlet Witch) wrote the issue where it was revealed to the characters they were related. He showed her being compassionate towards Magneto, emotional about the reveal but not negative, at least not after she found out. He’d probably say that she would come to love Magneto because he’s family.
Stern wrote Avengers #234, which has a flashback scene to the reveal in V&tSW. He decided that, right after crying and being overtaken with emotion, Wanda came to the conclusion that no, she just hates Magneto, the end. Already, in the second issue, we’ve gone from “maybe” to “definitely no.”
Then you have Englehart in the second volume of Vision & the Scarlet Witch who showed her allowing him to be part of her life, but also yelling at him, as Englehart Wanda was known to do. This was the first time their familial relationship was truly complicated. She invited him to Thanksgiving dinner, but it was more out of a sense of guilt and then she yelled at him. Everything was awkward. Wanda was also angry at Magneto over Magda’s suicide during this time, but she never confronted him about it. The answer here is unclear. (Also, shortly after this, Magneto was shown to have pictures of Wanda and her kids on his desk. Their relationship wasn’t all bad.)
Next was John Byrne in Avengers West Coast, but I’m not sure what he thought of Wanda’s relationship with Magneto other than that he thought Wanda was Magneto and mostly he just didn’t want her to have kids anymore. (A different story for a different time.) They got along during this story, though he was using her and she was randomly evil and… Can we just not count this?
Magneto was in a weird state for much of the 90′s. There was a clone that seemed to be him with amnesia and also there was a giant monster thing that was a combination of him and Xavier… But the 90′s did contain a couple of AUs (Wolverine: Days of Future Past and Age of Apocalypse) where it was clear that she loved him. In those AUs, at least.
Wanda met with Magneto’s clone in one issue of Avengers that Mark Waid wrote in the 90′s. She thought it was him with amnesia, and she was afraid of him more than anything. But she empathized with him and protected the Magneto clone when she realized he wasn’t like the person she had known as a kid (even though she didn’t know it really wasn’t him). I think Waid might say yes, she loves him.
The 90′s also had a couple of flashback issues that dealt with her time in the Brotherhood, which contradicted each other as to whether or not she sympathized with him on a personal level while she was working for him.
In early 2000, Kurt Busiek wrote an issue of Avengers where Pietro, who had been working for Magneto in Genosha, showed up at the Avengers mansion. Wanda was upset he was there at all. She felt Magneto had stolen her brother away from her, and she started screaming at Pietro that all Magneto had ever done was use her and she hated him and Django Maximoff was her real dad anyway!!! She rejected him as her father outright and definitely did not love him. It was that discussion that would define how writers saw their relationship, especially Nicieza in Magneto Dark Seduction, until Bendis came along.
What Bendis did was say that Wanda did love Magneto, but that she was angry at him for… abandoning her (it makes no sense to anyone else either). At the beginning of House of M, she didn’t seem to hate him. It was him she called for at the end of Disassembled, and being around him and hearing his voice calmed her down when she was in a coma. But then he had to go and kill Pietro, and that simply would not do. She loved him and hated him at the same time, as people sometimes do.
Heinberg in Children’s Crusade just wrote her as loving him and them as not having any lingering issues. They hugged.
Then Bendis came back in AVX. I touched on his handling of that the second go around in the post linked above.
Remender tried to combine a lot of these things into “Wanda is bitter and angry towards Magneto and hates him, but is also afraid of him and feels empathy for him but is afraid to acknowledge that she loves him deep down.” And then he made her not Magneto’s daughter at all.
After all that, my answer is yes. Not a simple yes, but it’s much easier to say she saved his life during AVX because she loves him and she hides that out of fear of being left again and righteous anger over his treatment of her and her brother than it is to figure out how the answer is no. To make the answer no, you have to ignore the latter half of this list. You can reconcile her rage and the screaming and the rejections by saying there is hatred there too (and sadness and fear and pain) and that whatever love she feels for him is kind of irrational (and she knows it) and this is a vulnerable part of herself that she doesn’t want to share and doesn’t really understand. But you can’t explain why it was him she called out for at her worst moment if she hates him and nothing else.
Magneto is a part of Wanda’s family (screw you, Marvel, I reject your reality and substitute my own). She is a lot like him, but those aren’t parts of herself that she likes. He’s someone she feels great empathy for and tries to understand (though, by her own admission, she doesn’t quite succeed), but he’s also someone who is often violent and almost never good at keeping promises. She can’t risk trusting him again or letting him in like she tried to do during his first reformation period. It would hurt too much to be betrayed after everything that’s happened, and she would have no one to blame but herself.Â
To complicate things further, he’s a symbol of a time in Wanda’s life when she was weak and didn’t have control, before she became an Avenger and learned magic and had real power and agency. He represents vulnerability and fear and all the things she fought to get away from, as well as the dark side of herself. And he used her, and Wanda is very, very tired of being used.
So, yes, she does, but she would never say it.