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Almost two years ago I was approached by a man at a bar. He was very handsome— tall, with great cheek bones and the kind of eyes that crinkle at the corners with every smile. That man asked to buy me and my friends a drink. 

Not wanting to give him the wrong idea, we turned him down. None of us were single, and we’d all had experiences where men have expected things from us after providing seemingly generous acts of charity. 

That man spent the rest of the night harassing us. He followed us around the bar, dumped a beer over my friend’s head when she confronted him, made lewd comments about my ass when I walked passed to go to the bathroom. We tried to tell the bar staff what was happening, but with the room being so crowded, by the time we managed to locate the bouncer, he’d disappeared into a throng of people.

That man approached us when we were on our way to our car. He was verbally aggressive, throwing slurs at us and stepping into our personal space. When I pushed him away, he punched me in the face hard enough to knock me down. When my friend tried to call the police, he slammed her head into a wall. 

We were lucky that after that, he panicked an ran away. It could have been much, much worse.

Bottom line? Fuck you if you think all women want is attention from attractive men. Fuck you for eternity.

Tamara Janice Dobson (May 14, 1947 - October 2, 2006) was an African-American actress and fashion model. Though she appeared in a few films in Hollywood, she became best known for her title roles in the 1973 Blaxploitation film Cleopatra Jones and its 1975 sequel Cleopatra Jones and the Casino of Gold.

Early life

Dobson was born in Baltimore, Maryland on May 14, 1947. She started as a beautician. Dobson started her modeling career doing fashion shows at her school, Maryland Institute College of Art, where she also received her degree in fashion illustration. While studying, she was discovered in 1969 and began to film commercials and modeling.

Career

After school, she moved from Maryland to New York to model and act full-time. Dobson eventually became a fashion model for Vogue Magazine, in addition to modeling for Essence magazine. She was also in TV commercials for Revlon, Fabergé, and Chanel. Dobson is also recognized by the Guinness book of world records as the “Tallest Leading Lady in Film”, standing at 6 foot 2 inches.

Death

Dobson died on October 2, 2006, in her native Baltimore, Maryland, of complications from pneumonia and multiple sclerosis, at the age of 59.

Filmography

Come Back, Charleston Blue (1972) - (uncredited)

Fuzz (1972) - Rochelle

Cleopatra Jones (1973) - Cleopatra Jones

Cleopatra Jones and the Casino of Gold (1975) - Cleopatra Jones

Norman… Is That You? (1976) - Audrey

Murder at the World Series (TV) (1977) - Lisa

Chained Heat (1983) - Duchess

Amazons (TV) (1984) - Rosalund Joseph (Last appearance)

Tramaine Hawkins (born Tramaine Aunzola Davis on October 11, 1951) is an American gospel music singer. She has won two Grammy Awards, two Doves, and 19 Stellar Awards.

Biography

Hawkins was born in San Francisco, California to the late Roland and Lois (Cleveland) Davis. She grew up in the Ephesians Church of God in Christ located in Berkeley, California, pastored by her grandfather, the late Bishop E.E. Cleveland. While still in high school, Hawkins and her friends, Mary McCreary, Elva Mouton, and Vet Stone, had a gospel group called The Heavenly Tones that performed at various venues around the Oakland and San Francisco areas. In 1966 they recorded the album “I Love the Lord” for the Gospel label, part of Savoy Records, and a 45 for the Music City label called “He’s Alright”. When Vet Stone’s older brother Sylvester, better known as Sly Stone, formed Sly & the Family Stone with their brother Freddie and friends Larry Graham, Cynthia Robinson, Jerry Martini, and Greg Errico, The Heavenly Tones were recruited directly out of high school to become Little Sister (band), Sly & the Family Stone’s background vocalists for their recording. Tramaine left the group to focus solely on recording and singing Gospel Music. At the age of 17, she sang on The Edwin Hawkins Singers Choir’s single “Oh Happy Day”. With her distinctive soprano and extensive vocal range, she became better known as a featured soloist with late husband Walter Hawkins’ Love Center Choir as well as The Hawkins Family.

She scored several hits as a solo artist in the 1980s while signed to Light Records and released now-classic albums, such as her 1979 self-titled debut, Tramaine; and its 1983 follow-up Determined. Songs such as “Changed,” “Goin Up Yonder”, “He’s That Kind Of Friend”, Jesus Christ Is The Way" and “Highway” quickly became staples and fan favorites.

Mainstream career

Tramaine was briefly a member of the 1970s soul female singing group Honey Cone. Honey Cone later recorded the R&B hit “Want Ads” that ironically made its way back into the gospel genre by being sampled on Mary Mary’s 2005 hit “Heaven”. She also briefly sang with Andrae Crouch and The Disciples, singing lead on their 1970 release “Christian People.”

Hawkins is both famous and infamous for her mainstream success as a gospel artist. In the mid-1980s, Hawkins signed with A&M Records and released a pair of dance-oriented contemporary gospel albums. Her 1985 A&M debut The Search Is Over yielded dance chart singles such as “Child of the King,” “In the Morning Time,” and the monster club hit “Fall Down (Spirit of Love)”. The latter topped the Billboard Dance Charts to A&M’s delight.

However, Hawkins was somewhat ostracized by her core gospel music audience, who were soured by the lyrically neutral content and heavy mainstream attention her music received. Though “Fall Down” became one of the earliest gospel songs to crossover to mainstream charts, traditional fans balked. Nonetheless, Freedom followed in 1987, producing “The Rock” and its title track as singles. The latter was co-written and produced by The Jacksons.

Nearly 15 years later, “Fall Down” received a resurgence of popularity as gospel singer Kelli Williams recorded a remake of the hit as “Fall Down 2000”, produced by avant garde gospel artist Tonéx. Though the song had not been widely acknowledged in the gospel music community, the more than eight-minute extended dance mix was finally included on Tramaine’s 2001 collection All My Best To You, Vol. 2.

In the new millennium, Tramaine resurfaced on GospoCentric Records with a powerful release, “Still Tramaine”. This album included traditional gospel songs along with a duet with ex-husband, the late Walter Hawkins, on “It’s Your Power”. Also included on “Still Tramaine” was a track titled “Over There” an uptempo track reminiscent of “Fall Down”.

Hawkins won her first Grammy Award in 1981 for her participation performance on The Lords Prayer along with then husband, Walter Hawkins.

Return to form

Following harsh criticism and backlash from the success of her A&M recordings, Hawkins signed with Sparrow and delivered 1988’sThe Joy That Floods My Soul, including the opener “All Things Are Possible.” The stellar set quickly re-endeared Hawkins to her core audience. Between album releases, Tramaine made a famous cameo on MC Hammer’s 1990 pop-gospel hit “Do Not Pass Me By”. She was also honored with a request to sing at the funeral of Sammy Davis, Jr. when the beloved entertainment legend died in May 1990.

Though Joy That Floods was well received, that studio effort would be eclipsed by the release of the concert recording Tramaine Hawkins Live in 1990. The grandiose recording with its sweeping arrangements and show-stopping medleys of fan favorites would become a benchmark in Tramaine’s career. The set eventually vindicated Hawkins in total by winning a much-coveted Grammy Award for Best Traditional Soul Gospel Album in 1991.

Following her triumphant comeback, she became one of the first gospel artists to sign with Columbia Records when she released To A Higher Place in 1994. Following this album’s release, Tramaine took an extended hiatus from recording. New music would not surface until Hawkins’ 2000 cameo appearance on gospel trio Trin-i-tee 5:7’s recorded cover of her signature tune “Highway”.

Following this foreshadowing, Hawkins delivered the tour-de-force studio recording Still Tramaine in 2001 after signing a new contract with GospoCentric Records. The album would also give a nod to her former career as a dance-floor darling featuring Basement Boys club remixes of the single “By His Strength”.

Hawkins again paid final tribute to an African-American legend when she was requested in 2005 to sing at the funeral service of civil rights activist Rosa Parks. Hawkins was also part of the Rosa Parks tribute recording “Something Inside So Strong” from A Celebration of Quiet Strength, featuring other gospel artists such as Vanessa Bell Armstrong and Daryl Coley.

Tramaine has been inducted into the Gospel Hall of Fame. Recently receiving the James Cleveland Lifetime Achievement Award and netting two Stellar Awards for Female Vocalist of the Year and Traditional Female of the Year for her 2007 CD release I Never Lost My Praise (2007). After the release of her second live album, “I Never Lost My Praise”, Tramaine embarked on a church tour across the United States. Lady Tramaine was the special guest along with her lifelong friend, Bishop Walter Hawkins, Bishop Rance Allen, Pastor Daryl Coley, Pastor Andrae’ Crouch, Dorinda Clark-Cole, Karen Clark-Sheard and Joe Ligon of the Mighty Clouds of Joy on the Mary Mary project singing “It will be Worth It”. She also returned to Bobby Jones Gospel in 2012 to perform “I Never Lost My Praise”. In 2014, Tramaine joined fellow Gospel Superstar, Donnie McClurkin on his Duets album; appearing on the track “ My Past.”

Personal life

While married to Walter Hawkins, the couple had two children, a son, Walter “Jamie” Hawkins (Sunny Hawkins) and a daughter, Trystan Hawkins, with three granddaughters and three grandsons.

Hawkins now refers to herself as “Lady Tramaine”. Hawkins lives outside of Sacramento, California with her husband Tommie Richardson, Jr., and has one stepson, Demar (Chasity Richardson), with two step-grandsons.

Discography

Albums

1966: I Love The Lord (Gospel Records) (as member of the gospel group The Heavenly Tones)

1979: Tramaine (Light)

1983: Determined (Light) – #6 Gospel

1986: The Search Is Over (A&M)T – #2 Gospel, #33 R&B

1987: Freedom (A&M)T

1988: The Joy That Floods My Soul (Sparrow/Capitol) – #5 Gospel, #33 Christian

1990: Live (Sparrow) – #2 Gospel, #25 Christian

1994: To A Higher Place (Columbia) – #4 Gospel

2001: Still Tramaine (GospoCentric)T – #5 Gospel, #31 Heatseekers

2007: I Never Lost My Praise: Live (GospoCentric) – #12 Gospel

TDenotes albums released as Tramaine only, as opposed to Tramaine Hawkins.

Compilations

1986: Tramaine Treasury (Light)

1994: All My Best to You (Sparrow) – #38 Gospel

2001: All My Best to You, Vol. 2 (EMI Gospel)

2002: Mega 3 Collection (Light)

2008: Gospel Legacy (Light)

Singles

1966: “He’s Alright” (Music City) (as member of the gospel group The Heavenly Tones)

1986: “Fall Down (Spirit Of Love)” (A&M) – #1 Dance, #7 R&B, UK #60

1986: “Child Of The King” (A&M)

1986: “In The Morning Time” (A&M) – #21 Dance, #26 R&B

“The Rock” (A&M, 1987) - #22 Dance

1987: “Freedom” (A&M)

1992: “Do Not Pass Me By" (MC Hammer with Tramaine Hawkins) (EMI/Capitol) – #62 US, #15 R&B, #14 UK

1995: “I Found The Answer” (Columbia)

1995: “Who’s Gonna Carry You” (Columbia)

2001: “By His Strength” (GospoCentric)

2007: “Excellent Lord” (GospoCentric)

2007: “I Never Lost My Praise” (GospoCentric)

2014 “My Past” (Duet with Donnie McClurkin) (EMI Gospel)