Freddy - It / Its

Something i like just realized i think a big part of the whole like twitter discourse over like feminine transmen has alot to do with like. I think alot of these people genuinely do not understand that just because you currently do not have gender dysphoria does not mean youve never had gender dysphoria. Like using myself as example cuz im very familiar with my own experience i used to hate my body alot. I hated my boobs, i hated my hips, i hated the fact that parts of me were simply just feminine beyond my control. The reason i stopped feeling like that was because online i would see other trans artists draw trans men who were feminine that didnt look like women. Shirtless trans men with breasts, trans men wearing cute "girly" clothing, trans men with long hair. Seeing depictions of trans men that looked like me and finding them attractive, or even just thinking they looked cool or cute, It helped me eventually realize that I dont have to follow the gender norms. I dont have to pass for my identity to be true. I know who I am, my friends know who I am, and thats all that matters. And yes in my specific case I lean more towards being nonbinary, i think of myself as being some sort of creature shaped like a boy. But im still transmasc, and when youre transmasc alot of the online queer community acts like its like. Blasphemous to have any interest in feminimity. Has anyone considered that when i was seen as a girl it was uncomfortable, but after being able to break away from that it became something i felt comfortable indulging in? I think people are just way too comfortable policing other people's identities. Ive seen people that would consider someone like me just "a confused gnc woman," even though ive gotten a hysterectomty and been on hrt for 2 years now. And honestly, i shouldnt even have to clarify that. Even if i hadnt done anything to medically transition that doesnt make my identity any less important. I dont think any trans person should feel like they are REQUIRED to change their bodies to be able to be considered the gender they identify with. Youre just pushing gender norms again under the disguise of being inclusive. And honestly, I don't even think you should need to have dysphoria I don't think being trans should be signified via misery. As much as many of us struggle with it, I think whats alot more important is the joy that is gained via transition. Alot of it feels like jealousy, I see alot of this discourse coming from trans people who are incredibly dysphoric and unhappy, and because of that they think that is what defines the trans experience. Im sorry that you're stuggling with your identity, but don't make that my problem because im happy with an experience that you aren't. I think its just incredibly harmful to try to act like cispassing is like a universal goal for every trans person. If thays what you want for yourself I wish you luck but you don't get to tell other people that's what they have to do.

Happy freaking pride month ummm. I feel like I never see anybody talk about being alloaro idk if its just rare or what but I feel very alone in my orientation. Shoutout to all the alloaros out there love who u want and that includes wanting to love nobody 💚🤍🩶🖤

1 more Obsession post I think a really interesting theme to the movie is also that its made incredibly clear that Bear got EXACTLY what he wished for but is not satisfied despite this. He wished for her to prioritize himself over anybody else, and we even see that for a good while this was WORKING FOR HIM. But once the consequences and inconvenience of his choice starts to be apparent he gets upset. Ive seen alot of posts about the fact that Nikki straight up is not the same personality at all post wish and it seems like he doesn't even notice. It was never about Nikki specifically really, he just wanted a loyal woman that loves him, but not too much that she's in his way. Like yes you could argue that things started to fall apart when he calls her out on her lie and she freaks out, but like. If you really did love this woman how did you not fucking know that she hates her dad to begin with. Actually editing to add like she phrases it as if she doesn't want to go inside because her dying father is in there. HE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW SHE LIVES ALONE BRO

Is this a safespace for transfem Leatherface,,,, I have a drawing but I am scared everyone will hate me forever and beat me with rocks

My cool Lyle headcanon; post visitor hes alot more manic because his meds don't work anymore on account of being huge now :3